To be forgiven a person has to first be willing to be honest with their counterparts and with themselves as well.
It shows the highest form of character and integrity when a person is
willing to own up to the mistakes and wrongs that they have committed in
their pasts, in a repentant manner.
When we have the courage to admit our mistakes, we are also taking the
courage of making a new way, realizing that the old ways in which we
were doing things just weren't working for us.
Choose to live, admit when you are wrong, never fall victim to living in
a box that contains you and doesn't allow you to be who you really are,
or become who you want to become.
Pride can be a prison if you allow for it to be, a life lived in vain
can actually be a life lived in chains, be courageous enough to say the
things you need to say, and do the things that you need to do.
"I make mistakes, I know I'm not perfect. That's why I'm thankful for the true friends who stick by me knowing how I am"
Finally when the tides of life turn against you and the current upsets your boat you have to choose between
wasting those tears on what might have been, and lie on your back and float. while surrender to your destiny .. Those who try to do something and fail.. are infinitely better than those who try to do nothing and succeed.. i believe that Anything is possible but only for those who are willing to try.
Shame, Vanity, Arrogance or even our Indifference lead us wait until its too late to tell someone how much we love and how much we care,because when they're gone no matter how loud we shout and cry, they won't hear us anymore.. but after all, love is all about timing. If we don't say the right thing at the right moment no matter how much fate was involved in the relationship, everything will be ruined. Even if we regret it, it will be too late... never wait until realize you've burned the bridge to the greatest friend you have ever had because it will be far too late to rebuild it.
Art is the imagination, which makes us realize the truth
Instead of walking in pride, and telling someone about what we know, and what we went through that may be similar to what they are going through, walk in love, peace, and understanding by just giving our ear to listen, a body to hug, and a shoulder to cry on.
Once we get over yourself, and get away from our own self righteousness, the people that we choose to listen to and understand will undoubtedly start to pour more of themselves into us more and more each time we are able to connect.
Though there is a time to give advice, much of building relationships with people has to do with the way that we are just there for them in their times of true need!
When we take time out of our own life and give of ourself by just being there and giving our ear, or shoulder to lean on, you will in turn have someone to be there for us in our times of need as well.
we think we can't move on, but the truth is every-time we get out of bed we are fighting, and we're slowly moving on. The key to overcoming the pain in our life is to realize that though pain is something that is inevitably a part of life, we have the choice of whether we are going to yelling in it and suffer, or move on from it, and do our best to let it go... In fact sometimes its very hard to move on. But once we move on. we'll realize it was the best decision we chose.. I can say If we love yourself we need to prove it by doing whatever it takes to make us happy with our own life... O, you know.. Sometimes all we have to do is erase the messages, delete the numbers, collecting what still remains who we truly are and move on.. in fact, life is too short to hold grudges, revenge or even regret .. Just ... move on.
A problem can be defined in numerous ways
but in many meanings a problem is a question of how to reach a solution
leaving those presented with the problem with feelings of doubt and
uncertain times. Problems are something that we all face on a daily
basis, the only difference being some of us face problems of extreme
difficulty on a normal basis, while others face problems with a degree
of lesser difficulty more normally. Either way it goes, a problem is a
problem and we all must face them at some point in our lives.
Being able to solve a problem is one of the most necessary skills needed
to succeed in your lifetime. Generally when we approach a problem in
order to solve it, we must first have a clear understanding of the
problem, then make a feasible plan to solve the problem, and lastly
execute the plan to eliminate the problem... My dears; A lot of problems in the world would disappear if we talk to each other instead of about each other but don't question what you don't understand unless you're asking questions seeking to understand because being wise is not about how fast you can find a solution but how patiently you react to the problem itself.
The most sensible person is the one who knows to put his pride in the pocket when he realizes he was wrong and is able to laugh at himself.. So, A simple apology could fix a friendship that shouldn't have ended in the first place. Don't let your pride stop you from doing what's right.
Marriage is the formal union of a man and a
woman, in which they become husband and wife. It is an institution
which acknowledges or accepts relationship between people who get quite
intimate and close to each other. Marriages get solemnized through a
wedding ceremony or matrimony. When you get married to someone, you make
a public declaration of commitment to that person. Marriages can
survive the test of time and stretch to eternity if there is great
faith, trust and understanding between the married couple. Dissolution
of marriage is also allowed by certain cultures. This dissolution is
known as a divorce which required settlement between the male and the
female who decide to call it quits and part ways.
Enid Bagnold had once remarked, ..
“In marriage there are no manners to
keep up, and beneath the wildest accusations no real criticism. Each is
familiar with that ancient child in the other who may erupt again. We
are not ridiculous to ourselves. We are ageless. That is the luxury of
the wedding ring.”
People
say there is no difference between complete and finish. When you
marry the right one, you are complete, and when you marry the wrong one,
you are finished and when the right one catches you with the wrong one,
you are completely finished.
Once, the great "Helen Keller' said .. the best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt with the heart"
Yes dears life is full of many things, and many of the most important things in our lives stem from the things that we cant see with our natural eyes. Things like the choices that we are willing to make on a day-to-day basis, affect our lives greatly without us even seeing how. The way that we choose to dress may help us to gain recognition that we aren't even seeking consciously, or it may help to deter others from wanting to get to know us.
Other things in life that are very real to us that we can't see like love help to give our lives meaning on a day to day basis. Love makes us want to work harder in our everyday lives, love keeps us honest, and it helps us to think about the things that are actually important in life, instead of focusing on the parts of life that are solely negative.
Always remember the parts of life that make life real, because many times these are the things that we may feel, but that we cant see.
The future only belongs to one group of people, and that is the group of people who not only have a dream, but a people who believe in the dreams that they have for them selves and for the world, and are willing to go out in the world at any cost to get their dreams.
Following your dreams may seem as something out of a book of fairy tales for some, but the following of dreams is why many have seen success that will affect generations to come. To follow your dreams requires a boldness that not everyone will be able to master, not because it is impossible, but instead because they will choose not to.
The future belongs to the go-getters of the world, the people who are willing to think for them selves, keeping in mind the major errors of mankind in history, and being willing to create from their own innovative ideas mixed with the productive wisdom of the past.
We have to be willing to dare to make the dreams that are inside of us a reality. Doing so may mean that we have to tap into the greatness of others before us who are great examples of what following a dream may achieve. People like Walt Disney..
The future belongs to those with an undying fight in their hearts, an undying faith, both fused with a light of hope on the inside that if let out may be strong enough to provide light to the rest of the world. The future belongs to those who believe.
In order to make things simpler in your life, you have to really become least obsessed with the things that stress you out, and work on your life daily, in an effort to make the best decisions for each day. As you continue to successfully make each day better than the last, choosing to make great decisions that are not only ambitious, but ethical and morally right as well, things will really start to get simpler.
Everything that you put in you get out of life. If you put in honest, true passion every day that you live, that will be what you collect from life, almost without even trying. While the same is oppositely true if you are only willing to put negative thinking, and negative actions in your life. Thinking and acting the way that you need to will allow things to be as simple as you need them to be, or as difficult as you make them, the choice is yours.
everything breeds small and grow except sadness.. breed great and slowly fading away.
