Monday, December 23, 2013

Disappointment is

Disappointment is the gap that exists between expectation and reality. sometimes it's hard to wait around for something you know will never happen, but it's even harder giving up when it's all you want. Sometime we expect more from other because we would be willing to do that much for them. According to this We may hate someone's actions, but we really don't hate them. Hating a person is far different from hating what they have been doing without us. So,Never be disappointed by the friends who appreciate you, your gifts or your help by words. Protect and always respect the friends that demonstrate their appreciation by their actions... Actions speak louder than words.. Being disappointed is something that can cause extreme depression and sadness. You may just do anything mad or crazy when you things land up in extreme depression. You are disappointed when things don’t work out as per your plan or the results are simply not in your favor. Repetitive instances of failures can lead to extreme disappointment which often takes its toll on a person and gets the better of him. Instances of disappointment can be avoided but cannot be completely done away with. You need to know how to deal with failure and the disappointment that that follows failure invariably. Being disappointed is no solution of dealing with any problem that comes your way. Rather, you should deal with a problem bravely and try tackling it. Disappointment will lead to depression which can have several unlikely repercussions. So, avoid disappointment and depression. Take everything that comes your way and move on. In the words of Charles Morgan, “The art of living does not consist in preserving and clinging to a particular mode of happiness, but in allowing happiness to change its form without being disappointed by the change; happiness, like a child, must be allowed to grow up.” Looking for perfection in a person brings too much expectations. When your expectations are not met, too many disappointments come. Learn to appreciate a person's imperfections. In them, you'll find perfection, And we must accept disappointment, but we must never lose hope. For everything that is done in this world is done by hope.

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