Spinsterhood and ambitions of men

In the spinsterhood and ambitions of men i'm wondering ..!
Why woman doesn't accept the participation of another woman in her husband's, While love is not about being with the person you love its about being apart from them and still loving and caring for the person...!

Why do I need to forgive others?

In order to receive forgiveness for our sins, we need to forgive others. Forgiving others allows us to overcome feelings of anger, bitterness, or revenge. Forgiveness can heal spiritual wounds and bring the peace and love that only God can give.

Ambitions

One thing that we must learn in life is that there are really no short cuts to working hard and dedicating our life to achieving our dreams. There may be many shortcuts that are available to us, but ultimately these shortcuts are just paths that others have already beaten down before us. If we are really adamant about achieving our dreams in the manner that we desire, we have to be willing to follow exactly what is in our hearts to do, even if this means that we are subject to taking the longest most difficult road to get there.

Say It again

Carry me in your heart wherever you go I'm always here. You just have to look within... just listen close and you will hear the beating of my heart whisper .. Oh, You know we are truly blessed when our heart desires nothing more than what we already have and especially whom we share our life with and if distance between us were measured in terms of the heart ... we'd never be more than a minute apart.

Words

There is death and life in the power of the tongue though many of us unwillingly underestimate the power of our words. Words have tremendous power, especially if they are heard over and over again, and are instilled into a persons psyche. Words are like a powerful drug, because they have the power to either influence and inspire growth or to help cause destruction, words can weigh heavy on a person, and words may also help to liberate a person
From knowing this we must all be willing to choose our words carefully. Though it may be easier said than done, we have to all make efforts to not speak out against anyone behind their backs, and to only speak so that they will be able to hear it, receive it, and grow from it. Your words are powerful, always make sure to think and use words that build instead of destroy.So
Watch your thoughts for they become your words.
Watch your words for they become your actions.
Watch your actions for they become your habits.
Watch your habits for they become your character.
Watch your character for they become your destiny

When one is tired of everything ...!

I always judge my age by the amount of pain i feel when i'm come in contact with a new idea... Today i was watching a conversation between a friend to i and another young friend, i found myself willing to go through they chat and say to her friend " When I was your age, television was called book, Meaningless laugh was called impolite and ... so on; in fact there may be a time in life when one is tired of everything and feels as if all one does is wrong, and there maybe some truth in it also..
do you think this is a feeling one must try to forget and to banish, or is it 'the longing for to believe that everything happens happened for God reasons,' which one must not fear, but cherish and hope for more blessing  to see if it may bring us some good..! Is it 'the longing for God' which leads us to make a choice which we never regret..? Anyway let us keep courage and try to be patient and gentle. And not mind being eccentric, and make distinction between good and evil. finally a fly words must to ink before i forget it ... my dears " Be careful who you invest your time in. Nothing is worst than wasted time. It's the one thing you can't get back"

Burning bridges

To build a bridge is a big step, to walk across that bridge is a bigger achievement, but in order to continue your journey, you must light a torch, and burn that bridge down... but the saddest thing about burning a bridge is realizing that you can never get back to the beautiful place it used to take you.

Over the Rainbow

Be alive to every moment as today passes as yesterday and it becomes a history. Make today as gift of the moment and extract maximum of it. Let history be worth remembering to make future full of aspiration as today is going to be tomorrow. So time on the wing of today, yesterday and tomorrow takes flight to sky of glory. believe me happiness is not in our circumstances, but in ourselves. It is not something we see, like a rainbow, or feel, like the heat of the fire. Happiness is something we are and the thing to do for now, it seems to me, is to prepare yourself so you can be a rainbow in somebody else's cloud.

What that means ..!

This... someone who makes you realize three things: 
one, that home is not a place but a feeling. 
Two, that time is not measured by a clock, but by moments. 
And three, that heartbeats are not heard, but felt and shared.
it's the way that someone touches your heart and gives life a beautiful meaning.. telling that tomorrow you need someone to wipe away your tears no more,
Carry you in his heart wherever you go, he just have to look within to see how you close...
What that means ..!

Nothing, but incomplete dream

Getting over losing something that was very important to us, is a very challenging time for anyone, pain is never easy to cope with, but never let these times break you, be strengthened by what you have lost, and allow yourself to gain from these experiences.

Exchanging something with Life

In our lives we have to keep making efforts and strides to continually learn, and from this learning we must also figure out how to apply this newly found knowledge and wisdom to aspects in our lives everyday. Keep searching, and you will keep finding, for the more that you are willing to seek out of life, the more that life will be willing to give you.

What do you want?

Sometimes it's good to ask yourself this question and then see if your actions correspond with these same goals. For instance if you say you want straight A's how much time are you studying? If you want to be a better friend/spouse/coworker/relative how are you treating others? If you want more money, how are you managing the money you have now? Are you working toward what you want in life or are you just expecting it to happen? 
To grow and achieve your goals we must ensure we are working towards them. Try it for yourself. Set up a progress report on what you said you want and what you did for it. Make efforts to help to keep yourself accountable for your actions and how they directly correlate with your dreams, and be willing to change the things in your life that are delaying your progress from achieving the goals in life you may desire.

من يقرأ التاريخ

من يقرأ التاريخ لا يدخل اليأس إلى قلبه أبداً،
و سوف يرى الدنيا أياماً يداولها الله بين الناس.
الأغنياء يصبحون فقراء ،
والفقراء ينقلبون أغنياء،
وضعفاء الأمس أقوياء اليوم ،
وحكام الأمس مشردو اليوم ،
والقضاة متهمون ،
والغالبون مغلوبون
والفلك دوار والحياة لا تقف .
والحوادث لا تكف عن الجريان ..
والناس يتبادلون الكراسي ،
لا حزن يستمر.. ولا فرح يدوم

The art of dreaming

"Art never comes from happiness"
Some say that those who live a life with dreams, but never attempt to make them a reality, don't really have anything at all. When we live our lives it is important to not only dream, but to go after these dreams with a diligent effort as well. Without doing so then we will never have anything of real substance in our lives. Many fail to realize their dreams because they seem to worry mainly about society's beliefs instead of what they believe in their hearts to be true, or that could be true.
In order to realize our dreams we must not follow the most popular vote or most popular way of life, but instead we must follow our heart's vote, and the direction in which our hearts want us to go. Making a voyage may not be easy, and you may never go to the place that you truly set out to go, but a person will be farther satisfied with knowing that they gave it all at the end, instead of leaving life knowing they gave it nothing!

The land of hypocrisy

A hypocrite can be identified in three ways, when he speaks, he speaks lies, when makes a promise he breaks it and when he is trusted he betrays his trust. So, it is better to identify and stay away from a hypocrite,
Hypocrisy is the state of being in double standard and insincere in thoughts and actions. For a country, over population is not a problem unless it is people do not follow double standards. When every individual has two identities, it causes more trouble. To be your own self is the best help to you and for those around you. It is quite human nature to find fault with others while your own self is at fault.
So,.. !! What do you do If we have the ability to buy  treatment pills for all morality, which began to fade away from our society ... in your opinion; which kind of morality pills you want to buy..!

Don't let loneliness drive you back

Don't let loneliness drive you back into the arms of someone you know you don't belong with. Fall in love when you're ready, not when you're lonely.. So, Always remember that a perfect relationship is built on compromises and a great deal of give and take on both sides. When you fall in love with a person appreciate their uniqueness rather than comparing them to the image of your dream lover. Learn to adjust to each others habits, instead of trying to change each other to fit your requirements.

Quit talking, and begin doing!

they say; "If you really want to succeed in life, then stop wishing and start doing". 

If we ever want to be face to face with the dreams that started by blossoming in our creative minds, we have to be willing to just "do." For many people, choosing to start is one of the most difficult steps in the journey of becoming the best person that they may possibly become. Taking that first step into a world that you don't know about completely causes many people to be scared of the chance that they may fail. Many of us choose to be comfortable in a life with no progress, and no risk taking, because we feel as though we are invincible because we feel safe.
Instead of being a ship that never explores, never adds character or experience, and just stays docked on the harbor, we have to be the ship that everyone looks to to go places in life, the ship that experiences the world, and the ship with a tremendous amount of character because of this fact.
Quit talking, and begin doing!

grow up

Taking responsibilities of your choices is the first step of growing up.

Inspiring life story

You are not what others says we are, but it is what we are destined to be and what we choose to become... The pages of yesterday to all of us cannot be revised, but always the pages of tomorrow are blank and we hold the pen to type whatever make it worthwhile So, Make it an inspiring life story.

Remembering

Remembering who you are doesn't take much knowledge; it just requires that a person be brave enough to do what is in their hearts, because not every body is. Remembering who you are doesn't just require you to think about who you are, but it rather influences you to act as who you are at your deepest levels. Remembering who you are requires you not to change and conform to the way that everyone who is around you may act, or the way that everyone around you may talk, and makes you focus on presenting your best self to people who may not receive you.
Always remember who you are, and the things in life that you have been through, so that you may always have the clearest vision of where you are now, and where you are going. There will be times when it will be easier not to be yourself, but never compromise, because doing so will only set you back from being where you want to be.