Facts about love..

When two people in love breakup, they cant be friends as they hurt each other. They cant be enemies as once they loved each other. The only thing they can be is to be the most familiar strangers.
Being hurt by someone whom you love is the worst thing that can happen to a person. If you love someone and your beloved hurts you, then you will be left broken, dejected and depressed. 
It really hurts you to the core, when your beloved hurts you in some or the other way. 
The worst way in which your beloved can possibly hurt is when your beloved calls it quits and ends the relationship. A broken relationship is very hard to erase from one’s mind and very difficult to deal with. One finds it hard to come over the memories of a broken relationship which was one going great guns. Being hurt by someone you love is something that you cannot easily deal with. It is difficult to get over the wounds of the heart. 
The only option you have is to nurse your wounds and let them heal with time. Time is perhaps the best healer. In the words of Daphne Rae, “I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.” And you have to accept the fact that some people will always stay in your heart, even if you are already gone in theirs.

Disappointment is

Disappointment is the gap that exists between expectation and reality. sometimes it's hard to wait around for something you know will never happen, but it's even harder giving up when it's all you want. Sometime we expect more from other because we would be willing to do that much for them. According to this We may hate someone's actions, but we really don't hate them. Hating a person is far different from hating what they have been doing without us. So,Never be disappointed by the friends who appreciate you, your gifts or your help by words. Protect and always respect the friends that demonstrate their appreciation by their actions... Actions speak louder than words.. Being disappointed is something that can cause extreme depression and sadness. You may just do anything mad or crazy when you things land up in extreme depression. You are disappointed when things don’t work out as per your plan or the results are simply not in your favor. Repetitive instances of failures can lead to extreme disappointment which often takes its toll on a person and gets the better of him. Instances of disappointment can be avoided but cannot be completely done away with. You need to know how to deal with failure and the disappointment that that follows failure invariably. Being disappointed is no solution of dealing with any problem that comes your way. Rather, you should deal with a problem bravely and try tackling it. Disappointment will lead to depression which can have several unlikely repercussions. So, avoid disappointment and depression. Take everything that comes your way and move on. In the words of Charles Morgan, “The art of living does not consist in preserving and clinging to a particular mode of happiness, but in allowing happiness to change its form without being disappointed by the change; happiness, like a child, must be allowed to grow up.” Looking for perfection in a person brings too much expectations. When your expectations are not met, too many disappointments come. Learn to appreciate a person's imperfections. In them, you'll find perfection, And we must accept disappointment, but we must never lose hope. For everything that is done in this world is done by hope.

Promises

"Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine" 
~Ralph Waldo Emerson

The meaning of life is to find your gift but The purpose of life is to give it away.  
 It's frustrating when you know the answers, while nobody bothers to ask you the right questions. 
It's so hard when you lose something ... Specially when we lose our own dreams, But we shouldn't lose the lesson behind 
 It's better to fight for something but never against something specially your own fate.
 Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak.  Sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. And I believe that; There is great power in letting go, and there is great freedom in moving on.Yes i agree with our great writer /R.W.E/ Most of the shadows of our life are caused by our standing in .... our own Sunshine.. So my dear Son, Promise only what you can deliver....  Then deliver more than you promise.. that's the way.. And always remember those words " Never be so much happy because you have something new, either never be sad because you lost something, life will keep going with or without you".

The past ideas

Every idea I get I have to deny, that's my way of testing it. but can I wait all my life on a street of broken dreams. Humans used to go to bed with their mistresses; Why I go there with my ideas.
I tell you everything that is really nothing, and nothing of what is everything, do not be fooled by what I am saying.  Please .. listen carefully and try to hear what I am not saying. In this dream calls life nobody really listens to anyone else, and if we try it, just for a while we'll see why. I'm still talking about what I did yesterday, While I haven't done much today that's the way i used to lose my present... step by step you'll enjoy living there, The past is a very good place to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there anymore.
The past is never there for me when I try to go back. yes  It exists, but only in my memory. By my hand I let the memories I have steal my present, Yes I surly know it's just recordings of things past, but it's still chains to bind me sometimes
  Now I having spent the better part of my life trying either to relive the past or experience the future before it arrives to my door, I have come to believe that;  in between these two extremes is ... peace. It cost my a life time to realize those two things
"Human life is purely a matter of deciding what's important to us." and  "It's not about what if .... it's what now".

Nothing happens by accident

Things happen for a reason basically means that everything happens for good. All the things that happen to us in our lives are somewhere down the line, destined to happen.
Failures, turns and twists and adversities might break us down and lessen or morale completely. But even we should learn to take them in our stride and learn from every bad experience too. Tracey Gold had once remarked, “I don't believe things happen in vain. I believe they happen for a reason.” Everything that happens to us in our lives happens for good and teaches us a lesson. Perhaps one should learn from every kind of experience whether good or bad. People who keep their chin up even in the most testing circumstances can always end up making a lot out of their lives.
Believe me ... in our life Nothing happens by accident; you are exactly where God wants you to be.

My young child

I remember once i read that ..
"Children are the living messages we send to a time we will not see".
/ Neil Postman /
My young child asked me .. daddy what is the different between house and home.. to a while i felt with lost but finally i replied her,, See It takes hands to build a family house, but only pure hearts can build a home.
i do believe in what i said but sometimes our children can ask questions that a wise man cannot answer. And While we try harder to teach our children all about life, Our children ... teach us what life is all about.

I miss you

I know that we are miles away from each other, but the feelings in my heart for you will never change, even if you go farther than that. You will be in my heart forever... 
More than the Sun misses the sky at night.
I miss you

Life

Life is what you make it. Life gets complicated when you take it too seriously and are bogged down by challenges that come their way. Complicated life is self-created and you can make your life happening by staying upbeat all the time. Life is beautiful and "complicated life" is just a farce. Man is the creator and destroyer of his own life. Man is responsible for scripting his own destiny. 
One should try not to make things difficult and take things lightly in life along with maintaining a sense of gratitude for all that we are blessed with. Having a life is a big blessing in itself. Complicated life can be simplified by going with the flow and accepting whatever happens to us, taking it in our stride, and moving on. Let go of things and negative feelings like anger, jealousy, and frustration. Treat your heart like a garden, plant the seeds of faith, hope, and love in the same. Complicated life will simplify tremendously if you learn from your mistakes and learn to face life's challenges valiantly.

Life test

Your life begins to end the moment you start being silent about the things that matter. Now listen.. Life will keep bringing you the same test, over and over and over again, til you pass it...! My dears Life becomes real only when we begin to face and solve our own problems. Until then we only swim in circles in a large fantasy world which tends to make us very tired of living.

Wide Shout

There comes a time when you have to stand up and shout: This is me damn it! I look the way I look, think the way I think, feel the way I feel, love the way I love! I am a whole complex package. Take me... or leave me. Accept me - or walk away! Do not try to make me feel like less of a person, just because I don't fit your idea of who I should be and don't try to change me to fit your mold. If I need to change, I alone will make that decision. When you are strong enough to love yourself 100%, good and bad - you will be amazed at the opportunities that life presents you.

Acceptance

Acceptance, though a hard thing to do, is an essential thing that helps you to improve in life. When you accept a friend as such with his plus and minuses, you gain friendship. When you accept a past deed, you prepare yourself to face the future, when you accept a situation, you become more comfortable. Acceptance is the essence of life and if we try to shun away from acceptance, life becomes a bed of thorns. 
once a great writer said, "acceptance is not submission; it is an acknowledgement of the facts of the situation. It also helps you to decide your future course of action". 
Those who accept things that cannot be changed are as wise as grass that grows in the riverbeds and those who refuse to accept are like trees there. When a storm blows, the grass accepts and survives but the tree falls to the power of the wind. Acceptance is an important character that we have to inculcate in Egypt, to survive successfully in this world. 

Apologizing

Apologizing is required when you feel a lot of guilt within after doing something wrong. Apologizing makes sense only when you sincerely realize your mistakes and take lessons from them too. Apologizing is a means of confessing that what you did was wrong and that you want to make up for it as well. 
But, at times, our emotions prevail over our mind and we keep apologizing and pleading innocence when we hold ourselves accountable for some mad action or misdeed. However, one has to draw the line somewhere. Apologizing at the cost of one’s own self-respect is foolhardy. If you apologize to someone and the other person does not give any heed to your apology, then it is worthless apologizing and lowering your self-esteem and dignity. Your efforts are futile and may not reap any fruit. You end up disgracing yourself badly and the over-apologizing takes a huge toll on your self-respect, eventually. We should know that; nothing wrong with apologizing, but saying I'm sorry does nothing when you continue to make the same mistakes.

I'm here for you

Kindness is the master key that opens every heart. If you are fumbling for the right words, like a late night search for keys, start with I care, I understand and I'm here for you. You will open the door to healing and guarded hearts will be unlocked. Turn the key of kindness with words of encouragement right now. and always remember that; We may not be pretty, we may not rich, We may don't have a perfect body, but we should have a good and warm heart for those who care about us. my dears... In this world of heartache and tears, if you find someone who brings joy to your heart and makes life worth living, hold onto them, and never ever let them go.

Fake people

Sometimes people in your life will try to expose what's wrong with you because they can't handle what's right with you!
Sometimes everyone you fight may not be your enemy, because sometimes everyone that helps you may not be your friend.!

From heart

The best way to find what matters the most is to lose something precious to you. and It's nice to look back in your past when you see it as a lesson, not as something to regret. You know when life gets stressful, never forget the things you should remember, and remember the things you should forget. Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards. Today I will. Pray more, worry less, laugh more, stress less, hug more and hurry less.
O,.. dear God, I woke up, I am healthy, I am alive, thank you. I apologize for all my complaining. I'm truly grateful for all you've done.

أعظم ألم في الحياة

أعظم الم في الحياة ليس أن تموت, ولكن بأن يتجاهلك الآخرون

بأن تخسر صديقاً تحبه جداً لتكسب آخر لا يكترث لك أبدً

أعظم الم في الحياة ليس بأن تموت, لكن بأن تُنسى

حينما تطلع أحدهم على أعمق افكارك ثم يضحك ساخراً في وجهك

حينما يكون أصدقائك مشغولين جداً عن مواساتك عندما تحتاج لأحد كي يرفع من معنوياتك

حينما يبدو لك أن الشخص الوحيد الذي يهتم لأمرك هو أنت

الحياة مليئة بالألم , لكن هل يتحسن الوضع ً

 هل سيبالي الناس بأمر بعضهم البعض و يخصصون وقتاً لأولئك الذين يحتاجون اهتمامهم؟

لكل واحد منا دور لابد أن يلعبه في هذه المسرحية التي نسميها الحياة

على كل واحد منا واجب للإنسانية وهو أن نخبر أصدقائنا بأننا نحبهم

إذا كنت لا تهتم لأمر أصدقائك, فلن يعاقبك احد

لكن سيتجاهلونك و ينسونك بكل بساطة تماما كما فعلت بالآخرين

The Greatest Pain in Life

The greatest pain in life, is not to die, but to be ignored

To lose the person you love so much to another who doesn't care at all

The greatest pain in life, is not to die, but to be forgotten

When you show someone your innermost thoughts and he laughs in your face

For friends to always be too busy to console you when you need someone to lift your spirits

When it seems like the only person who cares about you, is you

Life is full of pain, but does it ever get better? 

Will people ever care about each other, and make time for those who are in need? 

Each of us has a part to play in this great play we call life

Each of us has a duty to mankind to tell our friends we love them

If you do not care about your friends you will not be punished

You will simply be ignored... forgotten... as you have done to others

Believers

The believers, in their love, mercy, and kindness to one another are like a body, if any part of it is ill, the whole body shares its sleeplessness and fever.. Personally I grow to believe that; the most perfect of the believers in faith are the best of them in morals. And the best among them are those who are best to their wives.

Sky and I

The city has fallen: only the rain and roads remain.
In Winter the streets were darken with an echo thunder and lightning .
Sorrowing over the times, the home are weeping.
The birds startled my heart in fear of departing.
All the birds have flown up and gone.. it's too cold; 
A lonely cloud floats leisurely by... but, We never tire of looking at 
each other ... Only, 



Sky and I.

Great effort in the wrong place

It is said that; once a man who lost his keys somewhere and took him looking and asking people about it !!
Does anyone saw my keys ..!
So, some people surround him asked .. Do you lost it here ... he said, no i lost it in another place.. then one of they asked him ..and Why you're looking for it here ..!
He said, because the light here bright and I've a clear vision to be sure it's not here.
What i meant is .. If great effort organized in the wrong place .. it does not affect the outcome

Kindness flaunted

To carry a heavy rock to the summit of a mountain is easier than to receive a kindness which is flaunted. The bane of a generous action is to mention it because It is better to refuse a kindness than to be reminded of it.
Personally I would not accept the whole world if I were to suffer the humiliation of being constantly reminded of the gift. You know to bestow and flaunt a kindness, and to be stingy and refuse to do an act of kindness, are equally bad. just remember when you do a kindness hide it, and when a kindness is done to you proclaim it.

In that special way

To hold you close to have you near
To have my breath against your ear
Whispering the words I long to say
Being able to show you my passion in that special way,
The loving, caressing, kissing would feel so right
Expressing our love right through the night
Our bodies joined as one in pure ecstasy
Thrusting, moaning, loving as You become part of me
Reaching that point there is no going above
Our bodies explode together in out throes of love
After, cuddling, laughing, talking all part of us too
I look up smile and say I love you.

True nobility

Yesterday, i got a friendship with a new friend, And as usual i asked him my friendship key question..
What would you like to be the most ... Being right or Being kind, But the answer was completely unpredictable .. "He replied" ... being polite...  that was the most nobility answer i had.. So, what is nobility..! 
True nobility lies in high character and refined manners, not in noble birth or ancient pedigree.
A noble man is he who aims at noble ends... not he who glories in an ancestry moldering in the dust.
A noble man is noble though he come to want, and a base man is base though he walks on pearls because a lion is a lion though his claws be clipped, and a dog is a dog though he wear a collar of gold... He who disregards his own honor gets no good from an honorable lineage... And like they said " A branch tells of what stock it comes"

Humility ..

Humility is that line of conduct which is a mean between overbearing pride on the one hand and abject servility on the other, as economy is the middle term between extravagance and avarice. in fact humility is the crown of nobility, a ladder to honor, and a means of procuring love and esteem.

Veracity

Once i heard that "Veracity brings peace to the heart".
 If keeping to the truth though may harm thee, i think keeping away from falsehood though it may profit thee because no man's religion can be right until his heart become right, nor can his heart become right until his tongue is right. i always imagine if...  falsehood saves from trouble truth saves much more even if people naked you with ignorant .. An ignorant man who is true is better than a clever man who is false.
A man can be almost perfect only .. when he speaks the truth and acts according to the truth. i used to tell my daughters' if falsehood saves from trouble truth saves much more.
In my humble personal opinion there are two kinds of truthfulness, and the greatest of them is that which may do thee harm. Do you know; If truth and falsehood were pictured...  they would be represented by a terrible lion and a cunning fox. And it is better to die a truthful man than to live the life of a liar. So, my dear "When thou speaks .. be truthful, and when thou acts .. be gentle" 

Father meeting

A dear Person today asked me, How can I define, true man..! To be honest with you, A thousand words contended in my mind.. to a while then I replied him; Watch his friends they are a mirrors to his soul, and if you can't watch his face expressions it may be more eloquent that than his tongue, If you still can't .. The expressions of his eyes will show what is it his heart, But to define him you should know that; He who is wise, and consults others, is a whole man; He who has a wise opinion of his own, and seeks no counsel from others, is half a man; and He who has no opinion of his own, and seeks no advice, is no man at all. My dear' When men .. consult together, they are led by the wisest among them.. he smiles a wide one and replied; And Consult a man of experience, for he gives you what has cost him much, and for which you give nothing. Then.. with a smile in his eyes he said; "Yes Son God bless your way but Let your counselor be one who fears God"

Gratitude

Be grateful to him who has done you good, and do good to him who is grateful to you... because he who is unthankful for little is unthankful for much. you know I believe that; gratitude takes three forms
A feeling in the heart, 
An expression in words, 
And a giving in return.

Neighborhood

I prefer a near neighbor to a distant brother, because a good neighbour is he who isn't only harmless, but bears harm with patience... I also prefer to go a mile to see a sick man or go two miles to make peace between two men and go thousand miles to call on a friend. but you know .. the best of men is a rich man..  who visits the poor, and the worst is ... a poor man who visits the rich... So many thoughts run in my mind but as crystal is only one for now ... We should being friendly to our relations, but do not depend on our relationship that will decrease our disappointment..!

Envy

 "Do not overrate what you have received, nor envy others. He who envies others does not obtain peace of mind". Buddha 
At my family home today, i got a moments with my dear father, i asked him about what is the difference between envy and emulation ..! a while passed and with along breath he said .. See'
The difference between envy and emulation is, that in the first the desire is for the cessation of a good enjoyed by another, and in the second the desire is for the possession of a similar good... and so many times every favoured man is envied. .. Beware of envy, for it shows itself in you, not in him whom you envy'
So i replied ... Father; then..
Envy is a disease which does more harm to the envious than to the envied... All enmity may be overcome except that which comes from envy... There can be no peace in the heart of an envious man.
Envy may be cured only by a sure knowledge that it is a cause of much pain to you and no evil to him whom you envy... so you must shun it if you would not be an enemy to yourself and a friend to your enemy.
He who strains his neck to look at one above him gets nothing but pain.
Envy consumes man, as rust corrodes iron.
Envy no man except him who is good. 

Mind thoughts

Most of our thoughts are just wishes. Maybe the thoughts of the wise are more trustworthy than the convictions of fools but if we are doubtful of a thing, we should let it alone.. or remove our doubts by inquiry. once .. ago.. my father told me "A thing that is heard is not like a thing that is seen, so do not ever believe all that you hear". life passed so quickly but i realize that it is not wise to be sure of a thing only because i think so.. and where there is much difference of opinion it is difficult to know the truth.
Truly i feel that; To think well of others is a religious duty and he who thinks well of others is a happy man, he who has an evil thing in him thinks all men are like him. If a man think well of you, make his thought true.
A great poet says: "It was my habit to think well of others until experience taught me otherwise. most men think well of themselves, and this is self-delusion. .. just " Be well with God, with what you believe in....  and fear nothing" ..... now just remember that .... "your thoughts are just your wishes" 
Always think positive 

Anger

The first part of anger ... is madness and the second is regret. Passion and blindness are inseparable mates. Beware of anger, for it ends in the humiliation of apology. 
Anger leads to all kinds of evil. When you are angry be silent.
It is not a trait of noble character to be hasty either in anger or in revenge. The anger of a fool reveals itself in what he says, and the anger of a wise man in what he does. Quarrelsomeness is a contemptible habit. Call not yourself a human so long as you are angry.

Be Patience

Patience is one-half of religious duty.
There are two kinds of patience one is for something which you desire, 
the other in something which you hate; and he is a strong man who can combine them both.
Patience is mostly needed at the first shock.
Grief is dispelled by patience.
The device of a man who hath no device is patience.
So long as there is a claimant, no just case is ever lost.
Patience is a bitter cup, which the strong alone can drink.
A misfortune is one, but it becomes two to the impatient.
Patience is one of the gifts of heaven.
He who is impatient to hear one word will have to listen to many words.
Difficulties can be overcome only by patience.
It is a good omen when your messenger is delayed.
Rarely does a patient man fail in obtaining that which he seeks.
Be patient... every cloud dissipates, and every evil which does not continue is a small thing.
He who receives the strokes is not like him who counts them.

Nobility

It's something lies in high character and refined manners, not in noble birth or ancient pedigree. It's true nobility 
A noble man is he who aims at noble ends not he who glories in an ancestry mouldering in the dust. A noble man is noble though he come to want, and a base man is base though he walks on pearls. A lion is a lion though his claws be clipped, and a dog is a dog though he wear a collar of gold.
He who disregards his own honour gets no good from an honourable lineage.
Learning and high principles take the place of noble birth, and cover the shame of a low origin.
A branch tells of what stock it comes.

Violin woman

The Virtuous Woman inspire you but brings only the good,
The Smart woman interest you.. but she lose her femininity through time,
The beautiful woman attracts you for sure but she like a  piece of candy sooner or later she will lose her taste,
But the kindness woman always takes your heart ... 
Sensitive women like violin .. He who can't improves play it, will hears a melodies don't please him.
Sensitive woman like a rare coin .. when you got her .. you will never spend.

Hearts

Our hearts like pots boil including, tongues like spoons ..
Look at the man while speaking, his tongue scoop you of the heart.

Silence

What a beautiful life when it gives you someone can read your silence

love and time

Between love and time there is an eternal relationship
Love kills time very quickly and time kills love very slowly.
Love and time cannot be bought but only can be spent.

broken pieces

Always remember that; this life gives to take, gathering to dispersion, and grow sorrows in my hearts, Sometimes i wish that one day someone is going to hug me so tight and all my broken pieces will stick back together again, Sometimes i just need to stop making excuses and start looking for solutions. i'm sure there is always a way. It may not be exactly how i picture it in my head, but i think .. if i just start, i'll get there nut how i can start today while i'm still have much broken pieces of yesterday

Bridge of hope

The most beautiful bridges carried out by the humans; that built a bridge of hope over the Sea of despairing and frustration.

life will be running smoothly

A pain in your heart can not be seen by others so let your silent suffering be an example for others to follow because people do not always get whatever they need or expect, Their best way would go forward it's the way to live with what they have, for only their life will be running smoothly

Wild Friendship "Our Fake life"

What's your opinion on the whole matter? 

Do you think it's best to just assume that everyone on the internet is a pedophile just to stay on the safe side? To make friendly conversation with people, but don't get *too* friendly? Do you think it's possible to be so confident that a person on the internet is exactly who they say they are that you feel safe adding them on sites like Facebook, telling them where you live, or even meeting them in person? Do you find it creepy that people can actually become friends with random strangers on social networks? Have you ever become really good friends with a person online? 
If a person you have become very good friends with on the internet wanted to meet you in person, how would you feel? Go right ahead and meet them, or still feel hesitant?

Pride

Behind the facade of our big egos we constantly do hide
And pride of five letters is only that just pride
And some will even tell you pride comes before a fall
From life we have been learning from before we learned to crawl, 
The thing we refer to as pride not easily understood
A little pride is necessary but too much pride not good
Pride can lead to big egos and snobbish self conceit
A truly humble person is one you don't often meet
The self opinionated and self conceited never known to be rare
Those who promote their egos in the bigger World out there
From the seeds of a big ego success is often grown
A humble quiet achiever is one I have not known
A little pride is necessary and self esteem okay
But too much pride can lead to arrogance and that seems sad to say. 

God

When I kneel down to pray
then I only think of the God above us
My both hands are stretched out wide
and my eyes are closed when I pray for Him
God, I know you are there for us
therefore, I have no fear when I am close to you
God. I know the prayers can not be answered
unless they are prayed
therefore, I have no strides when I pray of you 
God, I know prayer brings my life worth living
therefore, I have no worries when I follow your precious precepts
God, I know your homes whichever it is ..  gives me a shelter of peace
therefore, I have no loneliness when I am under your shelter
God, I know you will accept my prayers and bless me
therefore, I have no more tears rolling on my eyes
God, I know your mercy is everlasting and the truth lives on us
therefore, I have no fail in my life when I choose your path to live. 

i never think .. i feel

When I met you first, I know you are made for me
Your charming personality won me from that day you are in my heart
My heart is filled with full of adore and want to fall in your arms
When I think of you .. Just a wonderful feelings run through my heart
You've touched my heart with your gentle words, your soul
You've touched my life with gentleness and filled with full of passion
I feel your beauty in my heart, 
I feel you are with me every moment and I can not find anyone else
Please released me

The reality

Each one of us has a time machine inside,
Whenever he travels into the past, we call it "Memories"
Whenever he travels into the future, we call it "Dreams"
but the problem is .. 
while he tries hard to start his journey through times..!! 
he's losing the present, Which we call "The reality"