dare to understand..

If you tell me the truth,  it might be I'm going to be mad, but I'll get over it. 
If you lie to me I'm never going to be able to trust you again. Your choice!
Then it's trust .. or distrust
Trust is broken in a relationship when one person fails to stay loyal to the other person. Broken trust leads to deterioration of the relationship. It is hard to win back or repair trust once it is broken. Loyalty and faithfulness to the ones we love helps in nurturing solid relationships and in strengthening their foundation.
Broken trust really causes pain and suffering and the person whose trust gets broken often gets badly hurt and wounded. These wounds and the pain that they cause take a lot of time Trying to forget never mention to heal. And forgive.
One should stay loyal when in a relationship and should not break the trust of our beloved or our near and dear ones. Broken trust hurts and causes a lot of pain and trauma. 
The best thing is to turn over a new leaf and start afresh when someone breaks your trust and let the bygones be bygones. Analyzing what went wrong and how things can become normal will hurt you even more.. finally i always believe that as much as we've secrets sooner or later that secrets are going to lead us to lies, that lead to distrust, that also will lead us to the end of our relationships. So, don't keep secrets or don't get upset ... when it's over.

kindness and love...

There is nothing can be expected of Love and kindness in relationships..
Let us discus how....   If one's raising a garden...
Can he be kind to weeds?
Can he love harmful insects
Can he love unknown plants?
Can he Love unknown insects?
He may love birds, bees and butterflies not monkeys and donkeys  or even frogs..
The language of kindness often is not valid currency at least many consider it so care and watchfulness reaction for actions, and not actions anticipating reactions!
God pours rain of kindness there can be no weeds in forests natural will be kindness
where one raise no garden .... No fence or wall around where one lives in wall less home
Build no walls. raise no garden... there only kindness and love blossom..

is it blind...

Love can see great things, Where even wise fail to find,
Love is eternal and is infinite, I truly wounder is it blind,
Love knows to give smile, and not to take, great is that love which sacrifice,
Even Love for love's sake ... As Love sees something, Which mortal eyes fail to see!
Love say....
' go my love, here you suffer, can't see your face dried by gloom, go somewhere, where you can bloom, or else I go somewhere to save our love '!
Love is that great, always grateful to love, great to be loved,
They say there is a window from one heart to another
How can there be a window where no wall remains? '
And inspired heart sings, No water required... As nothing can dry.. The roses of love,
And love is the bed of rose,  to that pair two bodies, one in love, one wipes the pain of another!
Souls union makes everything possible, it may look like perfume bed of roses, even if full of thorns....
Rose is that heart,
Which even swallows pains,
When two souls become one,
All walls fall, all pains fail,
Fair their heart feel... When two pair of hands wipe tears of one another