There are either two winners or none.

Don't play with someone's feelings, you may win the game but you will surely lose the person for a lifetime... If you really needing person to be there for you, isn't like a game; once you have got what you want and you have won, you don't want to play anymore; It is keeping your commitments with that person even when you don't want to. Nothing is more important than keeping our word and stop playing games. In the words of Michael Jordan i remember he said, “Talent wins games, but teamwork and intelligence wins championships.”

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Never stuck in friends where loyalty is just a tattoo on them body, believe me it's impossible to see your reflection in boiling water. Similarly, you can't see the truths in your life in a state of anger; first keep your anger at the level of control and focus in the eye coz your ears will always hear the lies but your eyes will see the truth... personally i'd like to hurt someone with the truth better than killing them with lies.

How much time are you going to be given on this earth?

Remember that to be a person of intellect you must not only wish, and hope, but you must take action to make what you wish for, a reality.
How much time are you going to be given on this earth? Nobody ever knows the exact answer, which is the reason why we have to make the best use of every single moment that God gives us to breath. These are moments to promote positive growth within our self and the people around us. You don't have to be a motivational speaker to affect positive change in the people around you. 
A lot of times sparking a positive change in others is done easily by just doing the things in life that are meaningful to you with a 110% effort. Don't just make plans of how you want to spend your time each day. Follow through with these plans as much as possible, and make use of every valuable minute you are given as each day rolls along.