Wednesday, June 27, 2007

love doesn't equal sex and sex doesn't equal love


love doesn't equal sex and sex doesn't equal love but my view is love and sex have a stronger relation with "money and age" gap those days
I'm really starting to wonder whether the age gap was really the main problem or the money
Maybe
it hasn't happen to you, but maybe you know someone who's fallen in love and when you think of it sure feels weird, because how can it be love when there's such a big age gap between them 
No, I'm not talking about just 1 or 4 years, but 10, 15 or even 20 years!
?Many people see this happening as something not normal and strongly disapprove, but why 
Why does true love between 2 people should be rated according to some silly age standards 
Isn't what's inside of a person that really matters not the number in your passport or ID where is says: age
 Why is it that you have to prove to others that this is REAL love, not some weird perverse relationship and even then it's extremely hard for them to accept your relationship

If you find that special someone then age should be the last thing to worry about (of course you need to be careful when you are adult and the other person isn't or opposite). If you feel happy and loved, that should be all that matters, because you don't fall in love with someone's age, but the personality. Love is unconditional, it sets no frames or limits and it should be celebrated when it knocks on your door.
 I mean it doesn't happen every day that you meet that special someone you feel you would like to share everything with, does it? 
Love is the most powerful energy there is, the most splendid feeling 2 people can share and what matters the most - it makes you feel alive and happy so why worry about the age at all? I think you shouldn't.

Wednesday, April 28, 2004

WORDS OF WISDOM

I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful
The one who loves you will not make you cry alone at night thinking about him/her. They will be right beside you telling you it will be
A real man doesn't make love to a million women. A real man makes love to one women a million ways
Immature love says "I love you because I  
.need you". Mature love says "I need you because I love you".
The way to love anything, is to realize it can be lost.
If you want to be successful in life, be a wise. If you want to be successful in love, be foolish.

No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
Don't waste your time on a woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
Remember: Whatever happens, happens for a reason.
They say forgive and forget, but if someone is worth forgiving then you'll never forget them.
The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and be loved in return.
Love is accepting, not expecting.
You think you look strong because you can hold on, but strength lies in letting go.
Love is like growing --it's hard to feel, sometimes, and even harder to see, but when you look back on it, you realize how far you've come.
It isn't what happens in your life that matters most, it is what your heart does with it, who it shares it with and what together they learn from it.
In all your remembering, remember that you have choices.
Though many people will go in and out of your heart only one will want to stay there. If you build a heart full of holes, think how much easier it is to hang on

Tuesday, May 01, 2001

To My Blue Rose only

My heart feels such pain,
tell me how to stop my tears.
What can I do to ease the pain?
Why, has life always been so hard,
showering me with such heavy burdens?
 
The tears keep falling as I lay down to sleep. My eyes wide open, flashes of my past,
Of things I lost in my life. As the tears fall, memories
floating around in my mind, going back in time.
Remembering all the good times When I had it all.

The tears are falling like a summer rain,
wishing I could turn back time.
Never thinking one day, there would
be no you here beside me
With tears falling down my face,
Knowing there is nothing left
but my memories of times past,
When you were there beside me
Keeping me safe.
Making all the problems seem small
As you are standing so tall.
No tears of sorrow,
only Love, hope and happiness, Never thinking of tomorrow.
Now as my tears are falling
there is no one here to wipe them away.
Just my hands of loneliness Praying, what to do.
I stare at nothing,trying to decide where do I go from here,
Which way do I turn?
The tears are falling, remembering all the things I took for granted, now that all is lost and gone.
As I wipe the tears falling down my face I look up to the sky and pray.
"Please God, help to show me the way.
Lead me down the right path, give me the strength to carry on.
It's so lonely here by myself with so many things to do.
I need you to give me the faith to see me through."
The tears have stopped falling.
With God's help I'll figure out what I need to do.
It may not be the best, But it's the best that I can do,
Living my life by myself, without you.

Wednesday, July 14, 1999

it's so hard to forget pain, but it's even harder to remember

it's so hard to forget pain, but it's even harder to remember ...

Sometimes wound make me in the best case. Sometimes tears put me in calm way. 
Why i suffer from anything if everything should pass through
people come and go while life never stand. 
it means i should treatment wound by itself and who in life is not hurted by something
i had been many people in my life and today, who is located beside me
Separation is a humanbeen habit and i must make my heart used to it. 
Half of my life pass through and I do not remember when I come happy. i wish to know what is my life wants from me

in this life if i niked as i'm a life as if i don't have a lover, i'll never die while i'm still a life and separated between human is a rule to life
what i'll lose in my life and what i'll regret.
 like me ...!!!!
there are 1000 person live with people as a stranger.

Sunday, April 27, 1997

just rest under a tree

Once there was a man who hated his own shadow. When he walked and found that his shadow was close behind him, he began to walk faster and faster. But the faster he moved, the closer his shadow came.
So he ran like a madman.. and in the end, he dropped dead. Those who do not understand the Dao are just like the man who hated his shadow. It is actually very easy to be rid of one’s shadow — just rest under a tree.

Monday, April 18, 1994

just walk away


If you looking forward to know why i choose this name to my Blog ... its hard to say but if you understand my words meaning So, you should know that you are in the right place, for when one door closes, often another will opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.. 
There are things in this life that we don't want to happen butbut it happened and you have to accept, 
things we don't want to know or search for the reasons behind yet you have to learn from it, and people we can't live without even to a second but have to let go, to set them free for if they meant to be with us will always find the way back.. And If you think missing me is hard, you should try to missing you.