Appreciate

Appreciate those who have hurt you, because they strengthen your heart Appreciate those who deceive you, because they improve your wisdom Appreciate those who slander against you, because they improve your personality 
Appreciate those who whip you because they arouse your will to fight 
Appreciate those who abandon you, because they teach you independence Appreciate those who make you stumble, because they strengthen your legs 
Appreciate those who denounce you, because they remind you of your shortcomings Appreciate those who give you strength