Monday, August 07, 2017

fake smile

When we've fake smiles we lye to ourselves no one can see that we are calling for help, 
we cry through or hidden smiles no one sees or inner child
we smile to make people not see how unhappy we really can be and cover all our wounds behind... 
we smile to hide or true intentions to survive
we send people through in the wrong direction away from our lives
we smile to hide a tear.... we laugh not to show fear 
we smile to make people feel better
we stand as a rock under the weather, yet sometimes 

we need to choose the hard decisions... to awake up and abandon all our life illusions,
Sometimes we just need to be.. Or not to be. 

dare to understand..

If you tell me the truth,  it might be I'm going to be mad, but I'll get over it. 
If you lie to me I'm never going to be able to trust you again. Your choice!
Then it's trust .. or distrust
Trust is broken in a relationship when one person fails to stay loyal to the other person. Broken trust leads to deterioration of the relationship. It is hard to win back or repair trust once it is broken. Loyalty and faithfulness to the ones we love helps in nurturing solid relationships and in strengthening their foundation.
Broken trust really causes pain and suffering and the person whose trust gets broken often gets badly hurt and wounded. These wounds and the pain that they cause take a lot of time Trying to forget never mention to heal. And forgive.
One should stay loyal when in a relationship and should not break the trust of our beloved or our near and dear ones. Broken trust hurts and causes a lot of pain and trauma. 
The best thing is to turn over a new leaf and start afresh when someone breaks your trust and let the bygones be bygones. Analyzing what went wrong and how things can become normal will hurt you even more.. finally i always believe that as much as we've secrets sooner or later that secrets are going to lead us to lies, that lead to distrust, that also will lead us to the end of our relationships. So, don't keep secrets or don't get upset ... when it's over.

Sunday, August 06, 2017

kindness and love...

There is nothing can be expected of Love and kindness in relationships..
Let us discus how....   If one's raising a garden...
Can he be kind to weeds?
Can he love harmful insects
Can he love unknown plants?
Can he Love unknown insects?
He may love birds, bees and butterflies not monkeys and donkeys  or even frogs..
The language of kindness often is not valid currency at least many consider it so care and watchfulness reaction for actions, and not actions anticipating reactions!
God pours rain of kindness there can be no weeds in forests natural will be kindness
where one raise no garden .... No fence or wall around where one lives in wall less home
Build no walls. raise no garden... there only kindness and love blossom..