To carry a heavy rock to the summit of a mountain is easier than to receive a kindness which is flaunted. The bane of a generous action is to mention it because It is better to refuse a kindness than to be reminded of it.
Personally I would not accept the whole world if I were to suffer the humiliation of being constantly reminded of the gift. You know to bestow and flaunt a kindness, and to be stingy and refuse to do an act of kindness, are equally bad. just remember when you do a kindness hide it, and when a kindness is done to you proclaim it.
To hold you close to have you near
To have my breath against your ear
Whispering the words I long to say
Being able to show you my passion in that special way,
The loving, caressing, kissing would feel so right
Expressing our love right through the night
Our bodies joined as one in pure ecstasy
Thrusting, moaning, loving as You become part of me
Reaching that point there is no going above
Our bodies explode together in out throes of love
After, cuddling, laughing, talking all part of us too
I look up smile and say I love you.
Yesterday, i got a friendship with a new friend, And as usual i asked him my friendship key question..
What would you like to be the most ... Being right or Being kind, But the answer was completely unpredictable .. "He replied" ... being polite... that was the most nobility answer i had.. So, what is nobility..!
True nobility lies in high character and refined manners, not in noble birth or ancient pedigree.
A noble man is he who aims at noble ends... not he who glories in an ancestry moldering in the dust.
A noble man is noble though he come to want, and a base man is base though he walks on pearls because a lion is a lion though his claws be clipped, and a dog is a dog though he wear a collar of gold... He who disregards his own honor gets no good from an honorable lineage... And like they said " A branch tells of what stock it comes"
Humility is that line of conduct which is a mean between overbearing pride on the one hand and abject servility on the other, as economy is the middle term between extravagance and avarice. in fact humility is the crown of nobility, a ladder to honor, and a means of procuring love and esteem.
Once i heard that "Veracity brings peace to the heart".
If keeping to the truth though may harm thee, i think keeping away from falsehood though it may profit thee because no man's religion can be right until his heart become right, nor can his heart become right until his tongue is right. i always imagine if... falsehood saves from trouble truth saves much more even if people naked you with ignorant .. An ignorant man who is true is better than a clever man who is false.
A man can be almost perfect only .. when he speaks the truth and acts according to the truth. i used to tell my daughters' if falsehood saves from trouble truth saves much more.
In my humble personal opinion there are two kinds of truthfulness, and the greatest of them is that which may do thee harm. Do you know; If truth and falsehood were pictured... they would be represented by a terrible lion and a cunning fox. And it is better to die a truthful man than to live the life of a liar. So, my dear "When thou speaks .. be truthful, and when thou acts .. be gentle"
A dear Person today asked me, How can I define, true man..!
To be honest with you, A thousand words contended in my mind.. to a while then I replied him;
Watch his friends they are a mirrors to his soul, and if you can't
watch his face expressions it may be more eloquent that than his tongue, If you still can't .. The expressions of his eyes will show what is it his heart,
But to define him you should know that;
He who is wise, and consults others, is a whole man;
He who has a wise opinion of his own, and seeks no counsel from others, is half a man; and
He who has no opinion of his own, and seeks no advice, is no man at all.
My dear' When men ..
consult together, they are led by the wisest among them.. he smiles a wide one and replied; And Consult a man of experience, for he gives you what has cost him much, and for which you give nothing.
Then.. with a smile in his eyes he said; "Yes Son God bless your way but Let your counselor be one who fears God"
Be grateful to him who has done you good, and do good to him who is grateful to you... because he who is unthankful for little is unthankful for much. you know I believe that; gratitude takes three forms
A feeling in the heart,
An expression in words,
And a giving in return.
I prefer a near neighbor to a distant brother, because a good neighbour is he who isn't only harmless, but bears harm with patience... I also prefer to go a mile to see a sick man or go two miles to make peace between two men and go thousand miles to call on a friend. but you know .. the best of men is a rich man.. who visits the poor, and the worst is ... a poor man who visits the rich... So many thoughts run in my mind but as crystal is only one for now ... We should being friendly to our relations, but do not depend on our relationship that will decrease our disappointment..!
"Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind". Buddha
At my family home today, i got a moments with my dear father, i asked him about what is the difference between envy and emulation ..! a while passed and with along breath he said .. See'
The difference between envy and emulation is, that in the first the desire is for the cessation of a good enjoyed by another, and in the second the desire is for the possession of a similar good... and so many times every favoured man is envied. .. Beware of envy, for it shows itself in you, not in him whom you envy'
So i replied ... Father; then..
Envy is a disease which does more harm to the envious than to the envied... All enmity may be overcome except that which comes from envy... There can be no peace in the heart of an envious man.
Envy may be cured only by a sure knowledge that it is a cause of much pain to you and no evil to him whom you envy... so you must shun it if you would not be an enemy to yourself and a friend to your enemy.
He who strains his neck to look at one above him gets nothing but pain.
Envy consumes man, as rust corrodes iron.
Envy no man except him who is good.
Most of our thoughts are just wishes. Maybe the thoughts of the wise are more trustworthy than the convictions of fools but if we are doubtful of a thing, we should let it alone.. or remove our doubts by inquiry. once .. ago.. my father told me "A thing that is heard is not like a thing that is seen, so do not ever believe all that you hear". life passed so quickly but i realize that it is not wise to be sure of a thing only because i think so.. and where there is much difference of opinion it is difficult to know the truth.
Truly i feel that; To think well of others is a religious duty and he who thinks well of others is a happy man, he who has an evil thing in him thinks all men are like him. If a man think well of you, make his thought true.
A great poet says: "It was my habit to think well of others until experience taught me otherwise. most men think well of themselves, and this is self-delusion. .. just " Be well with God, with what you believe in.... and fear nothing" ..... now just remember that .... "your thoughts are just your wishes"
Always think positive
The first part of anger ... is madness and the second is regret. Passion and blindness are inseparable mates. Beware of anger, for it ends in the humiliation of apology.
Anger leads to all kinds of evil. When you are angry be silent.
It is not a trait of noble character to be hasty either in anger or in revenge. The anger of a fool reveals itself in what he says, and the anger of a wise man in what he does. Quarrelsomeness is a contemptible habit. Call not yourself a human so long as you are angry.
Patience is one-half of religious duty.
There are two kinds of patience one is for something which you desire,
the other in something which you hate; and he is a strong man who can combine them both.
Patience is mostly needed at the first shock.
Grief is dispelled by patience.
The device of a man who hath no device is patience.
So long as there is a claimant, no just case is ever lost.
Patience is a bitter cup, which the strong alone can drink.
A misfortune is one, but it becomes two to the impatient.
Patience is one of the gifts of heaven.
He who is impatient to hear one word will have to listen to many words.
Difficulties can be overcome only by patience.
It is a good omen when your messenger is delayed.
Rarely does a patient man fail in obtaining that which he seeks.
Be patient... every cloud dissipates, and every evil which does not continue is a small thing.
He who receives the strokes is not like him who counts them.
It's something lies in high character and refined manners, not in noble birth or ancient pedigree. It's true nobility
A noble man is he who aims at noble ends not he who glories in an ancestry mouldering in the dust. A noble man is noble though he come to want, and a base man is base though he walks on pearls. A lion is a lion though his claws be clipped, and a dog is a dog though he wear a collar of gold.
He who disregards his own honour gets no good from an honourable lineage.
Learning and high principles take the place of noble birth, and cover the shame of a low origin.
A branch tells of what stock it comes.
The Virtuous Woman inspire you but brings only the good,
The Smart woman interest you.. but she lose her femininity through time,
The beautiful woman attracts you for sure but she like a piece of candy sooner or later she will lose her taste,
But the kindness woman always takes your heart ...
Sensitive women like violin .. He who can't improves play it, will hears a melodies don't please him.
Sensitive woman like a rare coin .. when you got her .. you will never spend.
Our hearts like pots boil including, tongues like spoons ..
Look at the man while speaking, his tongue scoop you of the heart.
What a beautiful life when it gives you someone can read your silence
Between love and time there is an eternal relationship
Love kills time very quickly and time kills love very slowly.
Love and time cannot be bought but only can be spent.
Always remember that; this life gives to take, gathering to dispersion, and grow sorrows in my hearts, Sometimes i wish that one day someone is going to hug me so tight and all my broken pieces will stick back together again, Sometimes i just need to stop making excuses and start looking for solutions. i'm sure there is always a way. It may not be exactly how i picture it in my head, but i think .. if i just start, i'll get there nut how i can start today while i'm still have much broken pieces of yesterday
The most beautiful bridges carried out by the humans; that built a bridge of hope over the Sea of despairing and frustration.
A pain in your heart can not be seen by others so let your silent suffering be an example for others to follow because people do not always get whatever they need or expect, Their best way would go forward it's the way to live with what they have, for only their life will be running smoothly
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