Wide Shout

There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout: This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision. When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.

Acceptance

Acceptance, though a hard thing to do, is an essential thing that helps you to improve in life. When you accept a friend as such with his plus and minuses, you gain friendship. When you accept a past deed, you prepare yourself to face the future, when you accept a situation, you become more comfortable. Acceptance is the essence of life and if we try to shun away from acceptance, life becomes a bed of thorns. 
once a great writer said, "acceptance is not submission; it is an acknowledgement of the facts of the situation. It also helps you to decide your future course of action". 
Those who accept things that cannot be changed are as wise as grass that grows in the riverbeds and those who refuse to accept are like trees there. When a storm blows, the grass accepts and survives but the tree falls to the power of the wind. Acceptance is an important character that we have to inculcate in Egypt, to survive successfully in this world. 

Apologizing

Apologizing is required when you feel a lot of guilt within after doing something wrong. Apologizing makes sense only when you sincerely realize your mistakes and take lessons from them too. Apologizing is a means of confessing that what you did was wrong and that you want to make up for it as well. 
But, at times, our emotions prevail over our mind and we keep apologizing and pleading innocence when we hold ourselves accountable for some mad action or misdeed. However, one has to draw the line somewhere. Apologizing at the cost of one’s own self-respect is foolhardy. If you apologize to someone and the other person does not give any heed to your apology, then it is worthless apologizing and lowering your self-esteem and dignity. Your efforts are futile and may not reap any fruit. You end up disgracing yourself badly and the over-apologizing takes a huge toll on your self-respect, eventually. We should know that; nothing wrong with apologizing, but saying I'm sorry does nothing when you continue to make the same mistakes.

I'm here for you

Kindness is the master key that opens every heart. If you are fumbling for the right words, like a late night search for keys, start with I care, I understand and I'm here for you. You will open the door to healing and guarded hearts will be unlocked. Turn the key of kindness with words of encouragement right now. and always remember that; We may not be pretty, we may not rich, We may don't have a perfect body, but we should have a good and warm heart for those who care about us. my dears... In this world of heartache and tears, if you find someone who brings joy to your heart and makes life worth living, hold onto them, and never ever let them go.

Fake people

Sometimes people in your life will try to expose what's wrong with you because they can't handle what's right with you!
Sometimes everyone you fight may not be your enemy, because sometimes everyone that helps you may not be your friend.!

From heart

The best way to find what matters the most is to lose something precious to you. and It's nice to look back in your past when you see it as a lesson, not as something to regret. You know when life gets stressful, never forget the things you should remember, and remember the things you should forget. Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards. Today I will. Pray more, worry less, laugh more, stress less, hug more and hurry less.
O,.. dear God, I woke up, I am healthy, I am alive, thank you. I apologize for all my complaining. I'm truly grateful for all you've done.

أعظم ألم في الحياة

أعظم الم في الحياة ليس أن تموت, ولكن بأن يتجاهلك الآخرون

بأن تخسر صديقاً تحبه جداً لتكسب آخر لا يكترث لك أبدً

أعظم الم في الحياة ليس بأن تموت, لكن بأن تُنسى

حينما تطلع أحدهم على أعمق افكارك ثم يضحك ساخراً في وجهك

حينما يكون أصدقائك مشغولين جداً عن مواساتك عندما تحتاج لأحد كي يرفع من معنوياتك

حينما يبدو لك أن الشخص الوحيد الذي يهتم لأمرك هو أنت

الحياة مليئة بالألم , لكن هل يتحسن الوضع ً

 هل سيبالي الناس بأمر بعضهم البعض و يخصصون وقتاً لأولئك الذين يحتاجون اهتمامهم؟

لكل واحد منا دور لابد أن يلعبه في هذه المسرحية التي نسميها الحياة

على كل واحد منا واجب للإنسانية وهو أن نخبر أصدقائنا بأننا نحبهم

إذا كنت لا تهتم لأمر أصدقائك, فلن يعاقبك احد

لكن سيتجاهلونك و ينسونك بكل بساطة تماما كما فعلت بالآخرين

The Greatest Pain in Life

The greatest pain in life, is not to die, but to be ignored

To lose the person you love so much to another who doesn't care at all

The greatest pain in life, is not to die, but to be forgotten

When you show someone your innermost thoughts and he laughs in your face

For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift your spirits

When it seems like the only person who cares about you, is you

Life is full of pain, but does it ever get better? 

Will people ever care about each other, and make time for those who are in need? 

Each of us has a part to play in this great play we call life

Each of us has a duty to mankind to tell our friends we love them

If you do not care about your friends you will not be punished

You will simply be ignored... forgotten... as you have done to others

Believers

The believers, in their love, mercy, and kindness to one another are like a body, if any part of it is ill, the whole body shares its sleeplessness and fever.. Personally I grow to believe that; the most perfect of the believers in faith are the best of them in morals. And the best among them are those who are best to their wives.

Sky and I

The city has fallen: only the rain and roads remain.
In Winter the streets were darken with an echo thunder and lightning .
Sorrowing over the times, the home are weeping.
The birds startled my heart in fear of departing.
All the birds have flown up and gone.. it's too cold; 
A lonely cloud floats leisurely by... but, We never tire of looking at 
each other ... Only, 



Sky and I.

Great effort in the wrong place

It is said that; once a man who lost his keys somewhere and took him looking and asking people about it !!
Does anyone saw my keys ..!
So, some people surround him asked .. Do you lost it here ... he said, no i lost it in another place.. then one of they asked him ..and Why you're looking for it here ..!
He said, because the light here bright and I've a clear vision to be sure it's not here.
What i meant is .. If great effort organized in the wrong place .. it does not affect the outcome

Kindness flaunted

To carry a heavy rock to the summit of a mountain is easier than to receive a kindness which is flaunted. The bane of a generous action is to mention it because It is better to refuse a kindness than to be reminded of it.
Personally I would not accept the whole world if I were to suffer the humiliation of being constantly reminded of the gift. You know to bestow and flaunt a kindness, and to be stingy and refuse to do an act of kindness, are equally bad. just remember when you do a kindness hide it, and when a kindness is done to you proclaim it.

In that special way

To hold you close to have you near
To have my breath against your ear
Whispering the words I long to say
Being able to show you my passion in that special way,
The loving, caressing, kissing would feel so right
Expressing our love right through the night
Our bodies joined as one in pure ecstasy
Thrusting, moaning, loving as You become part of me
Reaching that point there is no going above
Our bodies explode together in out throes of love
After, cuddling, laughing, talking all part of us too
I look up smile and say I love you.

True nobility

Yesterday, i got a friendship with a new friend, And as usual i asked him my friendship key question..
What would you like to be the most ... Being right or Being kind, But the answer was completely unpredictable .. "He replied" ... being polite...  that was the most nobility answer i had.. So, what is nobility..! 
True nobility lies in high character and refined manners, not in noble birth or ancient pedigree.
A noble man is he who aims at noble ends... not he who glories in an ancestry moldering in the dust.
A noble man is noble though he come to want, and a base man is base though he walks on pearls because a lion is a lion though his claws be clipped, and a dog is a dog though he wear a collar of gold... He who disregards his own honor gets no good from an honorable lineage... And like they said " A branch tells of what stock it comes"

Humility ..

Humility is that line of conduct which is a mean between overbearing pride on the one hand and abject servility on the other, as economy is the middle term between extravagance and avarice. in fact humility is the crown of nobility, a ladder to honor, and a means of procuring love and esteem.

Veracity

Once i heard that "Veracity brings peace to the heart".
 If keeping to the truth though may harm thee, i think keeping away from falsehood though it may profit thee because no man's religion can be right until his heart become right, nor can his heart become right until his tongue is right. i always imagine if...  falsehood saves from trouble truth saves much more even if people naked you with ignorant .. An ignorant man who is true is better than a clever man who is false.
A man can be almost perfect only .. when he speaks the truth and acts according to the truth. i used to tell my daughters' if falsehood saves from trouble truth saves much more.
In my humble personal opinion there are two kinds of truthfulness, and the greatest of them is that which may do thee harm. Do you know; If truth and falsehood were pictured...  they would be represented by a terrible lion and a cunning fox. And it is better to die a truthful man than to live the life of a liar. So, my dear "When thou speaks .. be truthful, and when thou acts .. be gentle" 

Father meeting

A dear Person today asked me, How can I define, true man..! To be honest with you, A thousand words contended in my mind.. to a while then I replied him; Watch his friends they are a mirrors to his soul, and if you can't watch his face expressions it may be more eloquent that than his tongue, If you still can't .. The expressions of his eyes will show what is it his heart, But to define him you should know that; He who is wise, and consults others, is a whole man; He who has a wise opinion of his own, and seeks no counsel from others, is half a man; and He who has no opinion of his own, and seeks no advice, is no man at all. My dear' When men .. consult together, they are led by the wisest among them.. he smiles a wide one and replied; And Consult a man of experience, for he gives you what has cost him much, and for which you give nothing. Then.. with a smile in his eyes he said; "Yes Son God bless your way but Let your counselor be one who fears God"

Gratitude

Be grateful to him who has done you good, and do good to him who is grateful to you... because he who is unthankful for little is unthankful for much. you know I believe that; gratitude takes three forms
A feeling in the heart, 
An expression in words, 
And a giving in return.

Neighborhood

I prefer a near neighbor to a distant brother, because a good neighbour is he who isn't only harmless, but bears harm with patience... I also prefer to go a mile to see a sick man or go two miles to make peace between two men and go thousand miles to call on a friend. but you know .. the best of men is a rich man..  who visits the poor, and the worst is ... a poor man who visits the rich... So many thoughts run in my mind but as crystal is only one for now ... We should being friendly to our relations, but do not depend on our relationship that will decrease our disappointment..!

Envy

 "Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind". Buddha 
At my family home today, i got a moments with my dear father, i asked him about what is the difference between envy and emulation ..! a while passed and with along breath he said .. See'
The difference between envy and emulation is, that in the first the desire is for the cessation of a good enjoyed by another, and in the second the desire is for the possession of a similar good... and so many times every favoured man is envied. .. Beware of envy, for it shows itself in you, not in him whom you envy'
So i replied ... Father; then..
Envy is a disease which does more harm to the envious than to the envied... All enmity may be overcome except that which comes from envy... There can be no peace in the heart of an envious man.
Envy may be cured only by a sure knowledge that it is a cause of much pain to you and no evil to him whom you envy... so you must shun it if you would not be an enemy to yourself and a friend to your enemy.
He who strains his neck to look at one above him gets nothing but pain.
Envy consumes man, as rust corrodes iron.
Envy no man except him who is good.