Think before ink

So many of us are used to speaking before we actually think about what we say. Before we come out with a verbalized thought we should always make sure that the thought in which we are attempting to verbalize is one that actually means what our heart wants to tell. When we speak before we are truly ready things start to happen that we often wished didn't happen.
Learning to think before you speak is something that many must practice before they get a real grasp of the concept. Remember that you are who you are, and it isn't with your words that you will prove anything, most of the time, the proof is in how you act anyway, for that is what people truly examine. Remember that each word you speak is a seed that you plant for the future, be sure to plant the right ones.

depend on someone else

It is definitely ok to learn from people, and to be motivated and inspired by people, but to depend on someone else for your own well being when you are perfectly capable of doing what you need to do for yourself on your own, is no way to live. a few days ago i lived a miserable life because such a situations So, it's fact that; even your shadow leaves you when you're in darkness.
Make your own plans, do the things that you want to do in life, this is the only way to discover real joy and fulfillment

We are lost.

Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source.. anybody from us may lose many things in his/her life, but if we lose our dignity, our honor, then at this very moment we realize that we are lost.
We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind. In the faith that looks through death, in years that bring the accepting mind to believe that inside each one of us there are so many discrepancy, And just because we have a vision for ourself doesn't at all mean that we are living out our vision. We have to be able to follow who we are on the inside without hypocrisy, and the road to becoming who we desire to be will become as clear as day. We aren't all blessed with vision, but those who are must realize that having a wish isn't good enough; we have to be willing to try harder, live out our dreams and what remains to be done ..!

Where am I going

I longed to be happy. I wanted to be one of the happiest people in the entire world. I also desired meaning in life. I was looking for answers to the questions:

• "Who am I?"
• "Why in the world am I here?"
• "Where am I going?"

More than that, I also longed to be free. I wanted to be one of the freest people in the whole world. Freedom to me was not simply doing what you want to do -- anyone can do that. Freedom, for me, meant having the power to do what you know you ought to do. Most people know what they ought to do but don't have the power to do it. So I started looking for answers.

love is not enough...

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. .. Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.
It is not enough to stare up the steps - we must step up the stairs... And at some point in our life we will realize that youth was not enough. And love is not enough. And success is not enough. And, if we could achieve it, enough would not be enough... what i want to say is .. The slave may be happy sometimes but happiness is not enough. My dear friends if we want to build a relationship. Take trust as our bricks. And patience as our cement. But love is not enough...

Spinsterhood and ambitions of men

In the spinsterhood and ambitions of men i'm wondering ..!
Why woman doesn't accept the participation of another woman in her husband's, While love is not about being with the person you love its about being apart from them and still loving and caring for the person...!

Why do I need to forgive others?

In order to receive forgiveness for our sins, we need to forgive others. Forgiving others allows us to overcome feelings of anger, bitterness, or revenge. Forgiveness can heal spiritual wounds and bring the peace and love that only God can give.

Ambitions

One thing that we must learn in life is that there are really no short cuts to working hard and dedicating our life to achieving our dreams. There may be many shortcuts that are available to us, but ultimately these shortcuts are just paths that others have already beaten down before us. If we are really adamant about achieving our dreams in the manner that we desire, we have to be willing to follow exactly what is in our hearts to do, even if this means that we are subject to taking the longest most difficult road to get there.

Say It again

Carry me in your heart wherever you go I'm always here. You just have to look within... just listen close and you will hear the beating of my heart whisper .. Oh, You know we are truly blessed when our heart desires nothing more than what we already have and especially whom we share our life with and if distance between us were measured in terms of the heart ... we'd never be more than a minute apart.

Words

There is death and life in the power of the tongue though many of us unwillingly underestimate the power of our words. Words have tremendous power, especially if they are heard over and over again, and are instilled into a persons psyche. Words are like a powerful drug, because they have the power to either influence and inspire growth or to help cause destruction, words can weigh heavy on a person, and words may also help to liberate a person
From knowing this we must all be willing to choose our words carefully. Though it may be easier said than done, we have to all make efforts to not speak out against anyone behind their backs, and to only speak so that they will be able to hear it, receive it, and grow from it. Your words are powerful, always make sure to think and use words that build instead of destroy.So
Watch your thoughts for they become your words.
Watch your words for they become your actions.
Watch your actions for they become your habits.
Watch your habits for they become your character.
Watch your character for they become your destiny

When one is tired of everything ...!

I always judge my age by the amount of pain i feel when i'm come in contact with a new idea... Today i was watching a conversation between a friend to i and another young friend, i found myself willing to go through they chat and say to her friend " When I was your age, television was called book, Meaningless laugh was called impolite and ... so on; in fact there may be a time in life when one is tired of everything and feels as if all one does is wrong, and there maybe some truth in it also..
do you think this is a feeling one must try to forget and to banish, or is it 'the longing for to believe that everything happens happened for God reasons,' which one must not fear, but cherish and hope for more blessing  to see if it may bring us some good..! Is it 'the longing for God' which leads us to make a choice which we never regret..? Anyway let us keep courage and try to be patient and gentle. And not mind being eccentric, and make distinction between good and evil. finally a fly words must to ink before i forget it ... my dears " Be careful who you invest your time in. Nothing is worst than wasted time. It's the one thing you can't get back"

Burning bridges

To build a bridge is a big step, to walk across that bridge is a bigger achievement, but in order to continue your journey, you must light a torch, and burn that bridge down... but the saddest thing about burning a bridge is realizing that you can never get back to the beautiful place it used to take you.

Over the Rainbow

Be alive to every moment as today passes as yesterday and it becomes a history. Make today as gift of the moment and extract maximum of it. Let history be worth remembering to make future full of aspiration as today is going to be tomorrow. So time on the wing of today, yesterday and tomorrow takes flight to sky of glory. believe me happiness is not in our circumstances, but in ourselves. It is not something we see, like a rainbow, or feel, like the heat of the fire. Happiness is something we are and the thing to do for now, it seems to me, is to prepare yourself so you can be a rainbow in somebody else's cloud.

What that means ..!

This... someone who makes you realize three things: 
one, that home is not a place but a feeling. 
Two, that time is not measured by a clock, but by moments. 
And three, that heartbeats are not heard, but felt and shared.
it's the way that someone touches your heart and gives life a beautiful meaning.. telling that tomorrow you need someone to wipe away your tears no more,
Carry you in his heart wherever you go, he just have to look within to see how you close...
What that means ..!

Nothing, but incomplete dream

Getting over losing something that was very important to us, is a very challenging time for anyone, pain is never easy to cope with, but never let these times break you, be strengthened by what you have lost, and allow yourself to gain from these experiences.

Exchanging something with Life

In our lives we have to keep making efforts and strides to continually learn, and from this learning we must also figure out how to apply this newly found knowledge and wisdom to aspects in our lives everyday. Keep searching, and you will keep finding, for the more that you are willing to seek out of life, the more that life will be willing to give you.

What do you want?

Sometimes it's good to ask yourself this question and then see if your actions correspond with these same goals. For instance if you say you want straight A's how much time are you studying? If you want to be a better friend/spouse/coworker/relative how are you treating others? If you want more money, how are you managing the money you have now? Are you working toward what you want in life or are you just expecting it to happen? 
To grow and achieve your goals we must ensure we are working towards them. Try it for yourself. Set up a progress report on what you said you want and what you did for it. Make efforts to help to keep yourself accountable for your actions and how they directly correlate with your dreams, and be willing to change the things in your life that are delaying your progress from achieving the goals in life you may desire.

من يقرأ التاريخ

من يقرأ التاريخ لا يدخل اليأس إلى قلبه أبداً،
و سوف يرى الدنيا أياماً يداولها الله بين الناس.
الأغنياء يصبحون فقراء ،
والفقراء ينقلبون أغنياء،
وضعفاء الأمس أقوياء اليوم ،
وحكام الأمس مشردو اليوم ،
والقضاة متهمون ،
والغالبون مغلوبون
والفلك دوار والحياة لا تقف .
والحوادث لا تكف عن الجريان ..
والناس يتبادلون الكراسي ،
لا حزن يستمر.. ولا فرح يدوم

The art of dreaming

"Art never comes from happiness"
Some say that those who live a life with dreams, but never attempt to make them a reality, don't really have anything at all. When we live our lives it is important to not only dream, but to go after these dreams with a diligent effort as well. Without doing so then we will never have anything of real substance in our lives. Many fail to realize their dreams because they seem to worry mainly about society's beliefs instead of what they believe in their hearts to be true, or that could be true.
In order to realize our dreams we must not follow the most popular vote or most popular way of life, but instead we must follow our heart's vote, and the direction in which our hearts want us to go. Making a voyage may not be easy, and you may never go to the place that you truly set out to go, but a person will be farther satisfied with knowing that they gave it all at the end, instead of leaving life knowing they gave it nothing!

The land of hypocrisy

A hypocrite can be identified in three ways, when he speaks, he speaks lies, when makes a promise he breaks it and when he is trusted he betrays his trust. So, it is better to identify and stay away from a hypocrite,
Hypocrisy is the state of being in double standard and insincere in thoughts and actions. For a country, over population is not a problem unless it is people do not follow double standards. When every individual has two identities, it causes more trouble. To be your own self is the best help to you and for those around you. It is quite human nature to find fault with others while your own self is at fault.
So,.. !! What do you do If we have the ability to buy  treatment pills for all morality, which began to fade away from our society ... in your opinion; which kind of morality pills you want to buy..!