There are either two winners or none.

Don't play with someone's feelings, you may win the game but you will surely lose the person for a lifetime... If you really needing person to be there for you, isn't like a game; once you have got what you want and you have won, you don't want to play anymore; It is keeping your commitments with that person even when you don't want to. Nothing is more important than keeping our word and stop playing games. In the words of Michael Jordan i remember he said, “Talent wins games, but teamwork and intelligence wins championships.”