Selfishness

In searching for a superior moral justification for selfishness... You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.

in discover who we are..

Consciously or not, we are all on a quest for answers, trying to learn the lessons of life. We grapple with fear and guilt. We search for meaning, love, and power. We try to understand fear, loss, and time. We seek to discover who we are and how we can become truly happy.

There are either two winners or none.

Don't play with someone's feelings, you may win the game but you will surely lose the person for a lifetime... If you really needing person to be there for you, isn't like a game; once you have got what you want and you have won, you don't want to play anymore; It is keeping your commitments with that person even when you don't want to. Nothing is more important than keeping our word and stop playing games. In the words of Michael Jordan i remember he said, “Talent wins games, but teamwork and intelligence wins championships.”

tattoo

Never stuck in friends where loyalty is just a tattoo on them body, believe me it's impossible to see your reflection in boiling water. Similarly, you can't see the truths in your life in a state of anger; first keep your anger at the level of control and focus in the eye coz your ears will always hear the lies but your eyes will see the truth... personally i'd like to hurt someone with the truth better than killing them with lies.

How much time are you going to be given on this earth?

Remember that to be a person of intellect you must not only wish, and hope, but you must take action to make what you wish for, a reality.
How much time are you going to be given on this earth? Nobody ever knows the exact answer, which is the reason why we have to make the best use of every single moment that God gives us to breath. These are moments to promote positive growth within our self and the people around us. You don't have to be a motivational speaker to affect positive change in the people around you. 
A lot of times sparking a positive change in others is done easily by just doing the things in life that are meaningful to you with a 110% effort. Don't just make plans of how you want to spend your time each day. Follow through with these plans as much as possible, and make use of every valuable minute you are given as each day rolls along.

Time ... collecting souls

live as much as you can even to the fullest because sooner or later you will die.
love anybody you want, whenever you want, as thought you can, because at some point, Departing is waiting both of you.
Do whatever you willing to do, but remember sooner or later you will face the consequences of your actions and pay back with the same coin.

When things can go wrong..!

After a while you understand the way that things can go wrong in people's lives; you also recognize the ways people used to use others people... and some point you hope to turn your life up side down, so in my opinion you should learn to focus on the positives in your life and cut out the negatives because life will always present you with distractions and you will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks. Keep your focus. and believe me .. sometimes the craziest things happen at the worst times for the best reasons.

love.. truly

Blind yes because it has no eyes,
unconditional sure, because it has no age,
limitless yap .. it has no culture, no disabilities nor religion, 
It only takes two carrying persons to "think, say and do" together in harmony.. Maybe I don't know what I'd do without her or I don't know where I'd be, She's not just another woman but She is everything to me... you keeping ask me why i watch your eyes .. let me tell you something about love.. truly .. when i look into your eyes, i see everything i need.

Think before ink

So many of us are used to speaking before we actually think about what we say. Before we come out with a verbalized thought we should always make sure that the thought in which we are attempting to verbalize is one that actually means what our heart wants to tell. When we speak before we are truly ready things start to happen that we often wished didn't happen.
Learning to think before you speak is something that many must practice before they get a real grasp of the concept. Remember that you are who you are, and it isn't with your words that you will prove anything, most of the time, the proof is in how you act anyway, for that is what people truly examine. Remember that each word you speak is a seed that you plant for the future, be sure to plant the right ones.

depend on someone else

It is definitely ok to learn from people, and to be motivated and inspired by people, but to depend on someone else for your own well being when you are perfectly capable of doing what you need to do for yourself on your own, is no way to live. a few days ago i lived a miserable life because such a situations So, it's fact that; even your shadow leaves you when you're in darkness.
Make your own plans, do the things that you want to do in life, this is the only way to discover real joy and fulfillment

We are lost.

Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source.. anybody from us may lose many things in his/her life, but if we lose our dignity, our honor, then at this very moment we realize that we are lost.
We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind. In the faith that looks through death, in years that bring the accepting mind to believe that inside each one of us there are so many discrepancy, And just because we have a vision for ourself doesn't at all mean that we are living out our vision. We have to be able to follow who we are on the inside without hypocrisy, and the road to becoming who we desire to be will become as clear as day. We aren't all blessed with vision, but those who are must realize that having a wish isn't good enough; we have to be willing to try harder, live out our dreams and what remains to be done ..!

Where am I going

I longed to be happy. I wanted to be one of the happiest people in the entire world. I also desired meaning in life. I was looking for answers to the questions:

• "Who am I?"
• "Why in the world am I here?"
• "Where am I going?"

More than that, I also longed to be free. I wanted to be one of the freest people in the whole world. Freedom to me was not simply doing what you want to do -- anyone can do that. Freedom, for me, meant having the power to do what you know you ought to do. Most people know what they ought to do but don't have the power to do it. So I started looking for answers.

love is not enough...

The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. .. Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.
It is not enough to stare up the steps - we must step up the stairs... And at some point in our life we will realize that youth was not enough. And love is not enough. And success is not enough. And, if we could achieve it, enough would not be enough... what i want to say is .. The slave may be happy sometimes but happiness is not enough. My dear friends if we want to build a relationship. Take trust as our bricks. And patience as our cement. But love is not enough...

Spinsterhood and ambitions of men

In the spinsterhood and ambitions of men i'm wondering ..!
Why woman doesn't accept the participation of another woman in her husband's, While love is not about being with the person you love its about being apart from them and still loving and caring for the person...!

Why do I need to forgive others?

In order to receive forgiveness for our sins, we need to forgive others. Forgiving others allows us to overcome feelings of anger, bitterness, or revenge. Forgiveness can heal spiritual wounds and bring the peace and love that only God can give.

Ambitions

One thing that we must learn in life is that there are really no short cuts to working hard and dedicating our life to achieving our dreams. There may be many shortcuts that are available to us, but ultimately these shortcuts are just paths that others have already beaten down before us. If we are really adamant about achieving our dreams in the manner that we desire, we have to be willing to follow exactly what is in our hearts to do, even if this means that we are subject to taking the longest most difficult road to get there.

Say It again

Carry me in your heart wherever you go I'm always here. You just have to look within... just listen close and you will hear the beating of my heart whisper .. Oh, You know we are truly blessed when our heart desires nothing more than what we already have and especially whom we share our life with and if distance between us were measured in terms of the heart ... we'd never be more than a minute apart.

Words

There is death and life in the power of the tongue though many of us unwillingly underestimate the power of our words. Words have tremendous power, especially if they are heard over and over again, and are instilled into a persons psyche. Words are like a powerful drug, because they have the power to either influence and inspire growth or to help cause destruction, words can weigh heavy on a person, and words may also help to liberate a person
From knowing this we must all be willing to choose our words carefully. Though it may be easier said than done, we have to all make efforts to not speak out against anyone behind their backs, and to only speak so that they will be able to hear it, receive it, and grow from it. Your words are powerful, always make sure to think and use words that build instead of destroy.So
Watch your thoughts for they become your words.
Watch your words for they become your actions.
Watch your actions for they become your habits.
Watch your habits for they become your character.
Watch your character for they become your destiny

When one is tired of everything ...!

I always judge my age by the amount of pain i feel when i'm come in contact with a new idea... Today i was watching a conversation between a friend to i and another young friend, i found myself willing to go through they chat and say to her friend " When I was your age, television was called book, Meaningless laugh was called impolite and ... so on; in fact there may be a time in life when one is tired of everything and feels as if all one does is wrong, and there maybe some truth in it also..
do you think this is a feeling one must try to forget and to banish, or is it 'the longing for to believe that everything happens happened for God reasons,' which one must not fear, but cherish and hope for more blessing  to see if it may bring us some good..! Is it 'the longing for God' which leads us to make a choice which we never regret..? Anyway let us keep courage and try to be patient and gentle. And not mind being eccentric, and make distinction between good and evil. finally a fly words must to ink before i forget it ... my dears " Be careful who you invest your time in. Nothing is worst than wasted time. It's the one thing you can't get back"

Burning bridges

To build a bridge is a big step, to walk across that bridge is a bigger achievement, but in order to continue your journey, you must light a torch, and burn that bridge down... but the saddest thing about burning a bridge is realizing that you can never get back to the beautiful place it used to take you.