A boy and a Girl

What every single person or someone in a relationship wants is the complete truth! Not what you think they can handle, not which interpretation fits best, or the honesty that lacks substance. They want something that will make them feel, they want security in the midst of insecurity, they want stability in the midst of instability, they want fidelity in the aftermath of infidelity; they want to be your woman and not your girl, they want you to be their man and not a boy, but they want the message that has actions to follow: which creates a bond that will not break and be sure that  true  happiness is when your dream and her wishes are in harmony all over the way.. 

Trust your first gut instincts

When our spirit speaks it is important that we listen. A lot of times we will hear God tell us to let go of things that are only weighing us down, and we must be willing to exercise the free will we have to make the correct decision no matter how far we think it may set us back in the moment. 
Learning when to trust your intuition comes harder for some than others, but it is a principle of wisdom that we all need to learn to apply in our lives as it is very helpful in almost all situations. Sometimes trusting your intuition over everything else can help to save you from experiencing painful circumstances, and save you from trouble that can easily swallow you whole. Many times we know what is best for our own lives, we just have to be confident enough in our intuition to make the right decisions.

I don't have to do what everyone else is doing

Sometimes I have to remind myself that I don't have to do what everyone else is doing. 
No one is perfect, and it is because of this very reason that we sometimes are able to get caught up in popular opinion, which may lead to us acting in life as others want us to, instead of acting in life as we really desire to on the inside. Don't fall into the pressure of pleasing your peers, because if you make your life about pleasing others, you, yourself will never be pleased. 

You don't have to do what everyone else is doing, but you do have a moral obligation to do what is right in the eyes of God. Treat others the way that you want to be treated, and fight for the rights you have in your heart to fight for. 
We are all unique and we all have a variety of talent and skill for many different reasons. Don't live a life in vein avoiding pain, live a life dedicated to seeing yourself grow to who you want to be, so that you may also help others achieve the same thing!

Only at birth

We are all equal at birth, But we differ from each other by death
The purpose wasn't the beginning, but how we plan to end it.
Do good while you still can ..!

Dirt talking to humans

Said; Dirt talking to humans 
Alas .. humans .. 
As you are now, we were previously
As we are now,  you will be later

غاية الدنيا

قد اولع الناس في الدنيا بأربع 

أكل وشرب وملبوس ومنكوح

وغايه الكل إن فكرت فيه الى

روث وبول ومطروح ومفضوح

Death

Death means the end of life. Death is something that can happen all of a sudden, or it may be due to some long time suffering. Death can occur any time as a result of an accident too. This is what makes it all the more undesirable. Sudden demise of anyone forces us to believe the fact that death can happen to anyone, at the most unexpected times. 
“For that is born, death is certain, and for the dead, birth is certain. So, grieve not over something that is unavoidable.”
Be thankful every minute of your life, because we never know when and where death becomes us. All living things eventually die. It's unavoidable. But as long as you remember, it will live on in your heart forever. Death is the last chapter in time, true; but the first chapter in eternity also.. may God blessings spread upon my mother grave eternally. 

أن الله يبعث من في القبور

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم لا إله إلا الله الملك الحق المبين،لا إله إلا الله العدل اليقين،لا إله إلا الله ربنا ورب آبائنا الأولين، سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين،لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له، له الملك وله الحمد يُحيي ويُميت وهو حي لا يموت، بيده الخير وإليه المصير، وهو على كل شيء قدير.

لا إله إلا الله إقراراً بربوبيته، سبحان الله خضوعاً لعظمته.... اللهمَّ

 يا نور السماوات والأرض 

يا عماد السماوات و الأرض  

يا جبار السماوات والأرض  

يا ديان السماوات والأرض  

يا وارث السماوات والأرض  

يا مالك السماوات والأرض 

يا عظيم السماوات والأرض 

يا عالم السماوات والأرض  

يا قيوم السماوات والأرض  

يا رحمن الدنيا ورحيم الآخرة 

اللهمَّ إني أسألك ....

أن لك الحمد. لا إله إلا أنت الحنان المنان .. بديع السماوات والأرض .. ذو الجلال والإكرام .. برحمتك يا أرحم الراحمين بسم الله أصبحنا وأمسينا .. أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وأن محمد رسول الله .. وأن الجنة حق ..  والنار حق .. وأن الساعة آتية لا ريب فيها وأن الله يبعث من في القبور.

الحمد لله الذي لا يُرجى إلا فضله .. ولا رازق غيره الله أكبر ليس كمثله شيء في لأرض ولا في السماء وهو السميع البصير

اللهمَّ إني أسألك في صلاتي ودعائي بركة تُطهر بها قلبي .. وتكشف بها كربي.. وتغفر بها ذنبي .. وتُصلح بها أمري .. وتُغني بها فقري .. وتُذهب بها شري .. وتكشف بها همي وغمي .. وتشفي بها سقمي .. وتقضي بها ديني .. وتجلو بها حزني .. وتجمع بها شملي ..  وتُبيّضبها وجهي يا أرحم الراحمين.

اللهمَّ إليك مددتُ يدي وفيما عندك عظمت رغبتي .. فأقبل توبتي .. وأرحم ضعف قوتي .. وأغفر خطيئتي .. وأقبل معذرتي وأجعل لي من كل خير نصيباً وإلى كل خير سبيلاً برحمتك يا أرحم الراحمين 

اللهمَّ لا هاديَ لمن أضللت .. ولا معطيَ لما منعت .. ولا مانع لما أعطيت .. ولا باسط لما قبضت .. ولا مقدم لما أخرت .. ولا مؤخر لما قدمت.

اللهمّ َ أنت الحليم فلا تعجل .. وأنت الجواد فلا تبخل .. وأنت العزيز فلا تُذَل .. وأنت المنيع فلا تُرام .. وأنت المجير فلا تُضام  وأنت على كل شيء قدير

اللهمَّ لا تحرمنا سعة رحمتك .. وسبوغ نعمتك وشمول عافيتك وجزيل عطائك ولا تمنع

عني مواهبك لسوء ما عندي ولا تُجازني بقبيح عملي .. ولا تصرف وجهك الكريم عني برحمتك يا أرحم الراحمين 

اللهمَّ لا تحرمني وأنا أدعوك ولا تخيبني وأنا أرجوك

اللهمَّ إني أسألك يا فارج الهم ويا كاشف الغم يا مجيب دعوة المضطرين يا رحمن الدنيا ويا رحيم الآخرة أرحمني والمؤمنين برحمتك 

اللهمَّ لكَ أسلمتُ وبكَ آمنتُ وعليكَ توكلتُ وبكَ خاصمتُ وإليكَ حاكمتُ فاغفر لي ما قدمتُ وما أخرتُ وما أسررتُ وما أعلنتُ .. أنتَ المقدم وأنتَ المؤخر.. لا إله إلا أنت الأول والأخر والظاهر والباطن .. عليكَ توكلتُ وأنتَ رب العرش العظيم

اللهمَّ آتِ نفسي تقواها .. وزكها يا خير من زكاها .. أنت وليها ومولاها يا رب العالمين

اللهمَّ إني أسألك مسألة البائس الفقير .. وأدعوك دعاء المفتقر الذليل .. ربي لا تجعلني بدعائك ربي شقياً .. وكن بي رؤفاً رحيماً يا خير المأمولين يا أكرم المعطين يا رب العالمين 

اللهمَّ رب جبريل وميكائيل واسرافيل وعزرائيل .. اعصمني من فتن الدنيا ووفقني لما تُحب وترضى وثبتني بالقول الثابت في الحياة الدنيا وفي الآخرة .. ولا تضلني بعد أن هديتني وكن لي عوناً ومعيناً وحافظاً وناصراً آمين يا رب العالمين

اللهمَّ أستر عورتي وأقل عثرتي وأحفظني من بين يديَّ ومن خلفي وعن يميني وعن شمالي ومن فوقي ومن تحتي .. ولا تجعلني من الغافلين 

اللهمَّ إني أسألكَ الصبرعند القضاء .. ومنازل الشهداء وعيش السعداء والنصر على الأعداء ومرافقة الأنبياء  يا رب العالمين.

اللهمَّ إني أسألك بأسمك الاعلى الاعز الاجل الاكرم

اللهمَّ إني أسألك بحق لا الاه الا انت سبحانك اني كنت من الظالمين اللهمّ أبدل من استودعتك داراً خيراً من دارها .. وأهلاً خيراً من أهلها وأدخلها الجنّة وأعذها من عذاب القبر ومن عذاب النّار. 

• اللهمّ يمّن كتابها ويسّر حسابها وثقّل بالحسنات ميزانها وثبّت على الصّراط أقدامها وأسكنها في أعلى الجنّات بجوار حبيبك ومصطفاك محمد صلّى الله عليه وسلّم

اللهمَّ إني أسألك بحق لا الاه الا انت رب السماوات السبع والارضين السبع ورب العرش العظيم ان تنير قبرها الى يوم البعث. 

اللهم آمين

يا أمي

لو أن بكائي قد يجدي لأجريت بشدته نهرا 

لو حزني مرّ على صخرٍ... لأذاب بحرقته الصخرا 

ولأبكى شيخاً ذا جَلَدٍ ... ولشيّب في الطفل الشَّعرا 

يا أمي 

لو أن رثائي سيذيب جراحي أو تَبرْا أو يطفئ .... في قلبي الجمرا 

أو يمنحني .... حتى الصبرا 

لملأتُ الكون بكلماتي وملأتُ الدنيا ... لكِ شِعرا

وجعلتُ دموعي لكِ حِبرا ونقشتُ لكِ الأحرف .. تِبرا. وكتبتُ على قبركِ سطرا 

ياربي 

ارحمْ ساكنه وأنرْ ياربّ ... له القبرا

One lonely tree

One lonely tree standing, In one lonely field
One lonely field sitting, In one lonely city
One lonely city laying, In one lonely state
One lonely state drowning, In one lonely nation
One lonely nation With one lonely person
Watching .. humans drenched in hate, suffocated in lies
Listen to them thoughts, catch the tears through eyes

Ultimate freedom

He who rejects his desires; live his life in ultimate freedom  

Argument

Never let a minor argument become a war. Life is much too short to let things snowball and snowball to a point of no return. One big principle that we must learn from our lives is that if we won't win every battle, and that sometimes it is not about giving up or being a coward, but that it is much better to move on, and fight another day. 
Instead of devoting your time to something that may turn chaotic for not much of any reason we should instead devote our time to things that will help build our relationships with others. 
Instead of finding time to argue with others about the small things, we should find time to praise others about the small things. Even when people anger you, and seem to not care about how you feel, treat them with love, be kind, and show them what living life is really all about. Just remember ... Do not ever turn a minor disagreement into a flat out war, sometimes you just have to let things go.

Going to do better..!

"Each heart has some pain only the way of expression is different ... Some hide it in their eyes while some hide it in their smile"
In a life full of difficulties and adversity we must willingly develop the mindset that there is no amount of pain we will never be able to surpass. We can do anything through Christ who strengthens us in our times of great need and strength as long as we choose to believe with all of our hearts that this is possible. 
So, Keep running, and when you feel as though one short race has ended, continue to run, because there will be another short race starting soon. 
Fight fight... through it! Pull all of what you have left together, muster up all of your strength, and all of your courage, and make a concerted effort to continue your fight through the end of each difficult race in life. 
You know; There is no amount of pain that you cannot fight through, and there is no amount of pain that can hold you back from achieving the dreams you know you are destined to achieve. at least do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.

All that matters is what you think of you.

In life we are constantly faced with making the choice of conforming to an ideal of society, and being a person that we know may be socially accepted, but wouldn't necessarily be an accurate representative of who we really are on the inside, or to being who truly are at our deepest and most intimate of levels. 
In making this choice the most rewarding of the choices to choose is to be who you really are at heart. Don't conform to being someone you aren't in the hopes of earning love from a certain amount of people, be who you are so that you will have a positive impact over masses of people from generation to generation. 
There will always be people in your life who will not like you for whatever reason, and there will always be people who refuse to try to understand you. But for every person you cant help inspire, there are many who will be inspired! 
Be that truly special person that you are deep down, live your life and become your best you!

Do something today

The future has yet to be written, have you yet picked up a pen? Your time to start is now! Stop making excuses, stop living in the past, and stop thinking about what little you have now. It isn't about what you have now, its about what you will have in the future if you are just willing to risk losing what little you have now. Remember that failure will come, and adversity will make its presence known as you try to better yourself as well. Never let these things stop you from becoming the person that you know you truly want to become. 
Your future hasn't been written yet, so why are you still debating on proceeding after your dreams or not? Don't let the fear of venturing into unknown stop you from reaching your potential. Be the author of your own story, and inspire others with it, write your own! SO... Do something today that your future self will thank you for.

judging a book

"If you judge a book by it's cover, you might miss out on an amazing story". 
Yes.. Never judge anyone for what they do, because when you judge another, you allow the scope of judgment to be opened upon yourself.
Living a righteous life full of fulfillment is living a life without the judgment of others. Sure there are people who hold views that we don't agree with at all morally, and there are those whose outward appearances may tempt us to steer clear as they may not be pleasantly accepted as social norms, but we must never let what we find disagreeable on the outside prevent us from establishing connections with people who actually may be of great help to us someday. 
No one on this world is perfect, and as long as someone chooses to work hard, and go for their dreams, we should try to support them as best as we possibly can, because there is already enough discouragement in this world as it already is.

When doing research, don't look where everyone else is.!

You don't have to do what everyone else is doing, but you do have a moral obligation to do what is right in the eyes of God. Treat others the way that you want to be treated, and fight for the rights you have in your heart to fight for. 
No one is perfect, and it is because of this very reason that we sometimes are able to get caught up in popular opinion, which may lead to us acting in life as others want us to, instead of acting in life as we really desire to on the inside. Don't fall into the pressure of pleasing your peers, because if you make your life about pleasing others, you, yourself will never be pleased. 
We are all unique and we all have a variety of talent and skill for many different reasons. Don't live a life in vein avoiding pain, live a life dedicated to seeing yourself grow to who you want to be, so that you may also help others achieve the same thing .. and finally just remember; You don't have to live the same story as everyone else. You actually get to choose. So, Choose your story and make your own destiny.

Never judge anyone.

There was once an old man, that sat at the same park bench day after day. A younger gentleman that went running in this same park almost daily always saw this happy, smiling old man, and always wondered why he would just come to the park, sit and smile. Finally after about a year, his curiosity got the best of him, and he stopped to ask the older gentleman why exactly he sits in the same spot daily and just smiles at everyone who passes by. 
The older gentleman replied "When my wife was alive, she used to walk laps around this park, while I used to sit here and read and watch her pass me. I can't help but to wonder, if in some way, since she loved this place so much, that I can maybe get a glance of who she was somehow by just sitting here and doing the same thing I used to do when she was alive." 
You never know what someone is going through, and you never know how you can help someone if you just don't judge them before knowing who they really are!

PPC.. Pain makrs People Changed

Many people have ideas on how others should change, few people have idea on how they should change .... 
sometimes you have to make yourself do things that are outside of your comfort zone. Many great people dedicate the time to become great at a craft, and then continue to push forward towards new heights, and make changes in their lives that normal people will look at them with doubt and a level of craziness if they don't. The thing that separates that once normal person from that person he or she may become when they become greater is this willingness and drive to keep evolving, to keep growing, and to keep becoming better than they are at the present moment. In fact things don't just happen, things happen just. Every single person is called upon to make a change in the plans that they may have held previously. No ones plan is perfect except for God plans, and if we are going to ever make the life that we are supposed to make in this world, then it is best for us to get used to collect ides on how we should change.

Never forgive if you're not ready to forget

We all grow old.But not to brothers and sisters like we think, we often do whatever it takes to move our careers forward and increase our incomes, yet we don'T hold the same regard for our relationships and marriages, even we're thinking more about ourselves and less about our community... we lost sight of the fact that the most important yardstick of our success will be how we treat other people, our families, friends, and coworkers, and even strangers we meet along the way. And there will come a time, when we will lose our humanity because of our greed, yet there will comes a time when the difference between friendship and love is how much we can hurt each other, we lost our humanity and forgiveness somewhere over the rainbow, Then we lost our civilization behind pretending to be who we aren't just to impress others. 
Once upon a time Albert Einstein.said "The problem is, most of the time we tend to forget our obligations and needs someone to remind us of it". It is left to our conscience how many obligations we fulfill but there are many more left.  in fact everyone has their burden,, but what counts the most is how we carry it; and with whom we share it..!!