in love

في الحب .. book of love

العين تكتب .. Eyes ..... wrote the story
والقلب يقرأ .. Hearts.... read it
والزمن يمحي كل شيء .. Time .. Vanishes everything

Never go to today's war with yesterday's weapons.

To win any battle,
first, we must get to know our true enemy
Second we have to pick and choose our battles,
and finally ... Never go to today's war with yesterday's weapons

injustice

The mark of our ignorance is the depth of our belief in injustice and tragedy. because not all of us are gallant enough to speak for justice, and most of us remain silent on injustice.

True love isn't

True love isn't only based on the things that two people go through together, but it is also based on how real and how hard two people work at loving each other. Love is a difficult emotion for many to handle because though it is easy to fall in love with someone, it is very hard to maintain that love for the rest of a couples lifetime.
In order for two people to remain true in the love that they have for each other, they must be willing to work very hard at it. In the instance in which two people stop putting effort into loving one another the love that they share will soon start to crumble. As in all things in life putting forth a legitimate amount of effort and determination towards loving someone is the best way to ensure that one is being the best lover possible to their partner.

Life

Our life depends on our choices, let me show you, every morning you have two choices... continue to sleep with your dreams or walk up and start to act to make your dreams come true .. So,  
No matter how good or bad we have it, wake up each day thankful for our life. Because .. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs.

life

Life is a combination between confusion and Maze. and it is a fact in life, it's testing us before giving its lesson. then .. Who cares, Who wants to live forever..!

Hearts are often broken by words left unsaid

Every day that passes by on this Earth that we have life in, is simply a blessing. No one can predict the date and exact time that they will go to meet their maker, but we do know that death is inevitable. One of the most important things we can do in our lives is to make it a point to tell people what is on our hearts. There have been so many who regret not telling people how they really felt, or how much they cared for them before they passed.
The pain that many experience because of this regret can be very intense because you realize that all it would have took to change the regret you are feeling in the moment, is a little more initiative on your part. Refuse to live with regret, and refuse to be ruled by the fear of telling someone something that they may not reciprocate. Tell people how you feel while you still have the time to.

Be humble for you are made of Earth

In life when we are able to accomplish high degrees of success, our human nature tends to try to push us into a mindset that many like to call pride. Pride is a false sense of confidence that may make one feel as if they are better than or greater than someone else because of who they are, where they have been, and what they have accomplished. People who continue to live in pride not only alienate themselves from others, they also lose touch with who they really are after a while.
Instead of walking in pride we should all make efforts to live a humble but noble life. We are all special, and we are all kings and queens, but just as we are no less than anyone, we are no greater than anyone either. Staying humble is very key when experiencing success, because it is one quality that will allow for us to maintain our success

The power of keeping silent

There is a lot to be said about the power of keeping silent in certain situations. Though some occasions are called for a vocal response, many situations in which we are used to being vocal are truly matters in which it would be best served for a person to just remain silent. This is an old piece of wisdom that has changed and saved the lives of many. 
Some of the most foolish people are some of the most vocal people because they have no filter for their thoughts. Most of the wisest teachers earned their wisdom by answering the right questions, and they know for others to achieve this level of wisdom that they can only help this person to do the same to truly reach them. Commit to helping people as much as you possibly can, and ask yourself if you are doing so in each situation that arises with some sort of conflict.

In order to be happy

In order to be happy in this world we have to really examine who we are at the core, and proceed to act accordingly. There is no way around this, because when we avoid this we find that we do nothing except continue to rattle and shake our foundation causing our own lives nothing but instability and pain. 
You never know what life is going to put in front of you. Sometimes you will be faced with an abundance of opportunity and sometimes you will be faced with an even greater amount of heartache. Just because life presents things in your path that you may not wish to conquer, doesn't mean that you should ever stop being happy. For when you know who you really are, and what you are placed to do on this Earth, absolutely nothing can stand in the way of your happiness.

Waiting..

waiting something or even someone to make us happy is the perfect short way to be sad, sometimes we fall, we rise, we make mistakes, we live, and also we learn. Just remember; we're human, not perfect. 
we've been hurt, but we're alive. We should think of what a precious nobleness it is to be alive and breathe, to think, to enjoy, and to be with people we truly love. Sometimes there is sadness in our journey, but there is also lots of beauty and happiness. We must keep putting one foot in front of the other even when we hurt, for we will never know what is waiting for us in our next steps..

Frankly..!

Those who are willing to give up are usually going to be those of the majority, while those who are willing to stand-alone are usually those who are more handsomely rewarded. This life is full of many roads, many different opportunities, and many different limitations, because frankly we are all different in a multitude of ways. 
One thing that is common between those who are successful in life, though they often times walk very different paths to achieve their successes is the fact that at certain points in their lives when they could have easily given up, they refused to. The concept of refusing to give up, may be a somewhat cliche or outdated one, but it is one that almost never fails. The attitudes that you consistently display throughout your life will help to write your legacy, refuse to be remembered as a quitter.

When my life being tough..!

In a life full of tough times, tough people, and tough circumstances, it is easy to fall into the mindset that no matter what you do nothing in your life will turn out as you want it to. In order to overcome this mindset one must be willing to accept that life has its ups and its downs, but for the most part life is a result of the choices and decisions a person makes on any given day. 
In order to create the best life for yourself you must be willing to work hard at life. One must realize that life is created from the decisions made and in order to make the best out of life, one must make the decisions in order to do so. One must also realize that if their life doesn't seem to be going the direction in which they want it to, that as the captain of your own ship, you are the only person that can turn it around and take it in the direction in which you truly want to go.

Don't wait..for the perfect moment

Waiting for things to happen is a downfall that prohibits the greatness of many people living in our population from shining bright. It is ok to believe, and it is very commendable and admirable to be a faithful person. But in doing so, one must also be willing to do everything possible that they are able to do alone in order to better their chances that the results desired would occur. In essence, waiting for a sign may be what works for you, but it may actually be working against you. 
Waiting may cause you to miss out on blessings, opportunities, and open doors that you may never see again. Remember to listen to what your gut says, and examine your heart while following it closely. Remember that life won't always happen the way in which we expect it to, and sometimes when we are being tested we won't have every desirable tool to help give us an advantage. Never let an obstacle stop you from moving forward, there is always a way to get past anything put in front of you.

At your lowest points

As humans it is in our nature to react to a situation as soon as it presents itself to us for the most part. Being emotional when we are at our worst is just something that feels natural to do, and it is because of this that many people make mistakes that they otherwise may have never made. We have to be willing to make it one of our top practices to not make rash decisions while we are in the heat of the moment, because often times well find that when we do, we make the worst decisions. 
If something is troubling you in this very moment, try your hardest to delay making any decision. Take some time to think, get away, find peace, and then after you have rested and after you aren't so much into your emotion make a move. Refuse to continue to make decisions at your lowest points.

Words

Words are some of the most powerful entities that a person possesses. Though many try to act as though words never really affect them, there is great power in the tongue. Words can be used to inspire, to build up nations, to write books that change the world, to create wars, to end wars, to create marvels of the human mind, to explain the feelings a person possesses, and for many other reasons as well.
If we truly think about it, even the simplest of words can change a persons life at any given time. Knowing this we must be careful about the words that we use, and we must make a valiant effort to use our words for the good of the world instead of for the decaying of it. Choose your use of words of effectively, and make a pledge to use words that will inspire and promote growth and the well being of all, instead of words that promote the decline of humans and words that create darkness and death. So dears just be careful with your words.. once they are said, they can only be forgiven but never forgotten..  

Life_001

we may have our problems with others all the time and we may shed some tears from time to time, but generally  believe me.. The more you show your true feelings, the more people find so many ways to hurt you deeply. Then suddenly you meet someone telling you it's an experiences .. take the lesson,learn from it.and move on. while i feel that our experience is not what happens to us, experience is a block given to you by life from which you are freely able to build upon. One of the most important principles that we can ever learn in life is that there arent limits in life, unless they are first created in our minds. It is very easy to sit back and fear life because of bad experiences. So many people have let their experiences keep them in states of depression and sadness so much that they simply refuse to live their lives, and instead make a conscious effort to simply exist. 
Never let your experiences make you a victim. Though there aren't always good reasons, or moral reasons for the things we go through, when we refuse to learn from them, we are essentially giving up on our lives. Make it a point to inspire others from your experiences. Be the reason why someone else who went through something similar to you, is able to live his or her lives freely once again!

Have you ever noticed that ..

Have you ever noticed that someone goes deliberately out of their in order to avoid contact with you? Sometimes this may be because this person sees something so magnificent in you that they feel as though you are unapproachable. When you notice that this is the case the kindest thing that you can do is to show this person that you are only human, and that you are willing to befriend them if you feel that they might make a good friend.
Have you ever noticed that sometimes when we are trying to act as though we have moved on from a situation, a person, ill feelings, or an event in our past we refuse to believe that we really still care. It is very important to note that when you are still willing to talk about something, especially if it is in a negative connotation, then chances are that you still care about it in some fashion deep down. In order to truly be over something in their past they must gather no feelings or sentiments when they think about it, or talk about it.
Have you ever noticed that jealousy is a very complex emotion and..or state of being, and it is caused by a variety of actions that usually is caused by a person not seeing any success in their own lives. In life we are able to make choices everyday, and these choices determine the success we see day-by-day, year-by-year, and decade after decade. Many people become jealous when their own journeys lead them to some sort of mediocrity and limited success, not realizing that despising what the next man has will never lead to any sort of reward in their own lives.
Have you ever noticed that whenever we start to take things for granted is when we will be the most vulnerable. Some of the greatest people in their fields have taken huge tumbles in life for falling victim to complacency. Sometimes when we see amounts of success that we have never seen in our life, we grow content with achieving a piece of our original goal simply because this behavior is in our nature.

Problems give meaning.... to our life

Problems can be the sunshine... Problems may be a cloud.
As they come, they always go, quite normal it should sound.
Moan about it, or try to solve, what's the attitude here to go? 
That'll decide if you remain stunted... or instead learn and grow.
Can you forego the present need? 
So a better future you can have, “I am responsible, ” can you say for all the things, to act and behave.
All your assumptions and beliefs, the ideas, thinking, and plans of yours as close to reality can you keep? 
This undeniably opens success’ doors.
This the discipline you always need; and if fully applied, you fully succeed.
A secret of success, it is that no other formula will you ever need.
But to enjoy, say, the moonlit night, certainly discipline this discipline your judgment is always required 
to know how much to apply just to win.
Do we appreciate the beauty of the moon? 
The galaxies and their infinite wonder, flowers, butterflies and the dewdrops, 
Do they stir us, rainbow or thunder? 
How to love, and not react, 
How to live, and not worry, 
When to smile and when to laugh, these problems remain always blurry! 
How to score and get the grades? 
How to excel in career or job? 
How to develop the tastes and hobbies, these are problems we need to probe.
Like the currents of a mighty river, problems in life flow all the time.
So drop all fears, be bold and alive, they’re there till life's bells chime! 
Problems give meaning to life, else we are dead, and not alive.
All our joys and our sorrows, only by solving problems, we find.

Humans always say

Humans say life makes you who you are
Humans say it was how you were brought up
Humans also say that your society is the ultimate factor of whether you fall or rise.
I say it is not.
That life surprises us all, There is much that hides behind the eyes.
So I leave you now with two words, "Hope and Believe"
You are capable of doing anything you set your mind on. Never and ever let society's expectations change who you are. 

Sense of loyalty

A person is born with feelings of envy and hate. If he gives way to them, they will lead him to violence and crime, and any sense of loyalty and good faith will be abandoned. But When you are firm and faithful in your feeling towards something or someone, you are considered loyal. 
Loyalty is the faithfulness or extreme devotion to some person, country, group or cause that you advocate. Loyalty is a virtue which lays the foundation of trust and understanding in relationships. 
Loyalty is akin to fidelity in relationships. You need to be loyal to your partner and stay devoted to him or her. 
A relationship can persist for long only if both the partners are mutually loyal and devoted to each other. Fidelity is the litmus test for a true relationship. A successful relationship stands the test of time and fidelity. 
We'd Keep this in our mind...
Everyday give your all to your most loyal friends family so at the end of the day you can rest easy knowing that you have done your best to ensure that their needs are met and well taken care of. The worries of today are the key to the happiness of tomorrow.

Silence .. is a clarity moments

Silence is the state of being silent marked by entire absence of sound or noise, absolute stillness. It is the absence of any form of speech, quite synonymous with taciturnity or muteness. According to Philip brooks, “A man who lives right, and is right, has more power in his silence than another has by his words.” This very statement clearly implies that a man is very much known by the silence he keeps. Absolute silence however refers to sadness and is often symbolically called the image of death. Silence is observed to mourn for the departed soul. Silence can be used for expressing the inexpressible. Silence can make a fool appear wise in public. And i used to believe that; The most effective moments of our life have never required a spoken word.

Thinking of you

Late at night when all the world is sleeping, I stay up and think of you. And I wish on a star that somewhere you are thinking of me too. So .. Wherever you are now, whatever you are doing, please.! stop and smile because I am thinking of you.

Value

Until you value yourself you won’t value your time but until you value your time you will not do anything with it.. I wonder how humans became knows the price of everything but knows the value of nothing, 
Value is the worth or cost of a thing. There are many things in life that have value but there is no comparison to the value of time. Time, if gone, cannot be earned back where as all other things like money, respect, education can be earned. The value of time has to be realized by everyone and cherished.
Other things that have great value are friendship, compassion, love and success. It is crucial to know the value of each so that we can appreciate them and work hard enough to gain them. One who does not know the value is insane, why we cannot fill our life by giving much more than accepting, learn how to live when we have nothing, we will realized to value small things in our life...

Stop War .. Humans are the only killing viruse in this .. madness world

All your armies
All your fighters
All your tanks
And all your soldiers .. against a boy .. holding a stone
standing there all ... alone
in his eyes i see the... sun
in his smile i see the .. moon
And i wonder..!
i only wonder..!!
Who is weak and who is strong
Who is right and who is wrong
And i wish .. i only wish, that a truth will has a tongue.

 

My only question is, Why?

In a world full of masks, costumes and facades...weaving in and out of the traffic called life I still maintain my soul and the characteristic threads that set me apart from others...am I the only one that thinks like this?
People are always telling me to smile, like smiling is going to just take away all the hurt and pain. Well I've tried that I've tried hiding my sorrows and covering the sadness in smiles and what I've learned is that when it hurts this much inside your heart always has a way of showing it no matter how many masks you wear.
Why is it so hard to get over someone that never even loved you? Why is it no one understands your pain? Why is they never understand that when we say I'm Fine it's always a lie? Why is it we've been telling people I'm fine for so long they never even see behind the masks we wear? We get pushed to the limit, we break and we do the same thing over and over again and they still never figure it out. My dears.. We all wear masks, and the time comes when we cannot remove them without removing some of our own skin.

At heaven gates

It is a very disheartening and painful feeling to miss someone. You will miss someone only if you have a lot of affection and love on her or him. Even one minute will seem to be very long and an hour when you miss someone. The flowers, nature, sunshine, fragrance, spring rainbow and all other things will not bring in happiness and solace when you do not have the person dear, near you. It is similar to the situation of a fish being out of water .
once i read to our great, Lamartine rightly said, “Sometimes when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated”
But interestingly, i feel that; when you miss someone, the affection grows more and more. and really absence makes our heart grow fonder, is one proverb. When you mis someone, they may appear in your dreams too because your heart and mind are filled with their thoughts all the time. Maybe you are out of my sight, but you will never be out of my heart, I may not see your face near by, but I will always remember your smile, I will never hear your voice again but you will forever whisper in my ear, I never got to say goodbye to you, or tell you how much you really meant to me, but just listen .. one day we will meet at heavens gates and I will be with you again and this time it will be forever. In the end, all we have left are memories. Bits and pieces of the time we've spent together. No matter how long the time was. It'll never seem like enough...

Thoughts are the shadows of our feelings

Not everything that is faced can be changed by our actions or even through our feelings, but nothing can be changed until it is faced truly and bravely. our feelings are a kind of emotional state that is perceived. When we experience more feelings and do not find words to express them, feelings tend to compensate that. We can close our eyes to things we do not want to see but we cannot close our heart to the things we do not want to feel. It is highly essential that we respect the feelings of others.. even they do not care about us anymore, Feelings have the power to influence the actions of men because we are more governed by feelings than by reason. In fact feelings are intertwined in every cell of our body and mind. What we think we feel and that is why it is rightly said, “Thoughts are the shadows of our feelings”.
Now just when we feel sad .. just remember to never feel alone, never feel unloved, never feel unwanted, never feel scared, never feel these emotions at all, because you are special to me and I want you to be happy.

انتبه ... السيارة ترجع الى الخلف

مبكرا، فطن اليسار في مصر إلى أن المرشح المنتظر للرئاسة المشير عبدالفتاح السيسى ليس له ظهير سياسى منظم. القوى المنظمة في مصر هي إما التيارات الإسلامية، ولن يكون لها دور مستقبلا، وإما الحزب الوطنى، ومن الصعب العودة إليه على الأقل في ظل الظروف الحالية. بقية الأحزاب بما فيها اليسار لا تصلح ظهيرا. لعدم ثقة الشارع بها من جهة، ولضعفها الشديد من جهة أخرى.
الدهاء والمكر الشديدان لدى اليسار ركزا جهودهما حول كيفية استقطاب المرشح الرئيس. أطلقوا الجدل العبثى حول الربط بين شخصيته وشخصية الراحل جمال عبدالناصر في الشبه. رغم أنه لا يوجد أي شبه في الحديث. رغم أنه ليس هناك أي تشابه في اتخاذ القرار. رغم أن الرجل لم يكن قد مارس سلطة الحكم بعد.. في المظاهرات والتجمعات حملوا صور الاثنين معا. في اللقاءات التليفزيونية والصحفية جعلوا منها قصصا وحكايات. فرضوها على الرأى العام في الشوارع والمقاهى.
ما أعرفه شخصيا عن الرئيس عبدالناصر أنه تسلم مصر والسودان وغزة في بداية حكمه. قبل أن يرحل كانت قد انفصلت السودان. وتم احتلال غزة. وضاعت معهما سيناء شمالا وجنوبا. وأصبحت قوات الاحتلال الإسرائيلى على مشارف القاهرة.
لماذا، إذن، نحاول الربط بين عبدالناصر، وهذا حاله، والرئيس الجديد. السيسى نعول عليه التقدم للأمام، وليس العودة للخلف كما حدث مع الشبيه المزعوم. كنت أتمنى استنكارا ممن حول الرئيس لهذه المزايدات. إلا أنه يبدو أنها قد راقت لهم.
تحت هذه المزاعم توطدت علاقة هذا التيار الفاشل بمؤسسة المرشح. التي أصبحت فيما بعد مؤسسة رئاسة. راحوا يتصدرون المواقع في لجنة الدستور. شكلوا المجلس الأعلى للصحافة. المجلس القومى لحقوق الإنسان. سيطروا على المؤسسات الصحفية القومية. عملية تمكين طبق الأصل من تمكين الإخوان. تغلغلوا في المراكز القيادية بالحكومات المتعاقبة. كل ذلك بزعم أنهم الورثة الشرعيون للنظام السابق. ولمَ لا؟. والرئيس الجديد قريب الشبه بالمتوفى. طبعا كلها خطط لسلفية من نوع آخر. سلفية اشتراكية فشلت في العالم كله، وسقطت مصر معها. تحاول أن تتعافى، ولكن على استحياء شديد.

الغريب في الأمر أن الرئيس الجديد تحدث عن استبدال العجلة الهوائية بالسيارات. راقت لهم الدعوى جداً معتبرين أنها اشتراكيتهم.. تحدث عن حد أقصى للأجور. راقت لهم أكثر على اعتبار أنهم طوال الوقت حانقون على الستر الاجتماعى.. رفع الأسعار، وبدأ في إلغاء الدعم. لم يفتحوا فمهم بكلمة واحدة. على الرغم من أن عمليات السطو والحرق والنهب التي قاموا بها في شوارع القاهرة عام ١٩٧٧ ما زالت ماثلة في الأذهان.. للتذكرة. كان ذلك في أعقاب رفع الأسعار بضعة مليمات.

ثوره الجياع

شوف ايه الى هيحصل لو استمر رفع الاسعـــــــــــــار
البلد حـــــــــــــالها هيتقلب والعيشه هتبقى مــــــــــرار
والواحد ميعرفش يعيش غير لما يشتغل ليل ونـــــــهار
ولو زادت شويه الاسعــــــار وولعت نار
الاب هيبيع ابنه ويشترى مكانه حــــــــمار
لابياكل ولا بيصرف وكمان ممكن يسرح بيه بخضـــــار
ولا ... بنته تنحرف عشان تجبيب فلوس وتجبله الــعار
ده لما الاسعار تزيد مش هتلاقى حتى الخـــــيار
حتى لو لقيته هتلاقى ســـعره 3 دولار
والناس عشان تاكل هتاكل ورق اشجــــــــــــــــــــــار
ولما تيجى تشرب شاى هتحط مكان السكر صــــــــبار
وساعتها بدل متشرب شاى هتشرب ميه نـــــــــــــــــار
ده غير كده هتكتر عمليات القتل والانتحــــــــــــــار
ماهو الفقير هو الى هيقشر البيضه
والى فوقيهم يخدوا البياض وكبار البلد هيكلوا الصــفار
والبلد هيبقى فيها فوضى ودمار
ومش بعيد البلد تحتل ماهو اعدائها شايفنها بتنهــــــار
ونعيش فيكى يابلد تحت الحصــــــــار
ياعينى عليكى يابلد ياعينى على الزمن الـــــــــــغدار
ماهو حكامك خلينك كوسه على خيــــــــــــــــــــــار
وكلمه اخيره هقولها يارب ياستـــــــار

Silent tears

A thunderous silence breaks through my thoughts.
What was once many great ideas is now a triumph, lost.
Baffling words tumble through my mind.
Reflections of darkness hover.
A disturbing peacefulness beckons to me, and inside myself, I take cover.
What would it be like to stay there forever?
To be lost in all my cares?
From the inside, looking out ... I cry silent tears

Through my fake smiles..

I've learned a lot these past few months .. Through my fake smiles and unseen tears, 
That friends sometimes aren't forever
that true love doesn't always last
And happy memories stay with you .. but those happy moments go by fast
O.. Words can cut deeper than any sword
Leaving you with something
That no man could replace or ever afford
Sometimes things happen,
Sometimes your heart will break
Though to feel real happiness this is what's at stake
In order to have the comfort of heaven
and your story to live to tell
You must also experience the hate-filled life of hell
Remember . . . There will always be someone there
Someone that honestly does care
A person can leave your life
Leave you alone with your worries and strife
But like pain, the love you once felt cannot from your body depart but only may enter your heart
Don't worry someday it will all get better
Your mornings will grow joyful with someone to love
And you'll have the kind of life you thought you could only dream of .. I've been there before with my head in my hands
Believing there's no way anyone could ever understand
But they do . . . trying everything they can to help you
Still you sit there unknowing and blind .. To what soon you'll be glad to find.

My Philosophy

My real name isn't important anymore.. i even have no much philosophy in life but i know only one thing, in this world we have to pay as we go.. sometimes all we have isn't enough just for survival.

Try harder

To be forgiven a person has to first be willing to be honest with their counterparts and with themselves as well.
It shows the highest form of character and integrity when a person is willing to own up to the mistakes and wrongs that they have committed in their pasts, in a repentant manner.
When we have the courage to admit our mistakes, we are also taking the courage of making a new way, realizing that the old ways in which we were doing things just weren't working for us.
Choose to live, admit when you are wrong, never fall victim to living in a box that contains you and doesn't allow you to be who you really are, or become who you want to become.
Pride can be a prison if you allow for it to be, a life lived in vain can actually be a life lived in chains, be courageous enough to say the things you need to say, and do the things that you need to do.
"I make mistakes, I know I'm not perfect. That's why I'm thankful for the true friends who stick by me knowing how I am"
Finally when the tides of life turn against you and the current upsets your boat  you have to choose between 
wasting those tears on what might have been, and lie on your back and float. while surrender to your destiny .. Those who try to do something and fail.. are infinitely better than those who try to do nothing and succeed.. i believe that Anything is possible but only for those who are willing to try.

burned bridges

Shame, Vanity, Arrogance or even our Indifference lead us wait until its too late to tell someone how much we love and how much we care,because when they're gone no matter how loud we shout and cry, they won't hear us anymore.. but after all, love is all about timing. If we don't say the right thing at the right moment no matter how much fate was involved in the relationship, everything will be ruined. Even if we regret it, it will be too late... never wait until realize you've burned the bridge to the greatest friend you have ever had because it will be far too late to rebuild it.

Art

Art is the imagination, which makes us realize the truth

in our times of need

Instead of walking in pride, and telling someone about what we know, and what we went through that may be similar to what they are going through, walk in love, peace, and understanding by just giving our ear to listen, a body to hug, and a shoulder to cry on.
Once we get over yourself, and get away from our own self righteousness, the people that we choose to listen to and understand will undoubtedly start to pour more of themselves into us more and more each time we are able to connect.
Though there is a time to give advice, much of building relationships with people has to do with the way that we are just there for them in their times of true need!
When we take time out of our own life and give of ourself by just being there and giving our ear, or shoulder to lean on, you will in turn have someone to be there for us in our times of need as well.

Move on

we think we can't move on, but the truth is every-time we get out of bed we are fighting, and we're slowly moving on. The key to overcoming the pain in our life is to realize that though pain is something that is inevitably a part of life, we have the choice of whether we are going to yelling in it and suffer, or move on from it, and do our best to let it go... In fact sometimes its very hard to move on. But once we move on. we'll realize it was the best decision we chose.. I can say If we love yourself we need to prove it by doing whatever it takes to make us happy with our own life... O, you know.. Sometimes all we have to do is erase the messages, delete the numbers, collecting what still remains who we truly are and move on.. in fact, life is too short to hold grudges, revenge or even regret .. Just ... move on.

Problems

A problem can be defined in numerous ways but in many meanings a problem is a question of how to reach a solution leaving those presented with the problem with feelings of doubt and uncertain times. Problems are something that we all face on a daily basis, the only difference being some of us face problems of extreme difficulty on a normal basis, while others face problems with a degree of lesser difficulty more normally. Either way it goes, a problem is a problem and we all must face them at some point in our lives.
Being able to solve a problem is one of the most necessary skills needed to succeed in your lifetime. Generally when we approach a problem in order to solve it, we must first have a clear understanding of the problem, then make a feasible plan to solve the problem, and lastly execute the plan to eliminate the problem... My dears; A lot of problems in the world would disappear if we talk to each other instead of about each other but don't question what you don't understand unless you're asking questions seeking to understand because being wise is not about how fast you can find a solution but how patiently you react to the problem itself.

Pride lead you nowhere

The most sensible person is the one who knows to put his pride in the pocket when he realizes he was wrong and is able to laugh at himself.. So, A simple apology could fix a friendship that shouldn't have ended in the first place. Don't let your pride stop you from doing what's right.

Marriage

Marriage is the formal union of a man and a woman, in which they become husband and wife. It is an institution which acknowledges or accepts relationship between people who get quite intimate and close to each other. Marriages get solemnized through a wedding ceremony or matrimony. When you get married to someone, you make a public declaration of commitment to that person. Marriages can survive the test of time and stretch to eternity if there is great faith, trust and understanding between the married couple. Dissolution of marriage is also allowed by certain cultures. This dissolution is known as a divorce which required settlement between the male and the female who decide to call it quits and part ways.
Enid Bagnold had once remarked, ..
“In marriage there are no manners to keep up, and beneath the wildest accusations no real criticism. Each is familiar with that ancient child in the other who may erupt again. We are not ridiculous to ourselves. We are ageless. That is the luxury of the wedding ring.”

difference between complete and finish

People say there is no difference between complete and finish. When you marry the right one, you are complete, and when you marry the wrong one, you are finished and when the right one catches you with the wrong one, you are completely finished.

Close your eyes

Once,  the great "Helen Keller' said .. the best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart"
Yes dears life is full of many things, and many of the most important things in our lives stem from the things that we cant see with our natural eyes. Things like the choices that we are willing to make on a day-to-day basis, affect our lives greatly without us even seeing how. The way that we choose to dress may help us to gain recognition that we aren't even seeking consciously, or it may help to deter others from wanting to get to know us.
Other things in life that are very real to us that we can't see like love help to give our lives meaning on a day to day basis. Love makes us want to work harder in our everyday lives, love keeps us honest, and it helps us to think about the things that are actually important in life, instead of focusing on the parts of life that are solely negative.
Always remember the parts of life that make life real, because many times these are the things that we may feel, but that we cant see.

The future belongs to those who believe

The future only belongs to one group of people, and that is the group of people who not only have a dream, but a people who believe in the dreams that they have for them selves and for the world, and are willing to go out in the world at any cost to get their dreams. 
Following your dreams may seem as something out of a book of fairy tales for some, but the following of dreams is why many have seen success that will affect generations to come. To follow your dreams requires a boldness that not everyone will be able to master, not because it is impossible, but instead because they will choose not to. 
The future belongs to the go-getters of the world, the people who are willing to think for them selves, keeping in mind the major errors of mankind in history, and being willing to create from their own innovative ideas mixed with the productive wisdom of the past. 
We have to be willing to dare to make the dreams that are inside of us a reality. Doing so may mean that we have to tap into the greatness of others before us who are great examples of what following a dream may achieve. People like Walt Disney..
The future belongs to those with an undying fight in their hearts, an undying faith, both fused with a light of hope on the inside that if let out may be strong enough to provide light to the rest of the world. The future belongs to those who believe.

Choice is yours

In order to make things simpler in your life, you have to really become least obsessed with the things that stress you out, and work on your life daily, in an effort to make the best decisions for each day. As you continue to successfully make each day better than the last, choosing to make great decisions that are not only ambitious, but ethical and morally right as well, things will really start to get simpler. 
Everything that you put in you get out of life. If you put in honest, true passion every day that you live, that will be what you collect from life, almost without even trying. While the same is oppositely true if you are only willing to put negative thinking, and negative actions in your life. Thinking and acting the way that you need to will allow things to be as simple as you need them to be, or as difficult as you make them, the choice is yours.

Everything

everything breeds small and grow except sadness.. breed great and slowly fading away.