Government is an unnecessary evil ...
You can't give the government the power to do good without also giving it the power to do bad in fact, to do anything it wants. The government solution to our problems are usually as bad as the problem. And we as a Member of the public are not free unless government is limited. I remember once Voltaire said "It is dangerous to be right when the government is wrong"... Surly he was right because we must not look to government to solve our problems. Corrupted governments are the problem. And under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also a prison.
I grow believing that government exists to protect us from each other through law, rules, etc.. but Where government has gone beyond its limits is in deciding to protect us from ourselves.. then by a way or another when government accepts responsibility for people, people nowadays no longer take responsibility for themselves. And now we should ask not what the government can do for us. We ask why it doesn't..!
My dears there is a huge difference between wars and revolutions .. War is when the government tells you who the bad guy is, Revolution is when you decide that by yourself.
Government is an unnecessary evil. Human beings, when accustomed to taking responsibility for their own behavior, can cooperate on a basis of mutual trust and helpfulness.
Missing you are words generally said to a beloved or a friend who is lives quite away and is separated by distance. Distance brings about physical separation but mentally, the two people are so connected that they tend to miss each other, even when separated by distance. Even when you are miles away from your beloved, your heart won't stop beating for him or her and missing him or her is natural if you are truly serious about the person and have deep-rooted feelings for him or her.
It is genuine that when your object of affection or significant other is away from you, you will long to meet them. Expressing your genuine feelings and saying that "I am missing you" can be a great way of expressing your love and concern for the other person and giving yourself solace. But don't make the other person weak by constantly uttering the same.
Beauty varies according to the eyes of the beholder. What one may seem beautiful to one person may not be so to the other. But there are certain things that are universally agreed to come under the category of beauty like, the sight of roses, a kid's innocent smile, and the act of being kind to others, natural scenery in the lap of Mother Nature and so on.
There are so many things around us that are so beautiful and we tend to miss them and it needs another person to point out they are beautiful. My dears always remember, Your true beauty is not related to what color your hair is or what color your eyes are.true beauty shines when actions show compassion, love, and spirit. Within the heart, True beauty is about who you are as a human being, your principles, and your moral compass.
Growing up actually pertains to emotional, physical and psychological growth. All of us are born as babies and then grow into children, then teenagers and finally adults. Each phase brings about a lot of changes in our psyche and physical appearance. Mental outlook changes and we tend to become more mature. Becoming mature with increasing age suggests the process of “coming off age” of a person.
During the growing up phase, care should be taken by parents that their wards don’t go wayward and follow the wrong ideas and beliefs.
The growing up phase of adolescence is the time when parents should keep a close eye on the activities of their children. Sensible teenagers can only transform into mature and sensible citizens..
Growing up, You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories but find yourself moving on. Its perfectly normal but while you are getting old do not ever enjoy remembering things more than doing them. As we grow older and wiser, we begin to realize what we need and what we need to leave behind. And Some other times just walking away is a step forward.
Failures, turns and twists and adversities might break us down and lessen or morale completely. But even we should learn to take them in our stride and learn from every bad experience too.
I feel that all the things that happen to us in our lives are somewhere down the line, destined to happen. And i completely believe that life is not about what is right and what is wrong, but it's with what is important... and There comes a point in our lifetime when we're more important than our past.
All of us talk like we know what's going on everywhere. But we don't. We don't know anything yet. We're growing and we're gonna keep changing our minds and even sometimes our hearts. And through all that, the only thing we can truly offer to each others are... acceptance and forgiveness.
" I wish you were with me so I can tell you directly how much you mean to me. I'll hold you tight and hug you near my heart so that you can hear what its trying to whisper, You're the reason why I'm beating"
A long distance relationship is a
relationship between two people that are in two totally different
places, and usually a long distance away from each other. Long distance
relationships are thought of by many as impossible to last a lifetime,
and many refuse to try them because of this widely held belief. When a
person is in a long distance relationship they are forced to put all of
their heart and soul in a relationship that shows no immediate
gratification. Besides being able to talk over the phone, write emails
and the newly popular video conference calls, the communication between
the couple is limited, and unless the individuals make regular trips to
see each other there isn’t much physical activity between the couple. A
long distance relationship requires a pair to have a lot of respect,
trust, and love towards one another in order to work out for the best,
and maybe even last for their lifetimes...
There are haters around us in many forms. Sometimes we are able to identify them but sometimes we are not. But if we develop the mentality that haters are in fact our admirers, it would cause no harm. ‘Hating is the sincerest from of flattery “says a proverb. There are various reasons to hate a person and at times, haters do not have a reason at all to hate others. They do it just for the sake of hating others. But hating a certain name only gives them fame. Whether a person loves you or hates you, you are in their minds. But haters only hate the things that they can’t get and the people they can’t be. So, it is only an expression of adoration they have for you. In fact, when someone hates you, it gives a sense of motivation to achieve more in life and stand upright in front of them. Therefore, do not hate your haters. because its so simple theory ..
There will be haters,
There will be Doubters,
There will be Non-Believers, and then ..
There will be you spreading love proving them Wrong.
My dears haters are just life's obstacles you have to go around them and keep moving.
being courage doesn't mean you don't get
afraid; we all afraid from something but it's means you don't let your
worth fear stopping you from catching your dreams... "they says . "Do
one thing everyday that scares you". indeed i agree with that
because Some of our amazing moments in life come from doing things that
scare us the most and i'm sure that taking risks takes practice. So, if
we win.. we shall lead and if we lose we can guide others through our
failure experiences.
Nationality gives a sense of pride in any country and this is inborn. Nationality is essential for everyone and it is the conviction that this country is superior to all other countries because you were born in it. Nationality gives you the chance to prove your worth for the country.
we should ask not what your country can do for you ... ask what you can do for your country. But sometimes nationality or patriotism is so blinding that we fail to face the reality. Even if a wrong has been done, we continue to argue that it is right. But apart from patriotism, the other fields are universal as Johann Goethe once said “science and art belong to the whole world and the barriers of nationality vanish before them’.
Many leaders and great writers have said quotes on nationality but have advised to possess in refrained form.But what makes me wonder is ...!
If they are a good citizens why they immigrated to other countries and just leaving them nationalities behind ..!
I can answer that .. but i'll mix so many bad words with my bad mood, and i knew that i'll have many opportunities to change my mood later but i'll never get the opportunity to replace the words i ink or i spoke.. but at the end you can either run from oppression and your fear , or ... stand firm and face it. didn't you know that courage is not living without fear. Courage is being scared to death and doing the right thing anyway.
Freedom means to act or behave freely without any restrictions. Freedom incorporates the freedom to think, speak and move at your will, without being hampered by nay restrictions or limitations.
Being free, you are not enslaved and nobody can take you in custody. Everyone loves freedom and freedom is everyone’s birthright. Martin Luther had once remarked, “Change does not roll in on the wheels of inevitability, but comes through continuous struggle. And so we must straighten our backs and work for our freedom. A man can't ride you unless your back is bent.”
Indeed freedom should never be misused though. As a responsible individual of the society, all of us are responsible for our actions. I always repeat the words of Mohandas Gandhi, “Freedom is never dear at any price. It is the breath of life. What would a man not pay for living?”
My dears freedom is something that infuses life in our spirits and should be made the maximum use of because we have a choice to Live or die... Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. To be or not to be,
once i read that "every human has four endowments...
self awareness, conscience, independent will and creative imagination... These God endowments give us the ultimate human freedom.. It's the power .. to choose, to respond, and to change". in fact we can accept that words unless we understand that If we have the freedom to choose our actions, we don't have the freedom to choose the consequences of it.
now we must choose; we can have peace. or we can have freedom. but don't ever count on having both at once because it is a package deal ... with it.... comes responsibilities and consequences and always remember that the cost of freedom is always high.
"I don't regret loving you... I don't regret trusting you... I regret giving you the power to hurt me in a way that I'll never be able to be find again"
A broken heart is the result of a broken relationship or marriage that fails to stand the test of time. Any relationship or marriage demands a lot of emotional investment and decisions which are taken with the heart rather than the mind. A broken heart leads to several deep wounds in the heart which take a lot of time to heal. Time is nevertheless a great healer. The wounds which are inflicted on a broken heart get healed with time but they leave behind indelible scars and impression on the mind. To avoid the repercussions of a broken heart, avoid getting into relationships entirely or be a part of one rock-solid and steady relationship that can survive the test of time and bring bliss to the couple involved rather than causing grief or sadness.
i believe that; the worst feeling in the world is when you can't being in love with anyone else because your heart still belongs to the one who will broke it sooner or later. dears what hurts most about love is when you realize that things between the two of you are over. And that no matter what you do to make it go back, you just can't change things anymore. Because he has moved on and you haven't. but always remember If the one you love breaks your heart, remember there is that special person in the world that will come along and mend it!
Hope is a rope that often swings you
through life,
an age old maxim, yet so true and prevalent in the
present day context. When an opportunity is lost, one can at least
suffice with the fact that there may well be another one knocking on our
doorsteps in the near future. However, if hope is lost, one can be rest
assured that it is pretty much the end of the road.
Lost hope usually precedes the death knell in nearly every battle.
Perhaps, the most detrimental factor to a cause is lost hope. The
conventional mantra for success is 'ask, believe and receive'. If the
belief isn't there, then all the efforts are but in vain. Lost hope can
seldom be regained and takes a lot of courage and determination to do
so. That having said, if regained, hope becomes only stronger. Once we
are able to regain that lost faith in our very own self, the road to
success gets only smoother.
Shoo listen ...
Ego means a person’s sense of their own value and importance. Some people have a loud and vocal ego, which is very evident when you interact with them. On the other hand, some people have a subtle ego, which is latent in them and comes to the fore, when the need arises. You end up hurting someone’s ego when you belittle or berate them and make them feel inferior to you.
If we put an eye at our loneliness we will find that, everyone needs someone and everyone goes through something. Why lie to ourself and say we don't, to feel better. ego and pride can't hug us forever.
People will leave us because of that attitude, We should always follow our hearts not our ego didn't you know that compromise always says: Its better to change a little rather than to lose someone forever while ego says: It is always better to leave the one who wants to change you... The ego will always compel us to try to convince others we are right. But the question is.. does it matter..! Do we want to be right, or do we want to be happy..! Personally the very special part i like the most in my prayer, which every time my head touches the ground in prayer, I remember it is to teach me to put down self ego.
We will have the rest of our life to remember, but what we have to remember often depends on our actions today, Our actions become habits, Our habits become character and character shapes our destiny and therefore, actions should be watched and monitored properly in order to decide on the course of our life. Our actions can be either good or bad but we should develop the mentality of accepting the responsibility for our bad actions and not take the credit for our achievements.
Our actions also have the capability of rectifying our mistakes as we all say actions speak more than words. I think right actions in the future are the best apologies for our bad actions in the past. Great Leaders must have this kind of quality as their actions are inspirational for others to learn and do great things in life... Therefore, we should act fast and don’t postpone things because the shortest answer to any question is their actions.
Everyone needs someone and everyone goes through something. Why lie to ourself and say we don't,to feel better. ego and pride can't hug us anymore, Learning to trust again isn't really hard... it's finding a person with enough patience to teach you.
Those who don't trust us without explanation won't trust us even after the explanation.. trust ... can't be negotiated.
If you tell me the truth, I'm going to be mad, but I'll get over it. If you lie to me I'm never going to be able to trust you again. Your choice!
Trust is broken in a relationship when one
person fails to stay loyal to the other person. Broken trust leads to
deterioration of the relationship. It is hard to win back or repair
trust once it is broken. Loyalty and faithfulness to the ones we love
helps in nurturing solid relationships and in strengthening their
foundation.
Broken trust really causes pain and suffering and the person whose trust
gets broken often gets badly hurt and wounded. These wounds and the
pain that they cause take a lot of time to heal.
One should stay loyal when in a relationship and should not break the
trust of our beloved or our near and dear ones. Broken trust hurts and
causes a lot of pain and trauma.
The best thing is to turn over a new
leaf and start afresh when someone breaks your trust and let the bygones
be bygones. Analyzing what went wrong and how things can become normal
will hurt you even more.. finally i always believe that as much as we've secrets sooner or later that secrets are going to lead us to lies, that lead to distrust, that also will lead us to the end of our relationships. So, don't keep secrets or don't get upset ... when it's over.
"I think the only reason people hold onto
memories so tight is because memories are the only things that don't
change when everybody else does"
People change with time. Time is what changes people. Every year brings several changes since we
have to adapt according to our surroundings and go with the flow of
things. Some people change superficially in terms of their looks. You
might be going for makeover or a complete transformation. You feel like
changing your wardrobe, working on your over all personality and
appearance. Some people undergo drastic transformations. Other kind of
changes comes internally, related to our qualities. Some people become
proud and arrogant once they acquire some name and fame. They start
looking down upon their subordinates. they say that time and money has
shown some negative influence on such people... But i say as different
as we are as colors .. so much differences but when you have all the
pens .. after taking the lesson .. you can complete the paint .. it's
the art of living.. My dears our world full of honesty humans and if you
still can't meet on of they .. be one... because cheating comes in various forms nowadays, to that
of wife by a man or, to a friend to thy neighbor. In all probability,
cheating has become an act of justification because those who cheat have
at least one reason to justify their action. Most of us still talking about cheating to reveal that these persons do not repent for their actions but
rather try to shift the blame on others. This is more prevailing in
couples. But fundamentally, we see that the lack of trust is the main
reason for cheating and if mutual love or respect is built on trust and
respect for others, there would be no scope for cheating. Anyhow, send
these words on cheating to your near and dear ones to draw lessons from
them. Cheating is a part of a game that is played by two people and one
who cheats is only a temporary winner.
Within each one of us ... the power to do anything exists ... but with confidence and inspiration, we unlock the possibilities,
Inspiration is ...something or someone who inspires us to strive for something spectacular. Inspiration is needed to bring out the best in oneself. Genius involves majority of perspiration, dedication and hardcore efforts while a small credit always goes to inspiration. Anyone or anything in your vicinity can inspire you to work for achievement and give your heart and soul to it. When we are facing hardships, any inspiring force gives us the momentum to turn the tide in our favor...
My dears anybody can be an inspiration to others even by refusing to give up. Who knows what someone else can achieve because we never gave up and in turn .. inspired them not to give up.
So what about confidence..
In my humble opinion confidence is nothing but sheer belief in your abilities or credentials. Confidence is the hallmark of any successful person, who makes it big in life. Confidence drives you to achieve and realize your dreams and ambitions. It makes you feel motivated and inspired. Confidence is one feeling that makes you feel that even the sky is not the limit. It is extremely vital to be confident about yourself. Confidence makes you positive about your chances of realizing any goal successfully. It is associated with an optimist generally, someone who looks a half-filled glass of water as half full rather than half empty.
Having confidence in who you are and your appearance is what makes you desirable... Just remember that; much pride attracts more haters and brings less friends to your life,
There is something we must make certain we do while we still can is to spend time with the ones we love because there is going to be a point in time in which they will be gone from your life, or you will be gone from theirs, and living with the regret of not being the person that you wanted to be for them is a hard thing to live with.
Life is all about the relationships we build with the people that we love, and the blessings that we leave for them when we willingly or are forced to separate from them. Make time in your life for those who are most important to you. Let them see you as who you want to be remembered as, and try your hardest to work on your personal relationships with them instead of things that wont matter when you are gone. now remember, it's difficult to wait for something you want .. indeed, but it's more difficult to regret . Furthermore, Trials are not reasons to give up on our relationships, but a challenge to improve our lives. It is not an excuse to back out, it is an inspiration to move forward and learning how to share our life with others..
Weapons are arms or tools that are used for inflicting some harm or damage on human beings. Weapons are used in warfare to cause wholesale destruction. Weapons can inflict both mental and physical damage on human beings. Weapons serve a variety of purpose as they can be used for hunting, fighting, defense, waging a war, preserving law and order. Disarmament is the practice which disapproves the use of weapons. Weapons should be used for constructive purposes rather than destructive purposes. Weapons are misused by terrorist groups at times, to wage a war uselessly. Such wars cause great destruction and loss of life and property.
We'd believe that; Weapons are never a killer, it is a tool in the killer's hands .
“Attitude is little thing that makes a big
difference” ...
men use the word 'friendship' to start love, Women use the word 'friendship' to end it... same word, different attitude. I remember Winston Churchill once said .
"When we have a difference of
opinion with others and get into a conflict, it either leads to having a
positive or negative effect on the relationship".
Yes surly your positive attitude
gives a positive result whereas the negative, gives a negative result. A
positive attitude gives the confidence of achieving anything and
removes the doubt and lethargy.
If you ask how this can be done rather than whether this can be done, it
is positive attitude. Evidently, a positive attitude towards life
determines the life’s attitude towards us. This small attitude makes all
the difference in life. A positive attitude has the capacity to create
miracles and can cure diseases even the wonder drugs cannot.
At the end.. You should know that; two things define you..!
your attitude when you are at your worst and
your attitude when you are at your best..
Leaders with a strong outward focus are not only good listeners but also good questioners... that was my inspiration to discus listening ..
Listening is the process when you give attention to a sound. When one makes a process to hear something, it means he or she is making an effort to listen. When you listen to something, you must be all ears and stay focused to understand whatever you were hearing. One must be a patient listener. Listening to someone with patience and concentration is not somebodies cup of tea. Active listening is a means of communication to understand, interpret and evaluate what he or she hears. Active listening helps in fostering understanding, reducing conflicts and strengthening cooperation.
