When one is tired of everything ...!

I always judge my age by the amount of pain i feel when i'm come in contact with a new idea... Today i was watching a conversation between a friend to i and another young friend, i found myself willing to go through they chat and say to her friend " When I was your age, television was called book, Meaningless laugh was called impolite and ... so on; in fact there may be a time in life when one is tired of everything and feels as if all one does is wrong, and there maybe some truth in it also..
do you think this is a feeling one must try to forget and to banish, or is it 'the longing for to believe that everything happens happened for God reasons,' which one must not fear, but cherish and hope for more blessing  to see if it may bring us some good..! Is it 'the longing for God' which leads us to make a choice which we never regret..? Anyway let us keep courage and try to be patient and gentle. And not mind being eccentric, and make distinction between good and evil. finally a fly words must to ink before i forget it ... my dears " Be careful who you invest your time in. Nothing is worst than wasted time. It's the one thing you can't get back"

Burning bridges

To build a bridge is a big step, to walk across that bridge is a bigger achievement, but in order to continue your journey, you must light a torch, and burn that bridge down... but the saddest thing about burning a bridge is realizing that you can never get back to the beautiful place it used to take you.

Over the Rainbow

Be alive to every moment as today passes as yesterday and it becomes a history. Make today as gift of the moment and extract maximum of it. Let history be worth remembering to make future full of aspiration as today is going to be tomorrow. So time on the wing of today, yesterday and tomorrow takes flight to sky of glory. believe me happiness is not in our circumstances, but in ourselves. It is not something we see, like a rainbow, or feel, like the heat of the fire. Happiness is something we are and the thing to do for now, it seems to me, is to prepare yourself so you can be a rainbow in somebody else's cloud.

What that means ..!

This... someone who makes you realize three things: 
one, that home is not a place but a feeling. 
Two, that time is not measured by a clock, but by moments. 
And three, that heartbeats are not heard, but felt and shared.
it's the way that someone touches your heart and gives life a beautiful meaning.. telling that tomorrow you need someone to wipe away your tears no more,
Carry you in his heart wherever you go, he just have to look within to see how you close...
What that means ..!

Nothing, but incomplete dream

Getting over losing something that was very important to us, is a very challenging time for anyone, pain is never easy to cope with, but never let these times break you, be strengthened by what you have lost, and allow yourself to gain from these experiences.

Exchanging something with Life

In our lives we have to keep making efforts and strides to continually learn, and from this learning we must also figure out how to apply this newly found knowledge and wisdom to aspects in our lives everyday. Keep searching, and you will keep finding, for the more that you are willing to seek out of life, the more that life will be willing to give you.

What do you want?

Sometimes it's good to ask yourself this question and then see if your actions correspond with these same goals. For instance if you say you want straight A's how much time are you studying? If you want to be a better friend/spouse/coworker/relative how are you treating others? If you want more money, how are you managing the money you have now? Are you working toward what you want in life or are you just expecting it to happen? 
To grow and achieve your goals we must ensure we are working towards them. Try it for yourself. Set up a progress report on what you said you want and what you did for it. Make efforts to help to keep yourself accountable for your actions and how they directly correlate with your dreams, and be willing to change the things in your life that are delaying your progress from achieving the goals in life you may desire.

من يقرأ التاريخ

من يقرأ التاريخ لا يدخل اليأس إلى قلبه أبداً،
و سوف يرى الدنيا أياماً يداولها الله بين الناس.
الأغنياء يصبحون فقراء ،
والفقراء ينقلبون أغنياء،
وضعفاء الأمس أقوياء اليوم ،
وحكام الأمس مشردو اليوم ،
والقضاة متهمون ،
والغالبون مغلوبون
والفلك دوار والحياة لا تقف .
والحوادث لا تكف عن الجريان ..
والناس يتبادلون الكراسي ،
لا حزن يستمر.. ولا فرح يدوم

The art of dreaming

"Art never comes from happiness"
Some say that those who live a life with dreams, but never attempt to make them a reality, don't really have anything at all. When we live our lives it is important to not only dream, but to go after these dreams with a diligent effort as well. Without doing so then we will never have anything of real substance in our lives. Many fail to realize their dreams because they seem to worry mainly about society's beliefs instead of what they believe in their hearts to be true, or that could be true.
In order to realize our dreams we must not follow the most popular vote or most popular way of life, but instead we must follow our heart's vote, and the direction in which our hearts want us to go. Making a voyage may not be easy, and you may never go to the place that you truly set out to go, but a person will be farther satisfied with knowing that they gave it all at the end, instead of leaving life knowing they gave it nothing!

The land of hypocrisy

A hypocrite can be identified in three ways, when he speaks, he speaks lies, when makes a promise he breaks it and when he is trusted he betrays his trust. So, it is better to identify and stay away from a hypocrite,
Hypocrisy is the state of being in double standard and insincere in thoughts and actions. For a country, over population is not a problem unless it is people do not follow double standards. When every individual has two identities, it causes more trouble. To be your own self is the best help to you and for those around you. It is quite human nature to find fault with others while your own self is at fault.
So,.. !! What do you do If we have the ability to buy  treatment pills for all morality, which began to fade away from our society ... in your opinion; which kind of morality pills you want to buy..!

Don't let loneliness drive you back

Don't let loneliness drive you back into the arms of someone you know you don't belong with. Fall in love when you're ready, not when you're lonely.. So, Always remember that a perfect relationship is built on compromises and a great deal of give and take on both sides. When you fall in love with a person appreciate their uniqueness rather than comparing them to the image of your dream lover. Learn to adjust to each others habits, instead of trying to change each other to fit your requirements.

Quit talking, and begin doing!

they say; "If you really want to succeed in life, then stop wishing and start doing". 

If we ever want to be face to face with the dreams that started by blossoming in our creative minds, we have to be willing to just "do." For many people, choosing to start is one of the most difficult steps in the journey of becoming the best person that they may possibly become. Taking that first step into a world that you don't know about completely causes many people to be scared of the chance that they may fail. Many of us choose to be comfortable in a life with no progress, and no risk taking, because we feel as though we are invincible because we feel safe.
Instead of being a ship that never explores, never adds character or experience, and just stays docked on the harbor, we have to be the ship that everyone looks to to go places in life, the ship that experiences the world, and the ship with a tremendous amount of character because of this fact.
Quit talking, and begin doing!

grow up

Taking responsibilities of your choices is the first step of growing up.

Inspiring life story

You are not what others says we are, but it is what we are destined to be and what we choose to become... The pages of yesterday to all of us cannot be revised, but always the pages of tomorrow are blank and we hold the pen to type whatever make it worthwhile So, Make it an inspiring life story.

Remembering

Remembering who you are doesn't take much knowledge; it just requires that a person be brave enough to do what is in their hearts, because not every body is. Remembering who you are doesn't just require you to think about who you are, but it rather influences you to act as who you are at your deepest levels. Remembering who you are requires you not to change and conform to the way that everyone who is around you may act, or the way that everyone around you may talk, and makes you focus on presenting your best self to people who may not receive you.
Always remember who you are, and the things in life that you have been through, so that you may always have the clearest vision of where you are now, and where you are going. There will be times when it will be easier not to be yourself, but never compromise, because doing so will only set you back from being where you want to be.

Together

Mistakes make us human.
Failure.. sooner or later make us stronger.
Love keeps us alive.
But its trust and commitment who keeps us together

Friends

To know your friend more.. never ask him/her "where are you from ?"
instead ask him/her " where are you want to be ?"

Sometimes in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself.

Finding yourself is a long journey for some, and a shorter journey for others, and one must always be willing to reinvent and find out more about his or her self after each accomplishment. In an effort to find yourself, try out different things, notice what habits you have, and try to figure out the things in life that you are truly passionate about.
When you finally find this passion, try to develop it, and make it what you do. A dream is nothing if a person isn't willing to act on it, so go for them, and never stop dreaming and reaching for them for the rest of your lifetime.
We must first say to ourselves, "who are you" and then we must act according to who we figure out we really are.

Time heals none ..

It has been said, 'time heals all wounds.' I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone and if I lived my lifetime due to the motivation from my wounds, I would have already lost the essence of how I could make my dreams became reality..
Life is like a rose. It can be so beautiful with the right persons around us, yet it can be so painful from the thorns of focusing on where we need to be and with whom we took the journey in our life but believe me...  once we've reached to the end of the road, we will see the people who belong in it... and we shall be grateful to who, we became. and so grateful with whom we were spending and sharing it.

No rose lives forever

Are you a pessimist or are you an optimist ?

Are you a pessimist or are you an optimist? Do you choose to see the difficulties in every opportunity that presents itself to you, or do you choose to see the opportunities in every difficulty that you encounter in life. 
Being a success in life is greatly determined by the attitude that you maintain throughout it. In the midst of great difficulty, what do you see? Do you only see the problem? Or do you see how much solving this problem will be a help to you in the future? 
Programming our minds to see the good in life is a process for some that may take a long time to implement but will be well worth it when it becomes a consistent way of thinking. 
Look for the good in each situation you are faced with, and you will go much farther than you ever would have if you chose to only look at the negative in each situation.

Accomplishments

Many of us go through our lives wondering if we will ever be able to accomplish anything that we really desire for ourselves in our hearts. The dreams we have, the plans we wish to see play out, and the goals that we wish to ultimately accomplish are all possible feats. In fact nothing that you have a firm amount of faith and hope in achieving or overcoming is impossible. The only things in our lives that are impossible to obtain are those things that we don't give one hundred percent of our faith, hope, and tireless undying effort to. 

Don't fall to defeat because you are afraid of the mountainous size of the challenges you must overcome. Instead keep a positive attitude, and take life step by step. If you never stop progressing forward, there will be nothing in your life that you won't be able to receive!

Choosing the right person for you

Choosing the right person for you isn't just about the way a person looks physically, but it is about their mental and spiritual characteristics as well, if not more. People tend to jump into a relationship too fast just because a person may look a certain way, or because a person may be financially stable, and learn quickly that this person may not necessarily be the right person for them. Choosing the right person is nowhere near an easy task to accomplish but it can be done. 
In order to make sure the person you are with is the right person for you make sure that first of all the person is on the same level as you spiritually. A spiritual connection is one of the deepest bonds you may share with someone and without it it may be very difficult to overcome hard times together. Also make sure that the person you are with is happy with who you are, and isn't trying to change you. If the person you are with is trying to turn you into someone else, then in most cases they just need to be with someone else more in tune with their desires. Also look for someone who is going to stay by your side no matter what, a person that doesn't have your back in minor situations probably won't in major situations.

الصدق

 إذا أقبلت الدنيا على رجل أعارته محاسن غيره .. وإذا أدبرت عن رجل سلبته محاسن نفسه ....  فالرجل الحق من يؤثر الصدق وإن كان يضره على الكذب .. حيث ينفعه.

Hard life

Speak the truth to all and all the time... It makes our heart lighter and our life harder.

قديما قال احد الحكماء .. لا تغترر بمن يميل إليك حتى تعرف علة ميله, فإن كانت لشيء من صفاتك الذاتية فارج ثباته, وإن كان لشيء من أحوالك العارضة فلا تحفل به, فإنه يقيم عليك بمقام ذلك الشيء, وينصرف عنك بانصرافه..
وان سألتني ما بال السريع الغضب .. سريع الرجعة , والبطيء الغضب .. بطيء الرجعة؟ اقول : مثلهما مثل النار في الحطب أسرعها وقودا أسرعها خمودا.

Nasty wreck

If you ever let go of your heart, and lose track of who you are on the inside, hold on because there could be a nasty wreck in your life coming soon!

The journey

In our lives one thing that is crucial to our progress is we never lose the vision of where we want to eventually be. It is important to plan out a map to our dreams as much as possible to best prepare us, and to help us get to the places in life that we want to go in the fastest manner possible. 
Sure there are times in our lives in which we must stand back and take life in, but for the most part, life requires focus, and careful attention to detail. There will be times in life that things go nowhere close to how we may have planned or visualized them going, and there will be times in which everything or just some things went our way and we were only forced to adapt in smaller avenues. Either way, when we want to produce positive results in our lives we must be willing to take positive steps in the right direction to best do so... finaly just remember to;  Never forget where you've been. Never lose sight of where you're going. And never take for granted the people who travel the journey with you. 

Sink

Do you know which thing that a person should acquire ? 
It's the thing that if our ship start to sink , will keep swimming with us no matter what's next .!

Unbreakable well

in exploring yourself, and in building a dream, be sure that; it is not simply going to happen. And being the fool with uncompleted dream isn't the end of the world. Every single one of us has been a fool at some point in life. The difference between a person of success and a person with nothing is that the successful person learned how to stop being the fool... And What are you doing to avoid the mistakes you made yesterday ? 
Are you learning from your past or are you just playing the victim and wallowing in what happened, and what might have been?
When a person is willing to live their life with purpose and understanding they allow for their life to continue growing no matter what comes their way. People who know what they want in life don't look back with anger or regret, and they don't try to look into the future as if they are scared of what is to come. They are able to understand that while they know where they are going, they can only move forward by handling what is going on in the present with trust completely trust in God help and them unbreakable well. 

Wisdom of heart

Sometimes trying to balance two equations at a time can only lead us to give a right answer to a wrong question and there comes a time when we have to abandon our mind and follow our hearts or abandon our hearts to follow our mind, yet there would always be an endless fight between the heart and the mind... we cannot live with only one of them so we have to use both for our judgments. The smart people are the ones who can balance and know that very moment when would they let the heart or the mind take control over the other.

Master Key

Caring too much, loving too much, , and expecting too much from someone are the master key ingredients that will lead us to being hurt, disappointing and being in pain. believe me Sometimes you have to choose between them and you. If loving them is hurting you it's time to Just walk away.

An open mind, and an open heart

Having people in your lives that are there to correct you when your wrong, help you when you are down, and give you guidance when you have no idea in which direction to go is absolutely crucial to living and maintaining success. Every great person that has ever lived in the world has received some kind of help and some kind of guidance along the way, and we should never be too proud as to not listen to wisdom that we do not yet have. 
Truly as they say "we need people in our lives that are willing to be as open as possible with us" So, Some will only be in your lives to live off of your success instead of to help you gain more success, be weary of these folk, and do your best to stay around those who are really only in your life because they see your potential. Never be too good to take good advice, always keep an open mind, and an open heart

Moving on

If we're brave enough to say goodbye life will always reward us with a new hello... Believe me moving on is easy easy but what we leave behind is what makes it so hard.

Beauty

Your face encompasses the beauty of the whole earth. Your lips, as red as ripening fruit, gently part as if in pain. It is the smile of a corpse. Now the hand of death touches life. The chain is forged that links the thousand families that are dead to the thousand generations to come, So it's a fact that for every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it.

A boy and a Girl

What every single person or someone in a relationship wants is the complete truth! Not what you think they can handle, not which interpretation fits best, or the honesty that lacks substance. They want something that will make them feel, they want security in the midst of insecurity, they want stability in the midst of instability, they want fidelity in the aftermath of infidelity; they want to be your woman and not your girl, they want you to be their man and not a boy, but they want the message that has actions to follow: which creates a bond that will not break and be sure that  true  happiness is when your dream and her wishes are in harmony all over the way.. 

Trust your first gut instincts

When our spirit speaks it is important that we listen. A lot of times we will hear God tell us to let go of things that are only weighing us down, and we must be willing to exercise the free will we have to make the correct decision no matter how far we think it may set us back in the moment. 
Learning when to trust your intuition comes harder for some than others, but it is a principle of wisdom that we all need to learn to apply in our lives as it is very helpful in almost all situations. Sometimes trusting your intuition over everything else can help to save you from experiencing painful circumstances, and save you from trouble that can easily swallow you whole. Many times we know what is best for our own lives, we just have to be confident enough in our intuition to make the right decisions.

I don't have to do what everyone else is doing

Sometimes I have to remind myself that I don't have to do what everyone else is doing. 
No one is perfect, and it is because of this very reason that we sometimes are able to get caught up in popular opinion, which may lead to us acting in life as others want us to, instead of acting in life as we really desire to on the inside. Don't fall into the pressure of pleasing your peers, because if you make your life about pleasing others, you, yourself will never be pleased. 

You don't have to do what everyone else is doing, but you do have a moral obligation to do what is right in the eyes of God. Treat others the way that you want to be treated, and fight for the rights you have in your heart to fight for. 
We are all unique and we all have a variety of talent and skill for many different reasons. Don't live a life in vein avoiding pain, live a life dedicated to seeing yourself grow to who you want to be, so that you may also help others achieve the same thing!

Only at birth

We are all equal at birth, But we differ from each other by death
The purpose wasn't the beginning, but how we plan to end it.
Do good while you still can ..!

Dirt talking to humans

Said; Dirt talking to humans 
Alas .. humans .. 
As you are now, we were previously
As we are now,  you will be later

غاية الدنيا

قد اولع الناس في الدنيا بأربع 

أكل وشرب وملبوس ومنكوح

وغايه الكل إن فكرت فيه الى

روث وبول ومطروح ومفضوح

Death

Death means the end of life. Death is something that can happen all of a sudden, or it may be due to some long time suffering. Death can occur any time as a result of an accident too. This is what makes it all the more undesirable. Sudden demise of anyone forces us to believe the fact that death can happen to anyone, at the most unexpected times. 
“For that is born, death is certain, and for the dead, birth is certain. So, grieve not over something that is unavoidable.”
Be thankful every minute of your life, because we never know when and where death becomes us. All living things eventually die. It's unavoidable. But as long as you remember, it will live on in your heart forever. Death is the last chapter in time, true; but the first chapter in eternity also.. may God blessings spread upon my mother grave eternally. 

أن الله يبعث من في القبور

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم لا إله إلا الله الملك الحق المبين،لا إله إلا الله العدل اليقين،لا إله إلا الله ربنا ورب آبائنا الأولين، سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين،لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له، له الملك وله الحمد يُحيي ويُميت وهو حي لا يموت، بيده الخير وإليه المصير، وهو على كل شيء قدير.

لا إله إلا الله إقراراً بربوبيته، سبحان الله خضوعاً لعظمته.... اللهمَّ

 يا نور السماوات والأرض 

يا عماد السماوات و الأرض  

يا جبار السماوات والأرض  

يا ديان السماوات والأرض  

يا وارث السماوات والأرض  

يا مالك السماوات والأرض 

يا عظيم السماوات والأرض 

يا عالم السماوات والأرض  

يا قيوم السماوات والأرض  

يا رحمن الدنيا ورحيم الآخرة 

اللهمَّ إني أسألك ....

أن لك الحمد. لا إله إلا أنت الحنان المنان .. بديع السماوات والأرض .. ذو الجلال والإكرام .. برحمتك يا أرحم الراحمين بسم الله أصبحنا وأمسينا .. أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وأن محمد رسول الله .. وأن الجنة حق ..  والنار حق .. وأن الساعة آتية لا ريب فيها وأن الله يبعث من في القبور.

الحمد لله الذي لا يُرجى إلا فضله .. ولا رازق غيره الله أكبر ليس كمثله شيء في لأرض ولا في السماء وهو السميع البصير

اللهمَّ إني أسألك في صلاتي ودعائي بركة تُطهر بها قلبي .. وتكشف بها كربي.. وتغفر بها ذنبي .. وتُصلح بها أمري .. وتُغني بها فقري .. وتُذهب بها شري .. وتكشف بها همي وغمي .. وتشفي بها سقمي .. وتقضي بها ديني .. وتجلو بها حزني .. وتجمع بها شملي ..  وتُبيّضبها وجهي يا أرحم الراحمين.

اللهمَّ إليك مددتُ يدي وفيما عندك عظمت رغبتي .. فأقبل توبتي .. وأرحم ضعف قوتي .. وأغفر خطيئتي .. وأقبل معذرتي وأجعل لي من كل خير نصيباً وإلى كل خير سبيلاً برحمتك يا أرحم الراحمين 

اللهمَّ لا هاديَ لمن أضللت .. ولا معطيَ لما منعت .. ولا مانع لما أعطيت .. ولا باسط لما قبضت .. ولا مقدم لما أخرت .. ولا مؤخر لما قدمت.

اللهمّ َ أنت الحليم فلا تعجل .. وأنت الجواد فلا تبخل .. وأنت العزيز فلا تُذَل .. وأنت المنيع فلا تُرام .. وأنت المجير فلا تُضام  وأنت على كل شيء قدير

اللهمَّ لا تحرمنا سعة رحمتك .. وسبوغ نعمتك وشمول عافيتك وجزيل عطائك ولا تمنع

عني مواهبك لسوء ما عندي ولا تُجازني بقبيح عملي .. ولا تصرف وجهك الكريم عني برحمتك يا أرحم الراحمين 

اللهمَّ لا تحرمني وأنا أدعوك ولا تخيبني وأنا أرجوك

اللهمَّ إني أسألك يا فارج الهم ويا كاشف الغم يا مجيب دعوة المضطرين يا رحمن الدنيا ويا رحيم الآخرة أرحمني والمؤمنين برحمتك 

اللهمَّ لكَ أسلمتُ وبكَ آمنتُ وعليكَ توكلتُ وبكَ خاصمتُ وإليكَ حاكمتُ فاغفر لي ما قدمتُ وما أخرتُ وما أسررتُ وما أعلنتُ .. أنتَ المقدم وأنتَ المؤخر.. لا إله إلا أنت الأول والأخر والظاهر والباطن .. عليكَ توكلتُ وأنتَ رب العرش العظيم

اللهمَّ آتِ نفسي تقواها .. وزكها يا خير من زكاها .. أنت وليها ومولاها يا رب العالمين

اللهمَّ إني أسألك مسألة البائس الفقير .. وأدعوك دعاء المفتقر الذليل .. ربي لا تجعلني بدعائك ربي شقياً .. وكن بي رؤفاً رحيماً يا خير المأمولين يا أكرم المعطين يا رب العالمين 

اللهمَّ رب جبريل وميكائيل واسرافيل وعزرائيل .. اعصمني من فتن الدنيا ووفقني لما تُحب وترضى وثبتني بالقول الثابت في الحياة الدنيا وفي الآخرة .. ولا تضلني بعد أن هديتني وكن لي عوناً ومعيناً وحافظاً وناصراً آمين يا رب العالمين

اللهمَّ أستر عورتي وأقل عثرتي وأحفظني من بين يديَّ ومن خلفي وعن يميني وعن شمالي ومن فوقي ومن تحتي .. ولا تجعلني من الغافلين 

اللهمَّ إني أسألكَ الصبرعند القضاء .. ومنازل الشهداء وعيش السعداء والنصر على الأعداء ومرافقة الأنبياء  يا رب العالمين.

اللهمَّ إني أسألك بأسمك الاعلى الاعز الاجل الاكرم

اللهمَّ إني أسألك بحق لا الاه الا انت سبحانك اني كنت من الظالمين اللهمّ أبدل من استودعتك داراً خيراً من دارها .. وأهلاً خيراً من أهلها وأدخلها الجنّة وأعذها من عذاب القبر ومن عذاب النّار. 

• اللهمّ يمّن كتابها ويسّر حسابها وثقّل بالحسنات ميزانها وثبّت على الصّراط أقدامها وأسكنها في أعلى الجنّات بجوار حبيبك ومصطفاك محمد صلّى الله عليه وسلّم

اللهمَّ إني أسألك بحق لا الاه الا انت رب السماوات السبع والارضين السبع ورب العرش العظيم ان تنير قبرها الى يوم البعث. 

اللهم آمين

يا أمي

لو أن بكائي قد يجدي لأجريت بشدته نهرا 

لو حزني مرّ على صخرٍ... لأذاب بحرقته الصخرا 

ولأبكى شيخاً ذا جَلَدٍ ... ولشيّب في الطفل الشَّعرا 

يا أمي 

لو أن رثائي سيذيب جراحي أو تَبرْا أو يطفئ .... في قلبي الجمرا 

أو يمنحني .... حتى الصبرا 

لملأتُ الكون بكلماتي وملأتُ الدنيا ... لكِ شِعرا

وجعلتُ دموعي لكِ حِبرا ونقشتُ لكِ الأحرف .. تِبرا. وكتبتُ على قبركِ سطرا 

ياربي 

ارحمْ ساكنه وأنرْ ياربّ ... له القبرا

One lonely tree

One lonely tree standing, In one lonely field
One lonely field sitting, In one lonely city
One lonely city laying, In one lonely state
One lonely state drowning, In one lonely nation
One lonely nation With one lonely person
Watching .. humans drenched in hate, suffocated in lies
Listen to them thoughts, catch the tears through eyes

Ultimate freedom

He who rejects his desires; live his life in ultimate freedom  

Argument

Never let a minor argument become a war. Life is much too short to let things snowball and snowball to a point of no return. One big principle that we must learn from our lives is that if we won't win every battle, and that sometimes it is not about giving up or being a coward, but that it is much better to move on, and fight another day. 
Instead of devoting your time to something that may turn chaotic for not much of any reason we should instead devote our time to things that will help build our relationships with others. 
Instead of finding time to argue with others about the small things, we should find time to praise others about the small things. Even when people anger you, and seem to not care about how you feel, treat them with love, be kind, and show them what living life is really all about. Just remember ... Do not ever turn a minor disagreement into a flat out war, sometimes you just have to let things go.

Going to do better..!

"Each heart has some pain only the way of expression is different ... Some hide it in their eyes while some hide it in their smile"
In a life full of difficulties and adversity we must willingly develop the mindset that there is no amount of pain we will never be able to surpass. We can do anything through Christ who strengthens us in our times of great need and strength as long as we choose to believe with all of our hearts that this is possible. 
So, Keep running, and when you feel as though one short race has ended, continue to run, because there will be another short race starting soon. 
Fight fight... through it! Pull all of what you have left together, muster up all of your strength, and all of your courage, and make a concerted effort to continue your fight through the end of each difficult race in life. 
You know; There is no amount of pain that you cannot fight through, and there is no amount of pain that can hold you back from achieving the dreams you know you are destined to achieve. at least do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.

All that matters is what you think of you.

In life we are constantly faced with making the choice of conforming to an ideal of society, and being a person that we know may be socially accepted, but wouldn't necessarily be an accurate representative of who we really are on the inside, or to being who truly are at our deepest and most intimate of levels. 
In making this choice the most rewarding of the choices to choose is to be who you really are at heart. Don't conform to being someone you aren't in the hopes of earning love from a certain amount of people, be who you are so that you will have a positive impact over masses of people from generation to generation. 
There will always be people in your life who will not like you for whatever reason, and there will always be people who refuse to try to understand you. But for every person you cant help inspire, there are many who will be inspired! 
Be that truly special person that you are deep down, live your life and become your best you!

Do something today

The future has yet to be written, have you yet picked up a pen? Your time to start is now! Stop making excuses, stop living in the past, and stop thinking about what little you have now. It isn't about what you have now, its about what you will have in the future if you are just willing to risk losing what little you have now. Remember that failure will come, and adversity will make its presence known as you try to better yourself as well. Never let these things stop you from becoming the person that you know you truly want to become. 
Your future hasn't been written yet, so why are you still debating on proceeding after your dreams or not? Don't let the fear of venturing into unknown stop you from reaching your potential. Be the author of your own story, and inspire others with it, write your own! SO... Do something today that your future self will thank you for.