Lord Emerson says beautifully, “for every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness”.
Anger is one feeling that has only very bad consequences and if controlled in the right time, can avoid great losses. If you do not restrain anger, it causes more hurt to you than with whom you are angry. It is, in a raw sense, a short lived madness.
Anger has the tendency to cloud our thoughts and prevent us from thinking rationally. The person who gets angry is the loser and the one at the other end, becomes his conqueror. It is very simple to control anger; just postpone it.
Gandhi said, "anger and intolerance are the enemies of correct understanding". To put it in a nutshell, anger is one word short of danger and therefore, try to control and overcome your anger.
Shadows are people who don't know the difference between being an individual, and being a close copy. Step out of the path, become your own person. Many people fail because they try to copy others, Not realizing that everyone has a different Manner to explain the life.
What hurts the most..!
A lie that draws a smile or the truth that draws a tear!
Truth is like a surgery... It hurts but cures,
lie is like a pain killer... It gives instant relief but it's always has side effects may not last forever but be sure it will last for your lifetime ..
Nothing lasts forever. Forever is a lie... All we have is between hello and goodbye.
Our Useful lessons learnt today may not necessarily be of use to us today, we save them for later. There always comes a time where we won't be able to eat and we'll live from what we had last night.. with this simply lesson i'd like to talk about "Night"
Night.. signifies darkness and the end of day. But at the end of night, there is light again as sun dawns again. So, in literature, night tells us there is sure to be a day and hope. Night is again compared with sorrow, theft, and evil but during night, we tend to melt down our sorrows and hope for the best, next day. Night is the blotting paper for many sorrows. Without night, we do not get a chance to appreciate the beauty of the moon and the stars.
For poets, night is the time that triggers a lot of thoughts to be penned down. And it is better not to discuss secret at night they say as “night hath a thousand eyes”. The day is for honest man, the night is for thieves. There is no limit to the number of words written on the beauty and dark aspect of night. such as"No matter how painful your decision has been, as long as you can sleep well at night, it means you made the right choice"
Do you know what freedom is ..!
We are always see what we allow to see
we are always limited by bounds
we are always tied to something
we are always attracted to something
All of us should to die; that's why we all are always limited by our lifetime
to be free .. completely free we need to never become a slave to our own thinking and our own self. Understand that we are continuously changing. But...., in which way we will change is our free will.
Government is an unnecessary evil ...
You can't give the government the power to do good without also giving it the power to do bad in fact, to do anything it wants. The government solution to our problems are usually as bad as the problem. And we as a Member of the public are not free unless government is limited. I remember once Voltaire said "It is dangerous to be right when the government is wrong"... Surly he was right because we must not look to government to solve our problems. Corrupted governments are the problem. And under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also a prison.
I grow believing that government exists to protect us from each other through law, rules, etc.. but Where government has gone beyond its limits is in deciding to protect us from ourselves.. then by a way or another when government accepts responsibility for people, people nowadays no longer take responsibility for themselves. And now we should ask not what the government can do for us. We ask why it doesn't..!
My dears there is a huge difference between wars and revolutions .. War is when the government tells you who the bad guy is, Revolution is when you decide that by yourself.
Government is an unnecessary evil. Human beings, when accustomed to taking responsibility for their own behavior, can cooperate on a basis of mutual trust and helpfulness.
Missing you are words generally said to a beloved or a friend who is lives quite away and is separated by distance. Distance brings about physical separation but mentally, the two people are so connected that they tend to miss each other, even when separated by distance. Even when you are miles away from your beloved, your heart won't stop beating for him or her and missing him or her is natural if you are truly serious about the person and have deep-rooted feelings for him or her.
It is genuine that when your object of affection or significant other is away from you, you will long to meet them. Expressing your genuine feelings and saying that "I am missing you" can be a great way of expressing your love and concern for the other person and giving yourself solace. But don't make the other person weak by constantly uttering the same.