Corrupted Government

Government is an unnecessary evil ...
You can't give the government the power to do good without also giving it the power to do bad in fact, to do anything it wants. The government solution to our problems are usually as bad as the problem. And we as a Member of the public are not free unless government is limited. I remember once Voltaire said  "It is dangerous to be right when the government is wrong"... Surly he was right because we must not look to government to solve our problems. Corrupted governments are the problem. And under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also a prison.
I grow believing that government exists to protect us from each other through law, rules, etc.. but Where government has gone beyond its limits is in deciding to protect us from ourselves.. then by a way or another when government accepts responsibility for people, people nowadays no longer take responsibility for themselves. And now we should ask not what the government can do for us. We ask why it doesn't..!
My dears there is a huge difference between wars and revolutions .. War is when the government tells you who the bad guy is, Revolution is when you decide that by yourself.

Government

Government is an unnecessary evil. Human beings, when accustomed to taking responsibility for their own behavior, can cooperate on a basis of mutual trust and helpfulness.

Missing you

 Missing you are words generally said to a beloved or a friend who is lives quite away and is separated by distance. Distance brings about physical separation but mentally, the two people are so connected that they tend to miss each other, even when separated by distance. Even when you are miles away from your beloved, your heart won't stop beating for him or her and missing him or her is natural if you are truly serious about the person and have deep-rooted feelings for him or her.
It is genuine that when your object of affection or significant other is away from you, you will long to meet them. Expressing your genuine feelings and saying that "I am missing you" can be a great way of expressing your love and concern for the other person and giving yourself solace. But don't make the other person weak by constantly uttering the same.

Beauty

Beauty varies according to the eyes of the beholder. What one may seem beautiful to one person may not be so to the other. But there are certain things that are universally agreed to come under the category of beauty like, the sight of roses, a kid's innocent smile, and the act of being kind to others, natural scenery in the lap of Mother Nature and so on.
There are so many things around us that are so beautiful and we tend to miss them and it needs another person to point out they are beautiful. My dears always remember, Your true beauty is not related to what color your hair is or what color your eyes are.true beauty shines when actions show compassion, love, and spirit. Within the heart, True beauty is about who you are as a human being, your principles, and your moral compass.

Growing up

Growing up actually pertains to emotional, physical and psychological growth. All of us are born as babies and then grow into children, then teenagers and finally adults. Each phase brings about a lot of changes in our psyche and physical appearance. Mental outlook changes and we tend to become more mature. Becoming mature with increasing age suggests the process of “coming off age” of a person. 
During the growing up phase, care should be taken by parents that their wards don’t go wayward and follow the wrong ideas and beliefs.
The growing up phase of adolescence is the time when parents should keep a close eye on the activities of their children. Sensible teenagers can only transform into mature and sensible citizens..
Growing up, You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories but find yourself moving on. Its perfectly normal but while you are getting old do not ever enjoy remembering things more than doing them. As we grow older and wiser, we begin to realize what we need and what we need to leave behind. And Some other times just walking away is a step forward.

Our past

Failures, turns and twists and adversities might break us down and lessen or morale completely. But even we should learn to take them in our stride and learn from every bad experience too.
I feel that all the things that happen to us in our lives are somewhere down the line, destined to happen. And i completely believe that life is not about what is right and what is wrong, but it's with what is important... and There comes a point in our lifetime when we're more important than our past.
All of us talk like we know what's going on everywhere. But we don't. We don't know anything yet. We're growing and we're gonna keep changing our minds and even sometimes our hearts. And through all that, the only thing we can truly offer to each others are... acceptance and forgiveness.

A long distance relationship

" I wish you were with me so I can tell you directly how much you mean to me. I'll hold you tight and hug you near my heart so that you can hear what its trying to whisper, You're the reason why I'm beating"
A long distance relationship is a relationship between two people that are in two totally different places, and usually a long distance away from each other. Long distance relationships are thought of by many as impossible to last a lifetime, and many refuse to try them because of this widely held belief. When a person is in a long distance relationship they are forced to put all of their heart and soul in a relationship that shows no immediate gratification. Besides being able to talk over the phone, write emails and the newly popular video conference calls, the communication between the couple is limited, and unless the individuals make regular trips to see each other there isn’t much physical activity between the couple. A long distance relationship requires a pair to have a lot of respect, trust, and love towards one another in order to work out for the best, and maybe even last for their lifetimes...

Hate and haters

There are haters around us in many forms. Sometimes we are able to identify them but sometimes we are not. But if we develop the mentality that haters are in fact our admirers, it would cause no harm. ‘Hating is the sincerest from of flattery “says a proverb. There are various reasons to hate a person and at times, haters do not have a reason at all to hate others. They do it just for the sake of hating others. But hating a certain name only gives them fame. Whether a person loves you or hates you, you are in their minds. But haters only hate the things that they can’t get and the people they can’t be. So, it is only an expression of adoration they have for you. In fact, when someone hates you, it gives a sense of motivation to achieve more in life and stand upright in front of them. Therefore, do not hate your haters. because its so simple theory .. 
There will be haters,
There will be Doubters,
There will be Non-Believers, and then ..
There will be you spreading love proving them Wrong.
My dears haters are just life's obstacles you have to go around them and keep moving.

Couragement

being courage doesn't mean you don't get afraid; we all afraid from something but it's means you don't let your worth fear stopping you from catching your dreams... "they says . "Do one thing everyday that scares you". indeed i agree with that because Some of our amazing moments in life come from doing things that scare us the most and i'm sure that taking risks takes practice. So, if we win.. we shall lead and if we lose we can guide others through our failure experiences.

Nationality

Nationality gives a sense of pride in any country and this is inborn. Nationality is essential for everyone and it is the conviction that this country is superior to all other countries because you were born in it. Nationality gives you the chance to prove your worth for the country.
we should ask not what your country can do for you ... ask what you can do for your country. But sometimes nationality or patriotism is so blinding that we fail to face the reality. Even if a wrong has been done, we continue to argue that it is right. But apart from patriotism, the other fields are universal as Johann Goethe once said “science and art belong to the whole world and the barriers of nationality vanish before them’.
Many leaders and great writers have said quotes on nationality but have advised to possess in refrained form.But what makes me wonder is ...!
If they are a good citizens why they immigrated to other countries and just leaving them nationalities behind ..!
I can answer that .. but i'll mix so many bad words with my bad mood, and i knew that i'll have many opportunities to change my mood later but i'll never get the opportunity to replace the words i ink or i spoke.. but at the end you can either run from oppression and your fear , or ... stand firm and face it. didn't you know that courage is not living without fear. Courage is being scared to death and doing the right thing anyway.

The cost of freedom

Freedom means to act or behave freely without any restrictions. Freedom incorporates the freedom to think, speak and move at your will, without being hampered by nay restrictions or limitations.
Being free, you are not enslaved and nobody can take you in custody. Everyone loves freedom and freedom is everyone’s birthright. Martin Luther had once remarked, “Change does not roll in on the wheels of inevitability, but comes through continuous struggle. And so we must straighten our backs and work for our freedom. A man can't ride you unless your back is bent.”
Indeed freedom should never be misused though. As a responsible individual of the society, all of us are responsible for our actions. I always repeat the words of Mohandas Gandhi, “Freedom is never dear at any price. It is the breath of life. What would a man not pay for living?”
My dears freedom is something that infuses life in our spirits and should be made the maximum use of because we have a choice to Live or die... Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. To be or not to be,
once i read that "every human has four endowments...
self awareness, conscience, independent will and creative imagination... These God endowments give us the ultimate human freedom.. It's the power .. to choose, to respond, and to change". in fact we can accept that words unless we understand that If we have the freedom to choose our actions, we don't have the freedom to choose the consequences of it.
now we must choose; we can have peace. or we can have freedom. but don't ever count on having both at once because it is a package deal ... with it....  comes responsibilities and consequences and always remember that the cost of freedom is always high.

broken hearts

"I don't regret loving you... I don't regret trusting you... I regret giving you the power to hurt me in a way that I'll never be able to be find again"
A broken heart is the result of a broken relationship or marriage that fails to stand the test of time. Any relationship or marriage demands a lot of emotional investment and decisions which are taken with the heart rather than the mind. A broken heart leads to several deep wounds in the heart which take a lot of time to heal. Time is nevertheless a great healer. The wounds which are inflicted on a broken heart get healed with time but they leave behind indelible scars and impression on the mind. To avoid the repercussions of a broken heart, avoid getting into relationships entirely or be a part of one rock-solid and steady relationship that can survive the test of time and bring bliss to the couple involved rather than causing grief or sadness.
i believe that; the worst feeling in the world is when you can't being in love with anyone else because your heart still belongs to the one who will broke it sooner or later. dears what hurts most about love is when you realize that things between the two of you are over. And that no matter what you do to make it go back, you just can't change things anymore. Because he has moved on and you haven't. but always remember If the one you love breaks your heart, remember there is that special person in the world that will come along and mend it!

Hope is..

Hope is a rope that often swings you through life, 
an age old maxim, yet so true and prevalent in the present day context. When an opportunity is lost, one can at least suffice with the fact that there may well be another one knocking on our doorsteps in the near future. However, if hope is lost, one can be rest assured that it is pretty much the end of the road.
Lost hope usually precedes the death knell in nearly every battle. Perhaps, the most detrimental factor to a cause is lost hope. The conventional mantra for success is 'ask, believe and receive'. If the belief isn't there, then all the efforts are but in vain. Lost hope can seldom be regained and takes a lot of courage and determination to do so. That having said, if regained, hope becomes only stronger. Once we are able to regain that lost faith in our very own self, the road to success gets only smoother.

Shoo listen ... 

Self ego

Ego means a person’s sense of their own value and importance. Some people have a loud and vocal ego, which is very evident when you interact with them. On the other hand, some people have a subtle ego, which is latent in them and comes to the fore, when the need arises. You end up hurting someone’s ego when you belittle or berate them and make them feel inferior to you.
If we put an eye at our loneliness we will find that, everyone needs someone and everyone goes through something. Why lie to ourself and say we don't, to feel better. ego and pride can't hug us forever.
People will leave us because of that attitude, We should always follow our hearts not our ego didn't you know that compromise always says: Its better to change a little rather than to lose someone forever while ego says: It is always better to leave the one who wants to change you... The ego will always compel us to try to convince others we are right. But the question is.. does it matter..! Do we want to be right, or do we want to be happy..! Personally the very special part i like the most in my prayer, which every time my head touches the ground in prayer, I remember it is to teach me to put down self ego.

Our actions

We will have the rest of our life to remember, but what we have to remember often depends on our actions today, Our actions become habits, Our habits become character and character shapes our destiny and therefore, actions should be watched and monitored properly in order to decide on the course of our life. Our actions can be either good or bad but we should develop the mentality of accepting the responsibility for our bad actions and not take the credit for our achievements.
Our actions also have the capability of rectifying our mistakes as we all say actions speak more than words. I think right actions in the future are the best apologies for our bad actions in the past. Great Leaders must have this kind of quality as their actions are inspirational for others to learn and do great things in life... Therefore, we should act fast and don’t postpone things because the shortest answer to any question is their actions.

person with enough patience

Everyone needs someone and everyone goes through something. Why lie to ourself and say we don't,to feel better. ego and pride can't hug us anymore, Learning to trust again isn't really hard... it's finding a person with enough patience to teach you.

Without explanation

Those who don't trust us without explanation won't trust us even after the explanation.. trust ... can't be negotiated.

Trust

If you tell me the truth, I'm going to be mad, but I'll get over it. If you lie to me I'm never going to be able to trust you again. Your choice!

Trust is broken in a relationship when one person fails to stay loyal to the other person. Broken trust leads to deterioration of the relationship. It is hard to win back or repair trust once it is broken. Loyalty and faithfulness to the ones we love helps in nurturing solid relationships and in strengthening their foundation.
Broken trust really causes pain and suffering and the person whose trust gets broken often gets badly hurt and wounded. These wounds and the pain that they cause take a lot of time to heal.
One should stay loyal when in a relationship and should not break the trust of our beloved or our near and dear ones. Broken trust hurts and causes a lot of pain and trauma. 
The best thing is to turn over a new leaf and start afresh when someone breaks your trust and let the bygones be bygones. Analyzing what went wrong and how things can become normal will hurt you even more.. finally i always believe that as much as we've secrets sooner or later that secrets are going to lead us to lies, that lead to distrust, that also will lead us to the end of our relationships. So, don't keep secrets or don't get upset ... when it's over.

Cheating

"I think the only reason people hold onto memories so tight is because memories are the only things that don't change when everybody else does"
People change with time. Time is what changes people. Every year brings several changes since we have to adapt according to our surroundings and go with the flow of things. Some people change superficially in terms of their looks. You might be going for makeover or a complete transformation. You feel like changing your wardrobe, working on your over all personality and appearance. Some people undergo drastic transformations. Other kind of changes comes internally, related to our qualities. Some people become proud and arrogant once they acquire some name and fame. They start looking down upon their subordinates. they say that time and money has shown some negative influence on such people... But i say as different as we are as colors .. so much differences but when you have all the pens .. after taking the lesson .. you can complete the paint .. it's the art of living.. My dears our world full of honesty humans and if you still can't meet on of they .. be one... because cheating comes in various forms nowadays, to that of wife by a man or, to a friend to thy neighbor. In all probability, cheating has become an act of justification because those who cheat have at least one reason to justify their action. Most of us still talking about cheating to reveal that these persons do not repent for their actions but rather try to shift the blame on others. This is more prevailing in couples. But fundamentally, we see that the lack of trust is the main reason for cheating and if mutual love or respect is built on trust and respect for others, there would be no scope for cheating. Anyhow, send these words on cheating to your near and dear ones to draw lessons from them. Cheating is a part of a game that is played by two people and one who cheats is only a temporary winner.

Secrets of life

Within each one of us ... the power to do anything exists ... but with confidence and inspiration, we unlock the possibilities,
Inspiration is ...something or someone who inspires us to strive for something spectacular. Inspiration is needed to bring out the best in oneself. Genius involves majority of perspiration, dedication and hardcore efforts while a small credit always goes to inspiration. Anyone or anything in your vicinity can inspire you to work for achievement and give your heart and soul to it. When we are facing hardships, any inspiring force gives us the momentum to turn the tide in our favor...
My dears anybody can be an inspiration to others even by refusing to give up. Who knows what someone else can achieve because we never gave up and in turn .. inspired them not to give up.
So what about confidence..
In my humble opinion confidence is nothing but sheer belief in your abilities or credentials. Confidence is the hallmark of any successful person, who makes it big in life. Confidence drives you to achieve and realize your dreams and ambitions. It makes you feel motivated and inspired. Confidence is one feeling that makes you feel that even the sky is not the limit. It is extremely vital to be confident about yourself. Confidence makes you positive about your chances of realizing any goal successfully. It is associated with an optimist generally, someone who looks a half-filled glass of water as half full rather than half empty.
Having confidence in who you are and your appearance is what makes you desirable... Just remember that; much pride attracts more haters and brings less friends to your life,

Relationships

There is something we must make certain we do while we still can is to spend time with the ones we love because there is going to be a point in time in which they will be gone from your life, or you will be gone from theirs, and living with the regret of not being the person that you wanted to be for them is a hard thing to live with.
Life is all about the relationships we build with the people that we love, and the blessings that we leave for them when we willingly or are forced to separate from them. Make time in your life for those who are most important to you. Let them see you as who you want to be remembered as, and try your hardest to work on your personal relationships with them instead of things that wont matter when you are gone. now remember, it's difficult to wait for something you want .. indeed, but it's more difficult to regret . Furthermore, Trials are not reasons to give up on our relationships, but a challenge to improve our lives. It is not an excuse to back out, it is an inspiration to move forward and learning how to share our life with others..

Weapons

Weapons are arms or tools that are used for inflicting some harm or damage on human beings. Weapons are used in warfare to cause wholesale destruction. Weapons can inflict both mental and physical damage on human beings. Weapons serve a variety of purpose as they can be used for hunting, fighting, defense, waging a war, preserving law and order. Disarmament is the practice which disapproves the use of weapons. Weapons should be used for constructive purposes rather than destructive purposes. Weapons are misused by terrorist groups at times, to wage a war uselessly. Such wars cause great destruction and loss of life and property.
We'd believe that; Weapons are never a killer, it is a tool in the killer's hands .

Attitude

“Attitude is little thing that makes a big difference” ...
men use the word 'friendship' to start love, Women use the word 'friendship' to end it... same word, different attitude. I remember Winston Churchill once said . 
"When we have a difference of opinion with others and get into a conflict, it either leads to having a positive or negative effect on the relationship". 
Yes surly your positive attitude gives a positive result whereas the negative, gives a negative result. A positive attitude gives the confidence of achieving anything and removes the doubt and lethargy.
If you ask how this can be done rather than whether this can be done, it is positive attitude. Evidently, a positive attitude towards life determines the life’s attitude towards us. This small attitude makes all the difference in life. A positive attitude has the capacity to create miracles and can cure diseases even the wonder drugs cannot. 
At the end.. You should know that; two things define you..!
your attitude when you are at your worst and 
your attitude when you are at your best..

listening

Leaders with a strong outward focus are not only good listeners but also good questioners... that was my inspiration to discus listening ..
Listening is the process when you give attention to a sound. When one makes a process to hear something, it means he or she is making an effort to listen. When you listen to something, you must be all ears and stay focused to understand whatever you were hearing. One must be a patient listener. Listening to someone with patience and concentration is not somebodies cup of tea. Active listening is a means of communication to understand, interpret and evaluate what he or she hears. Active listening helps in fostering understanding, reducing conflicts and strengthening cooperation.

Our Dreams

Everyone has wishes and goals for life. Often, these goals are expressed in dreams. For many famous and successful people, dreams provide the inspiration to make and attain goals in life, but to someone like me and you it takes a lot of courage to show your dreams to someone else... and if you share your dearm with someone then you should know that; Two people don't fall in love or even got married because they sleep in the same bed, but because they share the same dreams.
Surly as a matter of fact we knew that, Every step towards our dream today is a step away from our regret tomorrow. Now let me show you how it could ... To turn your dreams into reality, all your resources, efforts and concentration should be aligned in the same direction.,, Then turn your "Can't" to Can... and turn your "Dreams" into Plans..

Wanting us to remain close

Many people have touched the edges of my life... coming and going, scarcely leaving an impression. But you're an uncommon person, someone who has made a difference in my life. So it's not surprising that I find myself thinking of how special you are... and wanting us always to remain close.

Change the world

We can only change the world if we are crazy or exceptionally ambitious enough to believe we can do it.. We often hear of important gatherings of the "great and the good."
Sadly the great leaders have not often been good. But the good leaders have learned that it is better to be good than to be great to they communities.
Rare is the leader in this life who is both great and good in his actions and his vision. because vision without action is merely a fake politician dream and action without vision just passes the time to full of they account banks with money, ِand hands are full of blood . deliberate vision with good action can change the world for every human been .. everyone of us is born with unlimited potential, we have the ability and intelligence to make the impossible possible. and no matter how weak we think we are, we all have the power to turn our dreams into reality.
As i used to say to my little kids great and good unity exists only when we accept the fact that.. "one for all and all for one, And as much as we'll live .. we'd never give up on what we really want to do because the persons with big dreams is more powerful than one with all the facts".

Never forget

Never forget some vital things in life. One should never forget friends and all those people who support us throughout our lives and continuously act as a pillar of support.
Never forget that nothing succeeds like success and for the one who tastes success, success comes naturally. The only key to success is hard work. There exists no short cut to success. You have to pave your way towards excellence.
Never forget that life works according to the principle, “as you sow, so shall you reap.” If you work hard and stay good to others, others will also help you and your hard work will definitely yield good results. There are several things that you should not forget and always keep in your mind. In the words of Albert Pike, saying ..  “Above all things let the world never forget that mankind constitutes one great brotherhood; all born to encounter suffering and sorrow, and therefore bound to sympathize with each other.”
So Never forget that three types of people in your life.. Who helped you, who left you and who put you in your difficult time
Never forget that being good to people is like being a Goal Keeper, no matter how many goals you save, people .. will only remember the ones you Missed..!

Being kind

A deep friendship is like a rainbow. When the right amount of tears and laughter are mixed together,then a colorful bridge joins hearts is formed and a painted smile exists in our heart that will last for a lifetime. and even if we don't know what to say to them, It doesn't. matter .. A silent hug  is worth a thousand words to they unhappy hearts.
believe me sometimes just a few simple kindly words from a good friend can put a warm feeling in our hearts... Kindness is an open communication between heart to heart and not required to be learned by searching, teaching, or even preaching... So being kind is much more important than being right, for sometimes all a person needs is not a brilliant mind that speaks, but a patient heart that listen.
From my modest view i feel that the most challenging part about unconditional relationship, friendship or even love; That at some point in time we have to realize that some people can stay in our heart but not in our daily life. So, we need to make our memories now, there may not be a later opportunity to do it. My dears anyone can catch our hands, but it takes someone special to catch our hearts.

Honesty ..

Honesty takes various forms like truthfulness, sincerity, moral uprightness and it is our duty to impart the knowledge on honesty in the young minds of children. “It is the beginning of education” says John Ruskin. Always tell the truth, if you can’t tell the truth, do not lie. The great truth is honesty which is the best policy. An honest person will always have a clear mind and a mind that is afraid of no one. He can hold his head high and walk with dignity in all situations. 
Dignity, power, courage, glory, respect and leadership will all follow the person who follows honesty. It may be a little harder to practice honesty at all times but it will eventually pay at the end. There should be no compromise on honesty .. personally i used to Listen to people when they're angry, stressed, or emotionally vulnerable. This is when they're most likely to tell the truth. So, make sure to be honest about your feelings so that in the end, you'll at least know you didn't leave anything unspoken... My dears i have nothing to say more that those true words .. keep it in your mind ..Always "Never disrespect the honesty of your eyes by giving explanation for your tears"

Facts about love..

When two people in love breakup, they cant be friends as they hurt each other. They cant be enemies as once they loved each other. The only thing they can be is to be the most familiar strangers.
Being hurt by someone whom you love is the worst thing that can happen to a person. If you love someone and your beloved hurts you, then you will be left broken, dejected and depressed. 
It really hurts you to the core, when your beloved hurts you in some or the other way. 
The worst way in which your beloved can possibly hurt is when your beloved calls it quits and ends the relationship. A broken relationship is very hard to erase from one’s mind and very difficult to deal with. One finds it hard to come over the memories of a broken relationship which was one going great guns. Being hurt by someone you love is something that you cannot easily deal with. It is difficult to get over the wounds of the heart. 
The only option you have is to nurse your wounds and let them heal with time. Time is perhaps the best healer. In the words of Daphne Rae, “I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.” And you have to accept the fact that some people will always stay in your heart, even if you are already gone in theirs.

Disappointment is

Disappointment is the gap that exists between expectation and reality. sometimes it's hard to wait around for something you know will never happen, but it's even harder giving up when it's all you want. Sometime we expect more from other because we would be willing to do that much for them. According to this We may hate someone's actions, but we really don't hate them. Hating a person is far different from hating what they have been doing without us. So,Never be disappointed by the friends who appreciate you, your gifts or your help by words. Protect and always respect the friends that demonstrate their appreciation by their actions... Actions speak louder than words.. Being disappointed is something that can cause extreme depression and sadness. You may just do anything mad or crazy when you things land up in extreme depression. You are disappointed when things don’t work out as per your plan or the results are simply not in your favor. Repetitive instances of failures can lead to extreme disappointment which often takes its toll on a person and gets the better of him. Instances of disappointment can be avoided but cannot be completely done away with. You need to know how to deal with failure and the disappointment that that follows failure invariably. Being disappointed is no solution of dealing with any problem that comes your way. Rather, you should deal with a problem bravely and try tackling it. Disappointment will lead to depression which can have several unlikely repercussions. So, avoid disappointment and depression. Take everything that comes your way and move on. In the words of Charles Morgan, “The art of living does not consist in preserving and clinging to a particular mode of happiness, but in allowing happiness to change its form without being disappointed by the change; happiness, like a child, must be allowed to grow up.” Looking for perfection in a person brings too much expectations. When your expectations are not met, too many disappointments come. Learn to appreciate a person's imperfections. In them, you'll find perfection, And we must accept disappointment, but we must never lose hope. For everything that is done in this world is done by hope.

Promises

"Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine" 
~Ralph Waldo Emerson

The meaning of life is to find your gift but The purpose of life is to give it away.  
 It's frustrating when you know the answers, while nobody bothers to ask you the right questions. 
It's so hard when you lose something ... Specially when we lose our own dreams, But we shouldn't lose the lesson behind 
 It's better to fight for something but never against something specially your own fate.
 Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak.  Sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. And I believe that; There is great power in letting go, and there is great freedom in moving on.Yes i agree with our great writer /R.W.E/ Most of the shadows of our life are caused by our standing in .... our own Sunshine.. So my dear Son, Promise only what you can deliver....  Then deliver more than you promise.. that's the way.. And always remember those words " Never be so much happy because you have something new, either never be sad because you lost something, life will keep going with or without you".

The past ideas

Every idea I get I have to deny, that's my way of testing it. but can I wait all my life on a street of broken dreams. Humans used to go to bed with their mistresses; Why I go there with my ideas.
I tell you everything that is really nothing, and nothing of what is everything, do not be fooled by what I am saying.  Please .. listen carefully and try to hear what I am not saying. In this dream calls life nobody really listens to anyone else, and if we try it, just for a while we'll see why. I'm still talking about what I did yesterday, While I haven't done much today that's the way i used to lose my present... step by step you'll enjoy living there, The past is a very good place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there anymore.
The past is never there for me when I try to go back. yes  It exists, but only in my memory. By my hand I let the memories I have steal my present, Yes I surly know it's just recordings of things past, but it's still chains to bind me sometimes
  Now I having spent the better part of my life trying either to relive the past or experience the future before it arrives to my door, I have come to believe that;  in between these two extremes is ... peace. It cost my a life time to realize those two things
"Human life is purely a matter of deciding what's important to us." and  "It's not about what if .... it's what now".

Nothing happens by accident

Things happen for a reason basically means that everything happens for good. All the things that happen to us in our lives are somewhere down the line, destined to happen.
Failures, turns and twists and adversities might break us down and lessen or morale completely. But even we should learn to take them in our stride and learn from every bad experience too. Tracey Gold had once remarked, “I don't believe things happen in vain. I believe they happen for a reason.” Everything that happens to us in our lives happens for good and teaches us a lesson. Perhaps one should learn from every kind of experience whether good or bad. People who keep their chin up even in the most testing circumstances can always end up making a lot out of their lives.
Believe me ... in our life Nothing happens by accident; you are exactly where God wants you to be.