Wednesday, June 27, 2007

love doesn't equal sex and sex doesn't equal love


love doesn't equal sex and sex doesn't equal love but my view is love and sex have a stronger relation with "money and age" gap those days
I'm really starting to wonder whether the age gap was really the main problem or the money
Maybe
it hasn't happen to you, but maybe you know someone who's fallen in love and when you think of it sure feels weird, because how can it be love when there's such a big age gap between them 
No, I'm not talking about just 1 or 4 years, but 10, 15 or even 20 years!
?Many people see this happening as something not normal and strongly disapprove, but why 
Why does true love between 2 people should be rated according to some silly age standards 
Isn't what's inside of a person that really matters not the number in your passport or ID where is says: age
 Why is it that you have to prove to others that this is REAL love, not some weird perverse relationship and even then it's extremely hard for them to accept your relationship

If you find that special someone then age should be the last thing to worry about (of course you need to be careful when you are adult and the other person isn't or opposite). If you feel happy and loved, that should be all that matters, because you don't fall in love with someone's age, but the personality. Love is unconditional, it sets no frames or limits and it should be celebrated when it knocks on your door.
 I mean it doesn't happen every day that you meet that special someone you feel you would like to share everything with, does it? 
Love is the most powerful energy there is, the most splendid feeling 2 people can share and what matters the most - it makes you feel alive and happy so why worry about the age at all? I think you shouldn't.